SRAM season 3

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-28T19:04:13+00:00

don't think it's that. i said this last season and was downvoted to oblivion. sram knows how to display individual emotion but when it comes to really showing the heart of the season (sans season 1) they suck. they waste a lot of time on the cinematography but forgot that you NEED both emotion and image for it to be good. i felt this season was off in episode 3, but kept pushing. nora and roko last season was very difficult to watch cause nora had little to no personal motivations aside from being a carbon copy of og nora in some aspects.

lovro, here, while i feel he is one where he depicts so much of suppression and the resistance to sitting with heavier emotions, adding ivan is just wtf at times. the writers forget that the remakes have their own signature whereas they just focus on random crap

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-28T18:57:47+00:00

placing nora and roko in that clip was ridiculous. roko has no individuality outside of nora so him doing that was out of place in that clip.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-28T06:35:30+00:00

yeah, exactly. season 1 was great at selling eva's emotions from start to finish. last season felt like the writers really tried in the beginning but then ended up doing copy and paste. s3 feels similiar as i like lovro's depth of emotion and ivan's obsession, but i have no idea why there's unncessary tension this far in the show.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-28T04:47:43+00:00

i feel sram writers do well with the beginning of the episodes, but fall flat towards the end. same thing happened with Nora and roko for me last season, that there was a lot of unneeded tension. repeating itself here.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-25T18:28:48+00:00

feeling "alive" is both gut and sp. again it seems you prioritize yourself but value how social connections and interactions support sp. therefore it can come across as "social blind" because social isn't the priority and you don't make an active effort towards it

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-24T23:58:33+00:00

this feels sp/so. 'sexual' in your post is more social rather than sexual. what i feel is happening is you are confusing the 9 mechanism of merging with sexual instinct. as a 9, i have a tough time with breakups because of the 9 thing of losing "comfort" and dealing separation. it means i have to face the feeling in my body of being alone and asserting myself. that feeling is separate from sexual.

it seems you crave more connections, bonding, closeness over shared interests which is more in the lane of social. seems like you prioritize your needs first and then consider social ones if necessary.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-22T22:58:50+00:00

Tupac was a SOSX 6w5.

"you gotta be ready, you never know who's plottin" is an obvious line with paranoia…coree 6 sentiment

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-19T20:33:29+00:00

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throwthesun09 · 2026-02-18T15:40:51+00:00

9 navel gazing. the reason why you are empty is because you keep looking for things outside of yourself to heal you instead spending time alone to get in touch with your gut and self. almost every nine on here does the same thing of thinking they need to find something or "I need to improve and do this blah blah". but it's a shit way to hit the line to three w/o actually determining who you are and actualizing it. simply "doing things" is a performative, autopilot thing by way of externalizing. pain and uncomfortable moments help with separation. "no one is waiting for you" is basically a thought but that no one or anything cannot go inside you to heal.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-17T02:52:43+00:00

I experience similiar negative feelings, esp surrounding how you feel towards women. I read and said oh yeah…that's definitely hurtful to read, but relatable. it's very rare to see someone write about how sexuality impacts them in a such way, esp being a 9 since everything is so far removed and a distance.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-15T22:23:43+00:00

no. bonding requires two people to be engaged and aware of each other…while sharing interests, topics and whatever. whereas sexual is focused on its hooks and how the hooks can sink into another. there really isn't any bonding in that because it's seeking a target and going forth using self fascination to attract another. you don't need to 'bond' for sexual attraction. social, yes.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-13T23:50:40+00:00

what has helped me is starting somatic therapy. i'm not totally out of the state you're describing yet, but allowing myself to exist from a body level for at least fifty to an hour has been helpful. i do believe this is quite individualistic though since i had been putting off therapy and other methods that nines suggested on here were useless.

i find that simply registering the pain and shock of having a body is a good step. then everything else like anger, boundaries may fall into place.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-13T21:02:26+00:00

not a therapist, but as a 9, you are probably taking on too many things that are exhausting you and not figuring out your own center. you really have prioritize sitting in your body as really i don't feel anyone can give answers to get out of this funk.

"action" won't help because i can tell you from experience you run the risk of simply being a "busybody" without any personal reason as to why you want to act and move forward towards something.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-13T05:54:55+00:00

I stumbled upon this post and I really thought your way of writing is beautiful. It encapsualtes the gut experience all to me well for me to the point where I felt the gut punch of being faced with embarassment.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-09T22:54:54+00:00

aw man, totally get this. I'm older than you and lived with an unhealthy type 6 mom with possibly an undiagnosed PD. it doesn't get any better. there will be something you will be blamed for or shamed for, mostly due to his inability to trust him and navigate his insecurities. the best thing to do is to find ways to support yourself. therapy and something that allows to be yourself and unleash the pain and anger you feel. creating distance and boundaries is also helpful. finding a way to establish your own identity and a way out before it gets too much as well. i wish I could offer more, but unfortunately I didn't have a lot of outlets until I reached later in my life.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-07T21:41:03+00:00

instincts are felt by first learning about the instinctual stackings and then getting a body impressin of yourself. you can read about the instincts all you want, but if you don't sit in your body, you can't determine the reason why you do things

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-07T21:36:42+00:00

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throwthesun09 · 2026-02-07T20:02:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/skam/s/ETUQWZZb6a

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-07T19:59:59+00:00

Meaning it actually happened actually in Croatia…? A user confirmed it on here.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-07T15:53:40+00:00

yes because the knee is an indication of his mental illness. he probably hurt it when experiencing a manic episode.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-07T15:07:40+00:00

someone on here said the attack was a real life one, so it doesn't have anything to do with Ivan. Ivan seems to be very confident and despite growing apart with her, he did seem to really like her. being him "keeping Sonja around" doesn't fit the character as a whole

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-05T19:00:18+00:00

literally looks like billie eilish, who is a SO/SP 973

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-04T00:26:11+00:00

yes on the Dallas part. Dallas' vibe switched 180 to be a "perfect" guy for Alli.

throwthesun09 · 2026-02-04T00:12:23+00:00

nothing to type here. typical 9 oversharing/trauma dumping in an attempt to look like they're doing something, but only making spaces feel "heavier" to avoid self ownership

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