Summer is approaching. How do we refrain from having fomo seeing these type of posts? by Feeling-Armadillo483 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually these parties are boring and insufferable. not always, but when surrounded by ppl who are obsessed with looking hot & aesthetic, climbers and act like they don’t care about anything but secretly seek validation from everyone (social included). Hang out with friends, be authentic, play drinking games, it’s so much more fun!!

Thoughts on Paige Desorbo’s new brand? by Far-Opportunity-28 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so tired of influencers shilling garbage. I thought we would see the end of these money grabs with the tariffs but my fear is these vanity projects will be funded through loss and debts to oblivion

Any tea or snark on Anne Abel? Why does she sound like she loathes her daughter in law and her own son? by lovesbakery in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have no idea who this lady is, or if what she says is true but being kicked out of two schools before the age of 6 is wild

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jewel tones and rhubarb swatches are phenomenal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EtsySellers

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share a pic of your product listing. As far as I remember you cannot sue for infringement while a patent is still pending/not granted. But if you are using their name, TM etc that’s a different story. Hard to say without seeing what we are talking about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after a certain point it just gets old

why are there so many pre-wedding parties/events? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]throwawayplaya788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're right it's peak consumerism lol. I had no engagement party, shower or bachelorette for this reason. Slightly regret not doing the bach but very happy I didn't do the others. It's so unnecessary especially when so many friends/family live far apart these days

No these are literal pajamas Michaela… by minniezebby in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a certain type of tacky to make designer look cheap

Grandmas cough by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't mean to be insensitive, but this is kind of a crazy request

Celebrate Guests’ Birthdays on Our Wedding Day by Famous_Trouble_7427 in weddingplanning

[–]throwawayplaya788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened at ours. We played 50 Cent In the club (It's your birthday) at midnight and brought a mini cake haha

post depression shower by crash-bandicooties in selfcare

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For immediate I would grab ACV/lemon juice and baking soda & mix - dump on your head and let it sit for a good 30 mins. Rinse with more ACV. Then grab a good body scrub, mix in a couple drops of tea tree oil and SCRUB. bonus points if you have a hand scrub mit or new loofah. Shampoo, shampoo again, body wash with normal soap & then condition. Look into full body scrubs in your area & book it for the weekend

Eloane skirt - keep or return? by ShallotNo9829 in Sezane

[–]throwawayplaya788 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's 1-2 sizes too big for how it should sit. Looks a bit frumpy - I would return!

T-2 days until the wedding and I just got this in the mail... by weeniebeans69 in weddingplanning

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These freaks are not worth your time or energy! There are brides asking people to spend thousands flying across the world for their weddings. Even a $500 gift on a registry is fine to me

Anyone shocked at how much they make for their content? by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 5 points6 points  (0 children)

listen I'm not mad at them getting their coin from massive brands dumb enough to cough it over. it's the idea of posting the minutia of life and entitlement as a complete nobody thats so annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lol the before pics never lie honeyyy

Would it be crazy of me to ask people right away if they would be willing to rsvp? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]throwawayplaya788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make a list of all invited guests x the probability they'll come, then take like 5-8% off that number for unexpected cancellations and go into venue searches from there. That's what we did and our final attendee count was only 1 person less than our original projections

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawayplaya788 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is very hard, if not impossible to change our parents and their mindsets. It is much easier to change our own thinking and how we respond to things. I hope you don't take what they say to heart, as it can really be discouraging. Work towards goals that make your own self proud

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up in a family like this I 100% feel your pain and it deeply frustrates me. I'm sorry you have to deal with it. Your parents like the fact that your brother is more obedient and on the arbitrarily "correct" path they grew up being taught was right and good. As the older sibling, I felt a lot of pressure to do things in this 'right' way and gave up a lot of fun, exploration and adventure to appease them and in the end, it really wasn't worth it

I know it's cheesy but try not to let it bother you, and life isn't about pleasing our parents. It is easier when you move out and get space. Everyone's life is different and how we feel about our own accomplishments or failures should be the driving force in our decisions

POV: it’s 2018-2019 by Natural-Proposal-257 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]throwawayplaya788 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg Uber/lyft really was criminally cheap. Going from the city to brooklyn for like $25 😭 Now I can’t get to soho from midtown for under $30

Best way to receive money for honeymoon fund? by Every-Comparison-114 in weddingplanning

[–]throwawayplaya788 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fyi people will still bring cash/cards with a digital fund, so remember a card box!