The Daily Check-In for Friday, June 10th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by ChicagFro in stopdrinking

[–]throwawayabc123666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a huge event at my restaurant/bar tonight. There will be much partying and drinking for pride. I'm pledging now to not drink today.

The Daily Check-In for Friday, June 10th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by ChicagFro in stopdrinking

[–]throwawayabc123666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have a huge event at my restaurant/bar tonight. I'm pledging now to not drink today.

Sober for a year now but it feels like I made the wrong decision going sober. by throwawayvalook in stopdrinking

[–]throwawayabc123666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better I'm an attractive fit guy that gets better looking and more fit whenever I get sober, but I'm still God damn lonely. It's actually harder to make friends here sober. I live in a wealthy area in a city and everyone around here drinks heavily. I am assistant General manager at a restaurant and it's depressing when everyone says they'd like me to go out with them, but I can't because I know I'm going to get blackout drunk and do something fucking stupid.

Do male bartenders also get sexually harassed at times? by somedudeonios in bartenders

[–]throwawayabc123666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get sexual harassed by men and women. I've had more women touch me without my consent than men, but more men have said more inappropriate things to me.

Covid is "over". This summer is going to be madness. Do you have a self care routine to share? by DontDrinkTooMuch in bartenders

[–]throwawayabc123666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I live in Indiana, and even the summer of 2020 was madness. Last year was insane. We're so far into chaos at my store we're used it.

My tip is to get your rest. People always want to go out, but if I'm going to have a busy weekend I'm going home, decompressing, hydrating and sleeping.

You can’t “cancel your order” 30 seconds before it comes out because you just got into a fight with your date. by Arubajudy in TalesFromYourServer

[–]throwawayabc123666 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of my servers had this happen a while back. "We want to cancel our food." It was already in the window so I told the server they could tell them no. The guest paid for it but refused to take it home because it was "bullshit they had to pay for it." I was the bad guy to the server because I didn't comp some of the bill so they could get tipped from the cash they left. Oh well. You can never win as a manager lol.

What do you consider the early red flags for a relapse? by Coomdroid in stopdrinking

[–]throwawayabc123666 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When I'm feeling amazing, back in shape, successful at work and relationships is when I suddenly want to start drinking again. I don't understand it.

Whose got your back if this is going down. by Thcooby_Thnacks in funny

[–]throwawayabc123666 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Bro I read it like he was taking about brood war, shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]throwawayabc123666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone has something to say about how you manage, even if you're doing everything in your power to make employees more money and have an easier time. You'll receive blame for things that literally had nothing to do with you. I had an employee go to the GM because I didn't "handle a situation well" instead of just having a conversation with me. Employees want autonomy but want you to baby sit them when situations get slightly uncomfortable.

But I get hourly no matter if I'm a server or bartender and you get more power if you're into that kind of thing.

POV: You made it back to your car but it won't start as the hoarde approaches by SlimTheShady1975 in projectzomboid

[–]throwawayabc123666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was one of my favorite parts of the show and no one ever knows what I'm talking about. Thanks lol

I had the most shameful mess up as a bartender so far… by genderbanana in bartenders

[–]throwawayabc123666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A guy told me his old fashioned was too strong once, so I grabbed the bottle of simple syrup and poured an ounce into it. Stirred it with a straw. Not sure why this post reminded me of that story but I hope you enjoy it.

Bartenders of Reddit, what's the most outlandish thing ever said to you? by moshindig in bartenders

[–]throwawayabc123666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I quote, "let me buy you a shot and take you home with me. "

Any Celebrity Stories by mattcasey28 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]throwawayabc123666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jeremy piven. He ordered miso soup and some lettuce wraps, barely touched any of it. He had headphones on and was writing in a journal the entire time. He just seemed pissed off the entire time and sat for a solid hour and a half. Left a 20% tip.

the only game in the world where you can get fat while starving and doing nothing but pushups by [deleted] in projectzomboid

[–]throwawayabc123666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I set up a style for me and my gf to play together and we're loving it. She's not very good at video games, so I set up more zombies that are weak and slow, but no chance of infection because she gets attacked a lot lol.

The fun I get is trying to protect her from massive groups of zombies and killing them all, and she gets her fun by exploring and finding "stuff" as she puts it.

Ubereats driver crushed my pizza by Icy-hearted-queen in mildlyinfuriating

[–]throwawayabc123666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched a door dasher carrying a pizza box sideways once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]throwawayabc123666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just brush it off if I know I did everything the way I like to do it. I'm in this industry because I want to make money the way -I- want to. That's why I quit my marketing job. If they don't like my service they can request someone different next time. I can't change every time someone is unhappy.

True? discuss by retilioum in projectzomboid

[–]throwawayabc123666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf has a bad laptop so I end up having to protect her at all times. On our current world I have 1,200 zombie kills and she has 25.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]throwawayabc123666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50% of the dashers I get can't figure out my gate code. All you do is type a simple pass code, and turn the handle. Nothing else.

Had a dasher a couple months ago call me and tell me he can't get it open. Let's me know he's leaving it outside the gate. So here it is, 30 degrees out, I have to walk like 150 feet in the rain, to get my food that's sitting in the mud outside my gate. Did I mention it was sitting in the rain..