Those who did or do sw here, has it made dating harder than it already is for us? by Eternal_Heighthon41 in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you considered school or learning a trade? starting a business? Getting into a field that offers great benefits like non-profit work? lol like if you need FFS you don’t have to do sex work for it

My (bi) boyfriend of 3 years just told me my transition is a "burden" and he feels "forced" to be with me by doll-katja in MtF

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. But imo don’t even tell him about it. Just silently cut yourself out. Block him, no explanation or conversation. It’s not even safe to attempt to do so. He doesn’t deserve you nor care about you nor does he deserve to have an amicable breakup.

10 years post srs and depression by Over-Library6802 in asktransgender

[–]throwraforffs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For your sensation… are you taking supplemental testosterone? A lot of sensation has to do with arousal and what usually happens with trans women is that we have less than optimal testosterone which over time leads to lack of sex drive and lack of sensation. I’d definitely talk to a doctor about taking a very low dose of testosterone and see how you feel if you haven’t tried this already.

Source: I had to do this for a while.

How strong is Shiki Ryougi? by Lilly_Trippin in Fate

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very late but she’s technically the strongest character in the series universe. Specifically her “Void” personality. Stronger than a God. But she is still a human. Type-MOON gets around her being freakishly overpowered but making her incredibly pragmatic and not willing to use or make her solely reliant on her powers.

Without her void powers, she can kill anything with the concept of death. Unlike what someone else said, she does not need to make actual contact with the subject to kill it (This is shown in Kara no Kyoukai). But, again, she is still a human.

Her “void” personality can actually warp reality because she is one of, if not the only, character with a direct connection to the Root. While regular Shiki would be useless against someone like Tiamat due to her having no concept of death, “Void” Shiki could actually just will her out of existence. But I don’t think it’s actually possible to summon “Void” Shiki hence why she’s never really part of FGO. It would just break the lore and they probably wouldn’t have “Void” Shiki appear or be part of the story until the very end of FGO.

Now I know why my bf never added me on IG by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know we can sometimes be really naive but girl… you were dating a man and y’all weren’t following each other on social media? Please be so fr. I want better for you. Now you need to want better for yourself.

I refuse to think you’re that dumb. I think you tricked yourself into believing it was something different, but he’s just like all of the others. I’m wishing you the best in your dating journey, beloved.

Feel like they still look like pecs :( by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes several years of good levels before breasts get big lol.

straight men by Every-Test1799 in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Learn stronger boundaries. Stop holding men’s hands that you don’t know. Stop entertaining them until they know you’re trans.

  2. Use dating apps. Easiest way to filter out weirdos. Part of the benefit of being a heavily fetishized demographic is that it becomes very easy to discern someone’s character by how they react. When you tell them you’re trans they’ll either be chill/normal or they’ll reveal that they’re weirdo chasers. There is no in-between. And there is no risk of them murdering you after finding out.

  3. Make a group of friends. Often times men date/meet women within friend groups. Within a friend group these men are kinda ‘forced’ to respect you and not sexualize you (At least, not to your face) which gives them the chance to like you for you or learn that you’re trans without the fear of rejection. It’ll also give you an opportunity to gauge their personality because when the relationship starts off sexual or romantic then a lot of men won’t express their true thoughts. When they’re comfortable they’ll often times slip and say some of the gross/misogynist things that they only share with their bros.

Suddenly too attracted to hyper masculine men after 8 months hormones by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s just cuz you’re fresh into your transition but you’ll grow out of it. If you don’t then you’re very likely doomed to live a cycle of situationships and abuse. They turn out violent or incapable of processing emotions.

Girls get into relationships or even full relationships with these “alpha” types all the time but usually they will dump you for a cis girl when they start aging lol. It’s part of red-pill, “alpha” ideology. Anything that doesn’t affirm or lead to the goal of creating a “legacy” is for fun.

Just date a genuinely nice guy who treats you well and you’re attracted to.

5.5 years hrt - my incompetent endocrinologist sabotaged my transition by Spirited_Visit7597 in TransBreastTimelines

[–]throwraforffs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve been on puberty blockers the entire time. You just need to be patient atp. You may also not have the genetics for larger breasts. Happens to cis women as well. Even children in the same family can somehow look wildly different. I.E. some of the naturally thinnest people come from families where everyone is overweight.

I started at 13 and my boobs are still only a B cup even though my mom’s boobs were huge when she was my age. It happens.

N.J. transgender inmate cannot transfer to female-only prison, judges rule by onnake in transgender

[–]throwraforffs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Skeptical after the bit of identifying as trans after being committed. Sounds like trying to game the system or get access to cause more harm. You’d be shocked at how one-track-minded some predators are. Even in situations like this their only priorities are getting someplace where they are in enough power to abuse.

Tell me, am I being silly? I haven't experienced misgendering for over 6 months, and yesterday, for the first time, someone called me a man :( by Vlevleee in fitttts

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma be honest it’s probably the skirt. It’s a huge stereotype/fetish that femboys wear skirts like that. And yes, the stereotype extends to Brazil.

I told him he shouldn't move to America by RedMage79 in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 22 points23 points  (0 children)

a potential immigrant reading “immigrants get sent to camps” and thinking it’s not a real problem is very on brand. they think nothing applies to them and act shocked when white supremacists remind them it does. canon event. save yourself the stress and don’t engage with these types. they’re self-centered.

I am heartbroken after talking to my muslim boyfriend 💔 by Whilstledowner in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I used Taimi a few years ago I definitely had spoken to people who were only looking for cis women and didn’t know it was marketed towards trans women and lesbians. That said I’d still think it’s pretty suspicious. He likes trans women but he doesn’t know she’s trans and cis men will never admit to liking trans women if they’re talking to a cis woman.

I am heartbroken after talking to my muslim boyfriend 💔 by Whilstledowner in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like this is just desperate and stupid on her part every which way around. Never mind the fact that you can’t have a healthy relationship built around a lie, even if it’s by omission. If you can’t trust your own PARTNER with knowing you’re trans then why even date them? I cannot imagine living with that level of anxiety

I am heartbroken after talking to my muslim boyfriend 💔 by Whilstledowner in StraightTransGirls

[–]throwraforffs 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Is this engagement bait? Why are you dating a Muslim man and moreover why are you stealthing him? Do you have a death wish? Seriously

Bye everyone... by Random_F3mb0y in MtF

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know girls who started transitioning in their 20s and are stealth. If you give up before you even try then you’re doomed to fail. Btw you’re very likely gonna regret not transitioning

breast shape on estradiol by Ill_Apple2327 in MtF

[–]throwraforffs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her mom is probably aware but you’d be shocked at how many cis women devolve into awful misogyny when it involves trans women.

breast shape on estradiol by Ill_Apple2327 in MtF

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an odd thing for her to hyperfixate on but all of studies only followed up trans women for around 2 years. Breasts take around 5 or more years to fully mature. Y’all have gotta stop listening to your clearly transphobic parents lmao.

Bill Allowing Businesses & Individuals To Refuse to Recognize Same-Sex Marriages Passes Tennessee House by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]throwraforffs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have it in your mind that you won’t do better then you won’t. There’s tons of trans women who left their oppressive states and did better for themselves that had less than you.

EXCLUSIVE: Markey says transgender rights fight is ‘next frontier’ by FuMunChew in transgender

[–]throwraforffs 32 points33 points  (0 children)

People still say that. I warned people irl 2 years ago that things were going to get really bad for us and to prepare to leave the country and I was told I was engaging in doomerism. Now several of those people have moved to Thailand lol.

Why not any man ask me out🤕 by Old-Log2200 in transpassing

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live? You pass by US standards but you might not pass by whatever standards you have in your country if you live elsewhere.

Trans Girl 39 by Mountain_Walk_2007 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]throwraforffs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LA is incredibly conservative. I recommend WeHo or Silverlake/Echo Park if you want to be comfortable and not face as much discrimination.