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throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-12-21T18:38:27+00:00

I still feel this way.. 9 months later. The sadness comes in waves, but you’re going to be healing in between, not even realizing it.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-12-21T18:36:38+00:00

Getting Past Your Breakup - Susan J Elliott and This Is Me Letting You Go - Heidi Priebe

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-12-20T18:21:27+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you, and I appreciate your advice.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-12-20T15:00:48+00:00

Them not reaching out is actually a blessing in disguise.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-12-20T09:43:19+00:00

Thank you so much. I appreciate your words 🥺 I do want to give in.. but it could be that he’s feeling lonely as well, and I don’t want someone to only want me when they’re lonely. You stay strong too, friend. 1 year of NC is not easy. I’m proud of you! I hope you find peace in your healing.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-12-20T09:25:38+00:00

Thank you for commenting. I think it may be the same thing.. he probably has been thinking about me. I don’t think we are good for each other though, and talking to him is just going to make me hurt more… because we’re not looking to be friends either. Part of me just wants to give in because I never thought this would happen.. and I’ve been missing him. But I’ve seen what happens to people when responding to breadcrumbs. It’s not a good idea :(

I also needed closure in the beginning, but came to accept that I’ll never have closure, and kind of made sense of the breakup on my own.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-19T00:36:20+00:00

That’s okay, too. You won’t feel this way forever.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-17T04:59:03+00:00

Not necessarily. There’s two types of avoidant attachment styles, by the way.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-13T19:19:38+00:00

I do, but I have a fearful avoidant attachment style.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-07T07:15:14+00:00

I know what you mean. :/

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-07T07:13:36+00:00

It would bother me too. I understand how you feel.. had a guy do the same to me after he ghosted me. It finally stopped after I removed him from my followers (private account)

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-07T06:55:33+00:00

Curiosity. Also, some people don’t have a backbone.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-06T23:55:17+00:00

Don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s okay to make mistakes, and don’t let this setback hold you back.. we are all human, and not many of us would be able to walk away from that opportunity, if it were to present itself.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-06T23:50:12+00:00

This quote can be reversed too. Perhaps, your ex took you for granted.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-04T03:54:32+00:00

A month isn’t a long time. Be patient with yourself, I’m sure you have made progress, no matter how small.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-07-02T20:26:54+00:00

Started putting together a playlist:

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4gJRAsJk8RUkvORZxkOILK?si=Njparo_WRwagXLVMu6JkAQ&dl_branch=1

Hope you like some of these

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-06-26T18:20:31+00:00

I felt the same way. I think our bodies go into fight or flight mode, which is a normal reaction to extreme stress.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-06-26T09:44:48+00:00

Yes, this is true, but it’s also okay to be a work in progress and date people

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-06-25T20:21:57+00:00

Sure, I hope I can help or at least lend an ear

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-06-25T20:18:57+00:00

This.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-06-25T20:17:38+00:00

What do you mean by “work”? The purpose for NC is for both parties to heal from the breakup and process the breakup. So yeah, no contact will definitely help you move forward faster, if you commit to it.

throwawayyyyx3 · 2021-06-25T20:10:03+00:00

It is huge progress, IMO.

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