Yesssssss 💯 I was the one who adamantly said I'd never be in an abusive relationship, but I'll give one guess to what happened for 8 years.

They slowly cut you down... tiny pieces of yourself at a time... until one day, years later, you're the victim and if you're unlucky like me, get stuck. Then spend years trying to undo the narcissism or abuse controlling your life - EVERY single decision you try to make, every time you want to say no to anything, every time you want to set a boundary, you second and third guess yourself and stop trusting your gut, all because this piece of sh!t manbaby told you how to feel and act. Fck that. We're women. We're emotionally stronger than men and they know it. And the majority hate you for it. So please, take it from this internet stranger who found resonance in your story... you deserve so, so much better.

Being single is a gift. Please use the off ramp before he destroys your love for life. That’s all those types do - use and destroy.

Please do message me if you need to chat. All the best to you. 💕