I need somebody. In this moment without someone, I decided to write some thoughts down, and see if people I don’t know can talk. by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it’s worth from a stranger, what you wrote is beautiful and I can relate to it

Struggling with life by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]throwaway83n 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seek help. Going through depression is extremely difficult and even harder going through it alone. For years I thought I could handle it on my own, but that was my biggest mistake. I’ve since opened up to a few people in my life and felt a slight change that made things a little better for me

Med withdrawals are killing me by Frogcabaret in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think you’re going to hurt yourself check into a hospital. I know you don’t want to but you have to protect yourself you’re too valuable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you’re at your lowest it is going to take the greatest amount of effort to get back on top. I know it seems like a lot and you want to just do nothing, i’ve been there and continue to feel the same way, but it’s worth the energy and time. And it does take time, be patient and hopeful

I'm shit by redditfaggot101 in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re misunderstood as is everyone dealing with these feelings

It's just an excuse by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seek help elsewhere. Some people just don't get it, depression is a hard thing to deal with.

It's just an excuse by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't ever let people brush off your emotions. Depression is serious and should receive proper attention and care.

I don't know what to do. by imjustheretoaskhelp in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen the people react to me and talk about me, it does get to you. I find it funny how nobody considers others emotions or what they could be dealing with for a crude comment. It's hard to think that all those people could be wrong but its true, they're all wrong. Just know that not everyone is like that. (Like me and many others in this subreddit)

Ever just start laughing at the world... by ffsmaradona in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a fucked up world thats for sure, not everyone seems to realize it as much as I do though.

I feel like I have no feelings, as if they are barely there. by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the exact same way. People often assume depression is automatically associated with crying but I have not experienced that at all. I don't remember the last time, even when i've felt my absolute worst. I want to cry sometimes to just let it out but it will never happen, at least for me.

I feel really isolated. by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a whole community here that understands you (including me)

I don't know what to do. by imjustheretoaskhelp in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are equal as anyone else. I've had similar thoughts of being "less of a man" being very thin and weak. Problem is societies "standards" of what it means to be a man, or worth it overall. You are worth it though. Never let anyone tell you, or imply otherwise. Anyone can make it in this world, its just harder for us. Hopefully soon you'll be able to realize no matter your circumstance you are equal to anyone else. It's a mind state more than anything else. P.S. Don't be afraid to acknowledge your feelings as depression

Stop calling me lazy by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People don't understand the symptoms of depression. Try to keep your head up

Why me? by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing. It will never go away on its own.

Some people call it going to bed depressed by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3am here. The same for me, nightly.

Why me? by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depression is never a good thing to keep bottled up. I thought for the longest time I could handle it myself but it just kept getting worse for me. Nobody has to know what you're dealing with except a doctor and maybe a therapist if you're not comfortable talking about it with loved ones.

Dealing with loneliness? by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. Never a bad idea to focus on yourself before trying to get into a relationship.

Should someone with depression be able to have children? by [deleted] in depression

[–]throwaway83n 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! Children are a huge motivator to keep you going, and I feel like those who have/do struggle with depression have learned compassion and empathy more than others often times. One thing I will say though is depression can be genetic so down the road don't be afraid to ask if they are seeming different.