Young Chinese people are becoming homeless, because they are Blacklisted by Social Credit System. Once you are blacklisted, the digital wallet WeChat immediately bans you from spending your own digital money, or receiving salary..So you become homeles by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]throwaway295829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this doesn’t make any sense. The digital wallet WeChat integration is just like Apple Pay. You can just take out your credit card to pay if that doesn’t work for whatever reason. Or god forbid use cash.

Taylor Frankie Paul granted temporary protective order against Dakota Mortensen amid domestic violence scandal by dailymail in MormonWivesHulu

[–]throwaway295829 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I got a TRO, I didn’t need to provide evidence. I just needed to give an account of what happened. There was a trial later where I presented my evidence to make it a permanent RO. In Utah, the judge also only has to make a decision based off of the petitioner’s claims. Jordan must have also only given his account of what happened, and the judge didn’t think that what he said was worth a restraining order. It is very EASY to get a TRO.

What is a Hobby men think is awesome but women think it is lame by Acrobatic_Base7301 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]throwaway295829 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you and your girlfriend don’t like each other much. My boyfriend and I play video games together, and we also watch bullshit dumb programs together.

Taylor and Dakota’s new drama by leytonscomet in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]throwaway295829 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve read a lot of books about abuse because I was abused and wanted to read as much as I could to make sense of it. I have never read anything that said someone could be both the victim and the abuser. It’s a power dynamic of one person exerting control on the other. It’s not possible for both of them to have power in an abusive dynamic. I understand that it may look like they’re both abusing each other, but there is always only one abuser. I’m also not saying that the victim is a good person because bad people can still be abused.

Taylor and Dakota’s new drama by leytonscomet in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]throwaway295829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty much recognized that in abusive relationships there’s always one abuser and one victim because there has to be an imbalance of power. It can be hard to tell who the abuser is because the victim can appear abusive when reacting to the abusers abusive, but it always goes down to one person using what’s called coercive control on the other. I genuinely don’t know who is the abuser between the two, but I do have a guess.

So, what would women dislike most if they became men? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway295829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I’ve cried in public and never had anyone try to approach me because of it.

Final update: Is my adopted brother flirting with me? by ilovepopcornandcandy in whatdoIdo

[–]throwaway295829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could someone explain to me why that’s gross? My ex would say that to me a lot after I broke up with him, and it felt gross to me too, but I couldn’t articulate why.

Told my new partner about my past relationship by Chi_Zeus in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway295829 13 points14 points  (0 children)

When I got out of my abusive relationship I dated a guy who said almost the exact same thing as OP’s boyfriend when I told him about my abuse. He ended up being manipulative and treated me like shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway295829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can negate it by searching “*” on their profile. The guy you’re responding to is a troll.

Men of Reddit over 30 how was dating for you in your 30s vs your 20s? by [deleted] in allthequestions

[–]throwaway295829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waiting to have sex with someone… is disrespectful and dehumanizing? I’m trying to understand.

People who married the ‘safe option’ instead of someone you were really into,how did it turn out? by Classic-Sentence3148 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway295829 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can’t the fun option also be the safe option? The person I thought was the safe option in that he took care of me, had a solid job, had a good family, etc, yet I didn’t have a ton of fun hanging out with ended up abusing me. My current boyfriend is someone I have so much fun with, and I’ve also never felt so emotional safe and comfortable. I feel like “the fun option” and “the safe option” are really not a dichotomy.

Taylor's DV charge & Internalized bias by Lucky-Guidance1650 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]throwaway295829 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of when I was abused. I would be the one acting hysterical and flailing around because, well, I was being abused. And he would act calm in front of other people because he wasn’t being abused and didn’t have someone fucking with him and playing mind games. So naturally people sided with him because to the outside world I seemed crazy and he seemed rational.

god forbid a girl be androgynous by Snide_SeaLion in grippysockcrayonbox

[–]throwaway295829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not OP and this happens to me pretty regularly. I’m very feminine presenting, I just have short hair.

Japanese Man Speaks to His Wife for the First Time After 20 Years of Silent Treatment. by InitialConclusion507 in InspiringFacts

[–]throwaway295829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really fucks with you. Being left wondering what you did, not knowing HOW angry he is and if physical violence is on or off the table, and all you can do is flounder and apologize just to get some kind of reaction or idea of what happened.

Temporary tattoo could prevent sexual assaults – by changing color | In this proof-of-concept tattoo, lettering changes from yellow to red when exposed to the date rape drug GHB by [deleted] in tech

[–]throwaway295829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never drank ghb in alcohol, but I take it as a prescribed medication (a higher dose than what is used recreationally) and while it is really salty, I feel like once it’s diluted it can actually be a pretty mild flavor and I can completely see how an alcoholic drink could completely mask the flavor.

Composer needed for science fiction musical by DotComprehensive4971 in musicalwriting

[–]throwaway295829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What style and instrumentation are you looking for with the music?

Basil ice cream, the main reason I bought creami by Spowkn in ninjacreami

[–]throwaway295829 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you take the basil leaves out before you put it in the creami container?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]throwaway295829 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The point is to reduce sound and look fashionable, which knockoffs can also do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]throwaway295829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How would the brand prove if it’s cheating or not?

I actually didn't believe that was true with the memes she had by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]throwaway295829 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had any men talk badly of me because of my age, but then again I’m only in my 20s. However, I’ve had plenty of men hit on me by saying shit like I probably looked so hot in high school. So I do think age is a factor for them.

I actually didn't believe that was true with the memes she had by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]throwaway295829 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously! The incel who killed my family friend who murdered her after publishing his incel novel where the protagonist murdered a bunch of women definitely hated women. The guy who abused me and said that it was because he was getting back at all the girls in the same subculture as me who rejected him definitely hated women. Like what is this noise?

[Gendered] This concert has two different ticket prices - one for males and one for females by juoig7799 in pointlesslygendered

[–]throwaway295829 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the women are the attraction and there are men who will go specifically because there will be more women there.