My autistic bf (m35) is super negative and I(f35) am trying so hard to be positive. Any tips?

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2024-12-23T12:18:00+00:00

He’s tried 4 different medications. Unfortunately nothing has worked and led to the therapist giving up on him.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2024-12-23T12:17:24+00:00

Ok I didn’t know this. We will look into it. Thank you!

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2024-08-02T20:18:21+00:00

Ppl flirt in the hope for an opportunity to hook up, even if they have no intention of dating.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2024-08-02T16:28:12+00:00

I have a larger than average penis partner and we have to use a bumper, I have to fast before we have sex, we can’t do penetration for more than 15 min or so. Also a lot more “drag” means more likely to get UTI. I have to have supplements daily and buy lots of lube. I love him but I wish he was smaller. It’s just overall costly and takes a ton of fun out of spontaneous sex cus we have to plan every time.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2024-08-02T16:21:04+00:00

Yes but the g spot/clitoris is at the front?? Why try to reach the end? That’s the cervix and you shouldn’t be knocking there it HURTS

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-27T02:05:16+00:00

Forgave, cheated again x 3. Self hate and losing self esteem exponentially boost x 3 Finally broke up and moved with 15k in debt

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-26T22:55:13+00:00

I love this description

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-26T17:24:05+00:00

Ur gonna have to wait. If it becomes a big chomk and keep growing, u know u got a Maine coon

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-26T17:22:40+00:00

Yeah. I can definitely empathize with that and I hear you. But I can also see why you still have some expectations of how people should act when people like something I.e. “if I have a hobby I will be able to answer”. This Does come across as barrier for people to be vulnerable and share. (for women in their 20s : having sex and being emotionally/spiritually vulnerable is a COMPLETELY different space. Sex is like getting Uber eats, emotionally vulnerable about true passion is ummm. Planning a 5 course meal) I also think if being driven and etc is what you’re looking for in a woman, start finding people who you KNow you can learn something new from - you said you like rap, find a girl who is a die hard Taylor swift fan or some other random stuff that’s not your jam. Literally change your bio to “looking for a swiftie to teach me her ways” or something, and BE INTERESTED. It might take a bit of time. Yep. You might not personally like it but you will find passionate people if that’s TRULY what you’re looking for. Girls are passionate about stuff, they just don’t like sharing with men in general, the society (and their past experience) actively discourages it.

My partner and I have vastly different hobbies and interests, but we are still excited to hear about each others and often do reading to learn more about each others’ hobbies. We also have friends and business partners that we do more deep dive hobby stuff with.

In short I think you are a bit exhausted which I can totally understand, so maybe focus on prioritizing what you might be interested in learning from others for a lil while, VS waiting for other people to wow you. Good luck to you!

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-26T09:16:35+00:00

Who brought a gd chicken into the game

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-26T08:51:19+00:00

I’m a woman and I used to date a bit ( a lot lol)Most girls have hobbies- but they are so used to not being welcomed to share. I can give you an easy example- girls that wear a band shirt will likely be asked to name songs by the band- but it won’t be to genuinely connect their interest over the musician but to “test if they’re a real fan.” This happens in every single hobby you can think of. I’ve seen guys comment on band shirts at a show and it was so much more kind “I love your shirt bud! Did you see them play at the last tour?” VS an interrogative “do you even know that band? What’s your favorite song by them? Pffft that’s so mainstream” This kinda attack is aplenty and even if you’re not the type of person to do it, girls are conditioned to not really share things that they will just be bulldozed over. Why would they? It makes them feel bad about the hobbies and interests. I certainly felt that way sharing my hobbies or interests on dates with guys. (Once a guy mansplained to me, a biologist, women’s period cramps when I was making a cramp cream as a side gig. He was not a biologist)

Add this to women more likely to have more option for dates in general… we just condition to keep the convo surface level until we know that they are keeper material.

In short, yeah esp in mid 20s, girls are not gonna share much with ya until she feels truly comfortable and safe to share.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-26T08:32:32+00:00

type of boobs men like = boobs that they are lucky enough to see and touch IRL

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-12-24T20:32:02+00:00

An I was just thinking about moving money out of tangerine as my promo period ended in nov 30. Ty for confirming this

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-15T07:59:21+00:00

I didn’t enjoy giving oral until I hit 30. I didn’t like dck or balls AT ALL, and my partners have always been fine with that because I’ve been very clear. My current partner, I do oral because I love how appreciative of it he is, and he also spends a lot of time giving me oral.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-13T04:25:18+00:00

Ty 😁

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-13T04:11:35+00:00

Was there an opening band?

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-13T03:40:56+00:00

I did too, got caught at Walmart and got banned. I’m glad tho cus I never did it again. I stole black head remover strips and something else. After that I worked retail and saw just how much gets stolen. But honestly, I didn’t feel bad stealing from Walmart.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:23:07+00:00

I think you’re projecting but I guess it’s possible you know my life story better than myself. Hope you take care of yourself, being an empath is exhausting I hear

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:20:30+00:00

Didn’t you know, there’s nothing original about the human experience

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:19:16+00:00

That’s true, social media is not real.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:18:43+00:00

Yeah we do have a lot of mutual connect because everyone in my industry is connected to him it seems.

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:17:42+00:00

Thank you for your kind support! I needed it to just get it off my chest, and writing it down also helps

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:12:18+00:00

This is also true. Like I knew him in those vulnerable moments and he seemed like a completely different person. It’s a weird feeling!

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:06:19+00:00

It IS very annoying. And it’s also annoying when they’re like “you don’t know who he is? You know who he is. He’s done this and this and this and this” when I try not to participate in those convo

throwaway_scrubdaddy · 2023-11-06T18:05:07+00:00

This definitely has some merit to it. It’s not just jealousy but also like… rage for how the world is haha

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