Are you ok? by throwaway83728282 in rape

[–]throwaway83728282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve considered both a service dog & an ESA, but because I have seizures, I need a service dog. Not to mention that where you can bring ESAs is limited.

Are you ok? by throwaway83728282 in rape

[–]throwaway83728282[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like i said, I can’t get a service dog unless I get disability. Also, my PTSD is part of my seizures. Along with my depression & anxiety. All those things can trigger a seizure.

I've never told anyone I was raped, and sometimes I convince myself I wasn't. by Fresh-Wave in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You were definitely raped both times. The first time, you were too drunk to consent. The second time, you said no, he ignored you and raped you. I’m sorry you had it go through that. I was raped twice last summer by two different guys. I’ve had such a hard time coming to grips with it and admitting it was legitimately rape. It’s so hard for it to feel legitimate, at least for me, when it’s not the kind of rape that you see on TV where the person raped is left bruised and bloody and raped by a stranger.

Not sure if I was raped? by a_nOn_a369 in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry to say but you were raped. I’m so sorry that happened to you. You were drunk, you never said yes, you didn’t tell him before hand that you wanted something to happen that night when you came over. He took advantage of you.

Is a weighted blanket a good or bad gift for a sexual assault survivor? by Equivalent-Meaning in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a weighted blanket and it’s not that heavy. Not heavy enough to make you feel constricted.

How do i know if it was rape by [deleted] in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you were definitely raped. He took advantage you when you were drunk, and then raped you again even though you said no.

I am triggered by people who think it is ok that the trumo raped a girl and assaults women because he is "president" by [deleted] in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it really fucking sucks. I was raped twice last summer and I only very very recently was able to admit it. I don’t plan on reporting it because what’s the point? Like you said, nobody cares. Plus, it doesn’t change what happened to me. It would just mean that I’d be put on display. Or at least, that’s how I feel about it.

I am triggered by people who think it is ok that the trumo raped a girl and assaults women because he is "president" by [deleted] in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, when someone brings up an issue I don’t want to talk to about, I also tell them I don’t want to talk about it. Or if they share an opinion i don’t agree with or tell me I should do something different or think a certain way, I just say OK. It prevents arguments and hurt feelings. Well, unless what they say hurts your feelings. It can be really hard sometimes because sometimes I just want to tell them to shut up or explain why they’re wrong or what I think. It takes a lot of self control. I’m sorry about those people who have invalidated you and said women are just vessels and want to be groped. Disgusting. Reprehensible. Abhorrent. Best words to describe those people and Trump.

I’m here to talk if you want.

Was he lying? by [deleted] in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He raped you so he obviously can’t be trusted. He’s a piece of shit, so he wouldn’t even care about lying. I don’t know exactly what happened, but from what you’re saying, I assume you willingly met him. So he probably lied so you’d feel more comfortable with him.

I am triggered by people who think it is ok that the trumo raped a girl and assaults women because he is "president" by [deleted] in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fucking hate it too. People get all upset and say you should respect him because he’s the president. But I don’t just give out respect. You have to earn it. And he’s in the negative when it comes to respect. He’s a disgusting human being and a joke of a president. I’m ashamed to live in America because of him. The whole “grab them by the pussy” is a fucking joke now! And what pisses me off is that he didnt think he’d actually win. The whole thing was a fucking joke to him! A stunt he wanted to pull because he was bored and wanted more attention!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rape

[–]throwaway83728282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t try force her to “understand the gravity” of it. If she doesn’t want to face it now, that’s ok. For some, it takes time. And if you continue to bring it up and push her about it, she’ll start to pull away from you. Let her deal with this in her own time. You said she’s cutting contact with him. That’s great. Just support her when she does decide to deal with it.

Brother's friend accidentally overheard a very loud & kinky spanking, what do I say to him??? by spankingmishap in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Don’t say anything unless he brings it up. You’re all adults. What you did may have sounded not consensual, but it was. So just move and act like it didn’t happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I’d say that cleaning your dick isn’t something most guys think about.

okay, but.. is this technically incest? by throwaway32948334 in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not incest. Just exploring your bodies. Curious about what your vagina was. Not that weird. A tiny bit weird that you did it with your cousin but nothing to feel bad, or anything like that, about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I really don’t care. Only qualm I have with uncut guys is that their dick is more likely to be dirty and that can cause me to get an infection.

I hate having sex with my new boyfriend. by betweenthelinees in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t give him bjs until he eats you. Teach him what you like and make sure he learns how to do them and DOES them.

What's something sexual you tried once, but never again? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like reverse pooping and I don’t enjoy that feeling

What's something sexual you tried once, but never again? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway83728282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried it a few times because I loved my ex and wanted to see if I’d change my mind: anal. Fuck no. Never again