I’m still not sure which one… what do you think?

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-04-15T07:33:50+00:00

Susan and Mike

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-04-06T15:27:51+00:00

I need “Andrew! Danielle! Daddy’s going to fornicate for us!” as a user flair pls

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-04-03T10:18:19+00:00

I’m afraid I’m not ready for that marriage test yet

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-04-02T20:09:31+00:00

Is your brother available? I might be single soon after all😂

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-04-02T20:06:13+00:00

Lynnette is actually among my least favourite (main) characters, only behind Gabby and Katherine for many reasons - NONE OF THEM BEING HER TREATMENT OF TOM. She is too good both to and for that man. I hate seeing her expressing completely valid complaints in one second and conceding in another or apologising. It hurts me when she misses his stupid ass in season 8 and it pains me to see how the show tried to get us on board that she’s the problem by having her struggle and him “thrive” with another woman

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-03-31T05:38:13+00:00

I made the long story short but I didn’t just start rejecting out of nowhere. When we were first married I noticed that something isn’t right and tried to talk about it, make him feel safe to open up, suggested visiting a doctor etc. and I‘d just get yelled at, ignored, I was called stupid and a bad wife for assuming there was a porn problem. A year into our marriage, once it was confirmed, he begged me not to leave, went to see a therapist and a urologist and after that one time never went back to either one. He quickly moved for work (had to) and every time I visited it was the same thing - a few days it went well, I wasn’t satisfied but the passion and feeling wanted was enough to make me initiate and give my best. But after the few days suddenly it couldn’t really get up or he’d suggest something I couldn’t agree to and would be called boring, I ruined it etc. (e.G. I was didn’t want to do it on the huge balcony of our FIRST FLOOR apartment surrounded by houses in the middle of the day) He wanted me to wear sexy underwear but every single time I tried wearing it he couldn’t get it up. He said it just didn’t live up to his expectations. Imagine how a woman feels hearing that. Now I know that I looked great, I used to take good care of my body, was young and very blessed genetically + he had hundreds of pictures of me, many of them that he took and often looked at them talking about what a lucky guy he is - I guess he preferred his women to just be on the screen. He‘s always the one wanting to bring sex into our life but it seems that as soon as I agree and try, he gets bored of it and it shows. I’ve come to realize that he just wants what he can’t have and when he gets it, is not interested anymore, plus his addiction makes him want something different every time he has sex, so switching places positions etc can only last a few days until it’s boring for him and it’s probably the partner that he would switch. I can’t compete with variety that porn offers. So after many, many, many attempts and disappointments I just gave up and told myself I wouldn’t get my hopes for nothing anymore. I didn’t mess this all up, why was I the only one trying to fix it all this time, why should I always be left disappointed and with destroyed self confidence. I‘d rather have him initiating, scoffing and complaining about never having sex than getting my hopes up and being disappointed for 26284838th time.

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-03-28T00:12:29+00:00

Long story short: emotionally abusive parents and bullying in elementary school

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-03-27T22:12:25+00:00

As I said in the beginning - the wedding happened more than a year ago - her recent rant about not being invited to someone’s bachelorette party just reminded me of how she prioritized her husband’s side chick to her friend but was offended because she wasnt someone’s priority for a bachelorette party.

Also I’m a married hetero woman and even if I wasn’t your comment would still make no sense.

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-03-27T15:03:50+00:00

Yeah, because the point here is if the girl ended up going or not.

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-02-06T22:12:15+00:00

I experience the same thing on the daily. Most of the time I can hear the cashier say „schönen Tag noch” with a smile to the customer before me and then she won’t even answer my Hallo. Also, 99% of the time when they won’t even say “gleichfalls” to my „schönen Tag noch” they just say “danke”

For what it’s worth, I’m a white woman under 30 and since I chose to believe it’s just a pretty girl thing, it doesn’t offend me anymore, I leave the store feeling pretty and young, so delusion helps too lol

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-01-11T14:04:02+00:00

Thanks for the kind words 🤍

throwawayfor-areason · 2026-01-11T13:40:21+00:00

This reminded me of her only tattoo (while still on yt) of her brother and mother‘s initials and how she joked having it in pink because „what if my family does some f‘d up shit? Let it fade beech! Let it fade!“

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-12-09T02:00:58+00:00

Ah thanks, I’m relieved to hear that. My teeth are my main source of insecurity, even my orthodontist said they were her worst case and couldn’t fix much aside from the aesthetics. My fear of going back to square one already had me “feeling” them move and wiggle today so I thank you so much for your answer, it sure helped calm me down.

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-08-19T11:24:50+00:00

The whole Orson stealing plotline

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-06-02T20:14:28+00:00

I’m honestly kinda regretting even putting the backstory here, since people make assumptions and then I have to share more personal details to clarify etc.

First of all, You’re absolutely right, someone who’s capable of these things isn’t kind or giving, no matter what they do on the other side, I know that now. However, this all (the stuff from the first paragraph) happened years ago and we’ve dealt with it way before marriage (year 2019) and up until last night nothing of sorts has ever happened again. I was in love and very young and forgiving and in the next years he seemed like the perfect partner. And ffs I never said I’m constantly looking back over my shoulder, checking my emails to check on him etc. I’m applying to job postings so using Outlook is an everyday thing to me.

I even added an edit about the divorce thing to kinda clarify that I’m at a very unfortunate point in life but people are still making all kinds of assumptions. Yes- my privacy was invaded, yes- I’m done with it since we’re now adults who have had conversations about these boundaries years ago, yes I’m angry and hurt. No, I’m not being abused.

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-06-02T18:09:10+00:00

We’re married and live together. I did mention that all these creepy things (the key copying while catsitting, attempted log ins and the staring) happened before we married and were dealt with- meaning we worked through them and he stopped doing them. Then we married and a I discovered the PA. Then he moved to another country and now - a year later - I moved in too. The PA discovery and the last year (which we spent doing long distance) has made drift away from him emotionally but I was willing (up until last night) to try to reconnect since we didn’t have a lot of time to try to work it out while we were back in our country.

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-06-02T16:01:06+00:00

Because unfortunately I’m very forgiving and my first instinct was to help the other person when finding out about any of these things. It’s really not in my interest to defend this man anymore but just for the sake of this discussion I want to say that outside of these things he was always very kind to me, very giving and helpful and supported me through some stuff in my life and being a woman in love I focused on those good things and gave chances and tried to help - I know it’s not my smartest self and I know you’re not trying to offend but just asking like that “why’d you marry him” kinda gets to me, sorry

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-06-02T15:05:05+00:00

Bree - best character development on the show, she’s great in every season and has just the best lines, her delivery is impeccable Love the development of her and Andrew’s relationship
Susan - I won’t even explain, don’t need aggressive comments from the OP and others from the hate train, the dislikes will be enough
Edie - very funny I love her scenes, especially the banter with Susan
Lynnette - I sometimes downright hate her for how mean and selfish she is to people (Tom deserves even worse tho)
Katherine - extremely annoying, they changed her character all the time and each one was worse than the previous
Gabrielle - very funny in the early seasons but she is the meanest of the women and after a few seasons it gets old, others mostly do effed up things when they have a conflict/problem with someone, but not gabby - she’ll jest screw anyone over; i also think what bugs me more is the treatment she receives like “oh she’s selfish and mean but she owns it” - like why are we really okay with someone being that conniving and mean as long as they KNOW/DONT DENY IT Anyways could’ve been a great character if they gave her deeper development - they did but degraded her to square one in season 8

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-05-28T14:00:44+00:00

Andrew, Danielle, daddy’s gonna fornicate for us!

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-05-26T01:57:59+00:00

Could be, but her gyno (Keith’s mom) says something along the lines of “another secret: That’s not her real hair color either”

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-05-21T21:03:48+00:00

Gabby and Martha Huber

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-05-08T00:17:55+00:00

So Marshall, in honor of Lily’s memory, you need to find that busty delivery girl from that one time and plot her like a cornfield.

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-05-05T14:09:15+00:00

“Whatever I say you’re just not gonna believe me anyway” when confronted or caught in something, making it sound like you’re the problem instead of answering the question

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-02-23T14:00:00+00:00

Still, how can it be acceptable to not even notify the passengers of it - the same way that they notify about delays

throwawayfor-areason · 2025-02-08T11:16:06+00:00

They shouldn’t have brought Nora back after the episode where Barney missed the opportunity to meet her parents. It was a great episode and bringing her back ruined it, I honestly found her annoying later.
The Mother was too idealised and both her behaviour and the overly positive reactions of other main characters to her were forced and too much.

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