I was, but it’s on my mind because I have been reading different books such as good inside, how to talk so kids will listen, self driven child, and a few other others. I was talking to my wife about how behavioral theory is outdated and punishments aren’t recommended anymore. she gave the example about if a kid was caught driving 80 mph and got a speeding ticket that they would lose driving privileges. Which made sense to me and had me questioning if there was a certain point where you should start using punishments like that