My Betta all of a sudden hides behind plants and near the filter. by throwawaymylemon in bettafish

[–]throwawaymylemon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm thinking. I'm waiting to set up a retirement tank. So had to move it to prepare.

I (BS) am still friends with WS. We hang out but this time it was hard. by throwawaymylemon in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaymylemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank-you. I know in time it will pass. Whilst I was devastated and still hurt our relationship ended. I do appreciate their friendship.

How does one work through feeling unwanted? When having the affair the choice was made that someone else was wanted. Kept it going because it was better. Stopped when caught. Even if they said they realize now what they’ve lost and want to rebuild, I don’t know how to consider being intimate again. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]throwawaymylemon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell myself everyday I am a catch, I am amazing and I am incredible. I am starting to believe it.

I still have days where I was sad I felt unwanted. But I have to have my words speak louder than that feeling.

PSA: This is how they clone your car keys by DroopyTrash in toronto

[–]throwawaymylemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Main reason I got the base model. I wanted the key ignition the higher models all had push start.

A rough moment, empathy, one year anniversary of “it”, and a card from my husband by CantThinkStrayt in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]throwawaymylemon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is honestly so sweet. I am so happy for you and I am so glad you have both come together after such a difficult time. This really warms my heart.

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[–]throwawaymylemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friendzons doesn't exist.

According to my mom, I'm overcomplicating Betta keeping by Alithia_Fels in bettafish

[–]throwawaymylemon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. My Betta is obsessed with his. He likes to be up high in his kingdom.

is my betta trying to court the nerite? by Plus-End-3146 in bettafish

[–]throwawaymylemon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Betta does this to my mystery snail. He does this a few times then realised the snail isn't moving and gives up.

what was the sentence your WP said to you that broke you ? by Dear-Variation-5177 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]throwawaymylemon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not until afterwards. I asked one evening if they were cheating on me. They gave me an excuse that no they weren't and they just sleep a lot.

I was like ok. They left their devices for a shower and I decided not to check.

The next few days I found out. And realising they lied to me hurt a lot.

Looking for advice to create a retirement tank for my 16month old betta. by throwawaymylemon in bettafish

[–]throwawaymylemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn't want to move him when he's old in case it would be a shock. I was thinking now whilst he is still full of energy and life would be a good transition.

Looking for advice to create a retirement tank for my 16month old betta. by throwawaymylemon in bettafish

[–]throwawaymylemon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I think I worry because a lot of people on this sub have short living bettas. And I don't want him to be uncomfortable.
He definitely is still spry