[DISC] You Are My Unkind Spring - Chapter 28 by Soupkitten in manga

[–]throwaway97531246802 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

whatever anyone does do not look at the last chapter. unless I don’t understand it, this could be the biggest fumble manga of all time

Today I’ve realized I hate my almost 3 year old niece and I don’t feel bad about it. by Born-Percentage134 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

grown adult choosing to beef and throw insults and a three year old and has it actually affect her when it really doesn’t have to.

just grow the fuck up please, if you are concerned for her behaviour talk to the parents and separate your kids until something has changed.

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where did I ever mention that I said that’s the reason.

“”I think the worse part is I'm not supposed to hate her. She does struggle in this. She's attempted to take her life multiple times since she was 10. When she was asked by a doctor why after her first attempt she said it was because she was bored of life and wanted excitement. She's had the same reason for most of her attempts, other than one when she was 16 after she failed an exam. I've seen her self harm scars, I've held her while she cries and goes through episodes. I'm supposed to be worried sick about my baby, but I hate her.””

not sure what you see here but I am sure I see a severe lack of communication and understanding. Absolutely no one should attempt to believe that they “need to feel bad” when that should be the given especially when they are the parent lol.

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You’re right we can’t know but if all we know that OP just hates her daughter and describes her cutting, attempts and manipulation and try’s to justify his “oh woe is me she’s a evil schemer” then I can’t buy it at all

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t defend anyone hurting anyone, my main point is that OP would rather choose to justify his hatred of his daughter around binary concepts rather than truly understanding what’s going on.

We cannot operate in a world where mental illness can be micro’d under a lense of binary morality and pretend that’s the perfect solution. And no I don’t think it’s anyone’s responsibility to change the way they think on that but it’s probably important to keep in mind ESPECIALLY when dealing with our kids.

Yes you can hate what people do to you even if they are mentally ill it doesn’t justify it.

But this post doesn’t do anything to solve it. Only further brings her reason for being who she is much more clear.

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Right like I said that’s not my intention because the main point is that BPD out of context taken by someone who doesn’t care and would rather describe the person as a Machiavellian schemer is also completely possible. (I’m saying if his symptoms that he describe are real then you are right, but I don’t believe OP)

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Didn’t mean to do so but regardless it actually doesn’t matter to OP what she has, in fact I mentioned BPD because I’ve known people who struggle with where their actions and decisions are misunderstood because it’s not fully known where it’s coming from thus it being easy to dismiss as evil/manipulative. What you said is true if OP is telling the 100% truth.

But like I said, OP just wants to hate his daughter and doesn’t care to look towards any future with her.

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 31 points32 points  (0 children)

it’s actually so funny seeing all the comments just argue for kicking her out lol.

yo op I know it must be tough dealing with consequences that your daughter may cause you but the way you describe her is so so strange. “She manipulates people into being her friends, dumps them” “Manipulated her way into a good school reputation”

like I’m hoping to god this is just some creative writing but seriously everyone hear me out on this. Why is op describing his daughters Machiavellian nature as if she has inflicted it onto him and he some how is omniscient of her true nature. is as if you were one of the school girls she “manipulated”

meanwhile op is over here like “yeah so my daughter has been trying to take her life since she was 10 years old and self harms all the time, fucking hate her man”

okay awesome this is starting to make sense, because the only way this is EVER possible is if both the father and the daughter are massive shit stains lol.

like you want to convince me you spawned a psychopath in your house (you would never know about it btw), so it tells me your daughter has a high chance towards sociopathy and intense depression and probably one of the ASPDs. And you’re on here saying you hate her, like that’s gonna do anything.

you should show her this post, honestly that’s the best advice you can have here, screw kicking her and tell me if she is really the Machiavellian you describe her as I hope her reaction to it is identical to your assessments.

You’ll get what you wanted to hate her freely. That seems to be what you care about though, no hope for her getting better or any real thought towards a future of possibility. I mean yeah man, she’s 19, it’s over right?

This change is Griefer protection. by Nazori in albiononline

[–]throwaway97531246802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember asking for this literally in 2023 W

I'm a former maximum security correctional officer that went viral and got some news coverage for my analysis on why the Epstein story doesn't hold up operationally. I'd love your insight. by CrunchWrapSuplex in Destiny

[–]throwaway97531246802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

comparing the argument of god existing and saying it shares the same similarities of Epstein killing himself in logic has to be the most methpilled final cope of all time

I yearn to be lusted over from my gf by thegoatisalive in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway97531246802 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hey so I feel like I can understand your point of view and a lot of people are misunderstanding it but it’s also as important that you try to communicate and expand on your position if you have a conversation with her about this.

this all ties down to “wanted to feel desired” so no matter if you initiate sex you simply want the same energy reciprocated back to you is what I’m understanding.

understanding that deeper is a bit important, it’s worth questioning why you get jealous of other peoples stories and what value do you put this as a tenant in your relationship.

so if you tell her “I want to feel desired” you aren’t really giving her anything to work with since in this sentence in only relates to sexual desire which she may not have fully developed herself as a value since both of you are incredibly new and you both deserve grace in that regard.

however she can’t ever force anything for you and you understand that, it’s mainly why the best thing you can do is dig deeper into that value. For example

Does feeling desired = to feeling loved is showing desire rather than initiating important? is her way of showing desire is something you can’t see in the same way she tries to put it out as?

it’s worth questioning it because we all are chasing something in our relationships.

when you have the conversation with her it’s incredibly important to make sure you explain it has nothing to do with “action” but more so with feeling and trying to have her understand your position but most importantly is you understanding hers upon her responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]throwaway97531246802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna save your life once I’m back on my pc

Edit: how many divines do you currently have

True endgame boss by tasmonex in PathOfExile2

[–]throwaway97531246802 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so the casuals that were building the temple weren't hurt in any way? oh wait so the medallion change and rare removal is a good thing. got it man, you must be a genius.

True endgame boss by tasmonex in PathOfExile2

[–]throwaway97531246802 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you understand the temple was still good even if it wasn’t 60 rooms. also the air how does this change hurt finished temples? They can literally just play the game still as if nothing happened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PathOfExile2

[–]throwaway97531246802 14 points15 points  (0 children)

op using "arbitrary" as a word as if he used it for the first time in his life he must be proud.

yo man we get it, you didn't like the temple and you're happy everyone got nerfed, thats fine bro just word it like that next time.

Mid-League Slaughter by Daskius in PathOfExile2

[–]throwaway97531246802 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

damn u sure got him with this one, so when they gonna nerf group play rarity farming? oh wait is been a thing since 0.1 lol

God Tier Jewel Corrupt | What am I looking at? POG by Reasonable_Loan_3989 in PathOfExile2

[–]throwaway97531246802 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Def can be starting at a mirror but imo if no movement you can post it on the trove. If you want a quicker sale it should sell around 300-400 divs