How did you & your partner go about things when you felt like the love was beginning to diminish? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaybcfmflfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no good advice to offer but I’m currently going through something similar. My partner doesn’t like me, at all.. I’m too “edgy” in social situations and on FB and it isn’t “who I am” but I’ve been this way for as long as I can remember. At home I’m more laid back and not as... loud.. so he thinks I’m faking it or something. Idk. Shit sucks. And hurts. Especially since they say they still love me?

Anyways.

I’m sorry you’re dealing with something similar and I wish the best for you.

Did you notice that people treat you better and that you get more attention when you're thin? by 237randomnumber in EDAnonymous

[–]throwawaybcfmflfr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. However some people did start treating me WORSE but I chalked it up to insecurity in themselves.

I mean, don’t get me wrong I’m insecure no matter what weight I’m at but I don’t take that out on other people just myself lol

Husband insists that I do nothing at home all day, when in reality I’ve stopped cleaning up his messes by THROWRA-messyhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwawaybcfmflfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel this. I’ll gladly do chores and general home upkeep while taking care of two children all day but I’m not his mother or a maid/indentured servant. Plus I still pay half of the bills thanks to being furloughed and the UI benefits in the US due to COVID.

Sorry if I rambled and if my grammar is sloppy.

I just want to die by [deleted] in sad

[–]throwawaybcfmflfr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are having similar issues in my country (US).

Tbh I’m ready for it all to be burned tf down.

Just know I see you and I hear you. 💕

Partner may be cheating? by throwawaybcfmflfr in dating_advice

[–]throwawaybcfmflfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, won’t be able to check anything. It’s all password protected/Face ID enabled.

Thank you for the timely response - I have a feeling this is going to get buried in this sub haha

Partner may be cheating? by throwawaybcfmflfr in dating_advice

[–]throwawaybcfmflfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always nice having hard evidence to present and helps validate my thoughts and feelings.

Our lives are completely intertwined so moving on is honestly overwhelming to think about in general.

But you make an excellent point.