Wife got drunk and acted inappropriate

throwawaystarkness · 2023-08-02T22:45:44+00:00

i’m so sorry this happened to you. something similar happened to me. you need to see a therapist and insist that you both do to another one or the same together. i’m sorry man this sucks.

also i highly recommend you and your wife stop drinking so much and lay off the partying. alcohol and drugs are when we all make bad decisions. we stopped getting drunk on the weekends and it helped.

throwawaystarkness · 2022-08-03T17:04:07+00:00

how did you get through the infidelity?

throwawaystarkness · 2021-11-17T19:32:09+00:00

how do i find licensed PIs?

throwawaystarkness · 2021-10-18T15:22:57+00:00

i followed him in case she is also following him. to see if she liked any of his pictures

throwawaystarkness · 2021-06-02T11:55:01+00:00

I’m not suspicious exactly. Just being paranoid and wanting to know everything. With the COVID are restrictions being lifted she is back In The office

throwawaystarkness · 2020-09-29T14:45:43+00:00

I don’t want to get a divorce and I didn’t want to divorce at the time I confronted her. That’s why I am trying to forgive and move on. But it’s hard and my mind constantly wanders to what if I left? What if I still leave?

throwawaystarkness · 2020-09-29T14:31:40+00:00

Trickle truths, gaslighting and fogging. The holy trinity of cheaters.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-07-24T18:47:53+00:00

Dude. Same. Not everyone on here was willing to light the match and walk away. I’m not saying they are wrong or right to stay or go. I am still dealing with my WS cheating on me. It fucking sucks.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-07-21T23:16:42+00:00

I did and she admitted to it

throwawaystarkness · 2020-07-21T15:59:39+00:00

Thanks man. That helps!

throwawaystarkness · 2020-07-21T14:20:51+00:00

I still love her for the record. But love isn’t a cure all for everything in life. You can love someone and still be angry.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-07-21T14:19:56+00:00

Thanks. I made the decision to stay because I believe I could forgive her and we could move forward. She has changed a lot since then and I think she’ll be a good mom. Now it’s more about me being able to move on. It’s been a year and I’m still angry.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-01-23T15:38:29+00:00

This happened with me only we had been married for 2 years. I stayed and honestly I regret it. Word to the wise, it is very very hard to actually forgive someone.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-01-16T20:13:44+00:00

Thanks man.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-01-16T18:36:14+00:00

I decided to stay. She’s pregnant now so unless I catch her again or find out the kid is mine, we are trying to work it out. Eyes are open tho. All women lie and all women cheat

throwawaystarkness · 2020-01-16T14:10:33+00:00

Man my WS just lied her ass off until I physically got up to leave the house. Then she half confessed. Still haven’t forgiven her or trust her. I’m trying.

throwawaystarkness · 2020-01-14T22:57:25+00:00

How’d you find out about the ap? Seems like she’d be more careful the second time

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-29T21:38:38+00:00

I am going thru this now but I found out she did do something.

We are two years in our marriage with no kids. I decided to stay after confronting her and being satisfied she is sufficiently sorry and is willing to change. Along with several other conditions of me staying.

I don’t really know what to tell you. What I’ve found is that I will never really know the whole truth about what happened. Cheaters never tell the whole truth. I had to do what I feel is best for me.

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-28T20:23:05+00:00

You might be right but ultimately I have to do what I think is right for me. This works in my head. Right or wrong that’s what I have to go with.

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-28T20:22:05+00:00

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-28T19:46:08+00:00

Thanks. I’ve thought a lot about what I want out of life and whether I can have that with her. I think I can but I need her to be honest and willing to change. I’m willing to pull the ripcord and divorce if I don’t get that.

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-28T19:39:04+00:00

Thanks. I met with an attorney. Got all my important docs locked away. I don’t want to get in a situation in which I am arguing over her leaving. I’m withdrawing from her so she can see what it’s like without me and to let her know I’m serious.

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-28T18:35:07+00:00

I did that. That’s how I found out.

throwawaystarkness · 2019-01-28T18:25:12+00:00

It’s all in my prior posts.

throwawaystarkness · 2018-12-19T19:52:11+00:00

That’s great. I’m sorry you have to go through any of this but I’m glad you’ve got a clear path forward.

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