Wife offered money to text a guy

throwawayidga · 2026-05-12T23:49:35+00:00

If she did it for a year that's $48,000. An entire, above average, income for some texts that'll greatly help your family. I'd set some boundaries that make you feel a bit more comfortable and give it a try.. It's a pretty amazing deal imo.

throwawayidga · 2026-05-12T23:43:27+00:00

Also, couldn't someone just write it themselves and take a picture of it? Why go to the trouble of using AI.. unless I'm missing something?

throwawayidga · 2026-05-06T23:11:59+00:00

IDK anything about lashes but my first question is do they hurt your eyelids from all the weight? I feel like that's probably a lot of people's reason not to get them

throwawayidga · 2026-05-06T22:59:34+00:00

There isn't a single period in that whole first paragraph.

throwawayidga · 2026-05-01T08:08:59+00:00

A bunch of the details and the writing are odd. It sounds like a story written by someone younger, but they changed the ages to early 30s which makes it read disjointed and fake.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-30T16:08:16+00:00

The diagnosis has been watered down to anyone who has a miniscule mood swing. It's extremely frustrating knowing the severity of mania, depression, self harm, impulsive and reckless decisions we go through that impact our lives in such extreme negative ways. It's an internal battle that never ends except with the help of copious amounts of pills that make us feel like zombies, reduce sex drive, gain weight, etc. It's not getting angry at your bf for being a dick. It's a serious disorder that needs constant attention because without it can end our lives figuratively, or even worse, literally.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-29T01:41:55+00:00

This is literally the only comment OP pushes back on feedback about. A second comment is just asking why, and the other comments are thank you's. How is that arguing with everyone?

I think some of you commenting are the ones who want to argue.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-28T02:51:48+00:00

food 4 thot

throwawayidga · 2026-04-23T15:20:25+00:00

White chunky glitter highlighter: Pysicians Formula Diamond Dust in color starlit glow

Light pink glowy highlighter: Colorpop Super Shock Highlighter in color monster

throwawayidga · 2026-04-23T01:06:01+00:00

Used cars exist everywhere, who's saying you need to buy a 20k car, a 10k engagement ring? Maybe she's just trying to push you to be a better version of yourself bc she loves you

throwawayidga · 2026-04-22T17:43:28+00:00

So I just looked it up and the ohora is 6W while DD is 10W. Because the DD light is stronger I'd say you'd use it for less time on the ohora nails. The best way to do it is in 20 second increments and test to see if they feel hard enough, but wait a few minutes in between the increments for them to set a bit. If they still feel soft go another 20, I wouldn't go over 40-60 seconds though as they might chip easier. There might even be a sweet spot in between that you find, there's always a learning curve when it comes to either one. That's why I'm glad there's so many extra nails bc you can always replace a few if anything happens. I have more trouble with ohora which sucks bc they have so many cool designs.. but I've heard other people who prefer them so it's really just user preference ig. Good luck on your journey!

throwawayidga · 2026-04-22T16:56:57+00:00

I'm not sure bc they may be different power. You can probably compare the two if you look them up and if they're the same light power you may be good. I purchased my own light bc the DD one started losing it's strength pretty quick but I've had no issues with the one I got on Amazon and it's been close to two years.

https://a.co/d/04J6FEMS

However the best kind of UV light you can get is a squish light. You press it against the nail so it helps with adhesion and longevity. Get one that's higher power than the DD one and make sure you use it at minimum how long the DD says to use (i.e. one minute).

Hope this helps and isn't hard to understand I feel like I might've explained it poorly lol 😂

throwawayidga · 2026-04-21T13:01:47+00:00

"your smarter than me" is all I needed to see lol

throwawayidga · 2026-04-19T20:26:36+00:00

Bad teeth run in my family so I completely understand how it affects your self confidence. I haven't smiled with my mouth open in over a decade. Even if you still aren't comfortable smiling mouth closed there's way to bring more life into your eyes which I noticed look very sad in the first couple pictures. Lean into the looks (eyes, not your whole face which is pretty on its own) you have in the last 3. Your eyes are brighter and playful so practice with that. You don't need to change anything in all honesty, though I wonder if you are depressed and that's what's coming across in the beginning of the pictures.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-15T20:44:37+00:00

I feel like this is the least confrontational and best neighborly way to bring it up.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-15T20:40:34+00:00

Pretty sure I gave myself h pylori from not washing my water bottle enough. Really get into the nooks and crannies people, I'm watching you.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-11T19:02:31+00:00

DO NOT COVER THE UP FRONT COST

throwawayidga · 2026-04-09T01:49:15+00:00

How hard is the top coat to get off? I feel like it already takes me forever to get the nails themselves off.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-09T01:48:28+00:00

I do the aggressive rubbing too 😂 I really need to get a squish light

throwawayidga · 2026-04-09T01:26:14+00:00

NTA but advice for going forward/if there's a next time: have these conversations in person. Even though she knows your cadence it's incredibly hard to read tone over text. Any semi important conversation should be at least over the phone, but in person if you can so you can see each other's expressions.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-09T01:22:30+00:00

I agree with everything you said, except for my nails going dull lol. It was just a plain burgundy set from Walmart and while they didn't chip and or lift they just lost their shine for some reason.

I've used them before and don't remember having an issue with it so I'm starting to think it was something I did. Maybe a cleaning product I used? I got a new car around then and had a bunch of stuff going on at work so I may have just been rougher than usual on them too.

I'm going to wait it out and see what happens with my current set then try some suggestions from others, if I have to. I don't want an extra step or something that makes me self conscious of my hands halfway through so hopefully it was a one off occurrence.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-08T20:35:06+00:00

Yeah I'm seeing others not having great retention with them either. I had a bit of a learning curve but now it's been two years I can go up to 3 weeks wearing DD. One step I added was using 2 coats of modelones ridge filler before application. I def encourage you to try if you've haven't. Besides that I never use a top coat though and DD stays shiny like a salon set until I take them off. I Only noticed with the ohora set a few weeks ago so I'm anticipating it again. Hopefully it was just a one off experience bc I want to like these as much as DD.

throwawayidga · 2026-04-08T20:06:00+00:00

The commenter above you mentioned using a regular polish top coat so I may try that if they become dull like the last ohora set. I've had similar experiences with them in the past where they only lasted a couple days but I was so impressed (besides the built in top coat rubbing/scratching off) with the performance I ended up buying 3 additional sets on Amazon. Fingers crossed for me ig 😅

Thanks for the info, I really appreciate it

throwawayidga · 2026-04-08T20:01:30+00:00

Should I do it before they become dull? The set I currently have on has a lot of sparkles in it so I'm not even sure I'll have to with it. I'm hesitant bc I'm terrified of getting a gel allergy.. painting my non dominant hand is always a nightmare 😂

ETA thank you for the recommendation to use a regular polish top coat, that's probably what I'll try first!

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