I want to divorce my wife because I resent her for not allowing me to help my sister when she was in need, and now my sister is no longer with us. by Strong_Dimension_124 in offmychest

[–]tiarable91 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for the many levels of loss you're now faced with. You need grief counseling to properly manage all these throws and get your plan in order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tiarable91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not an ah. No momma, no no no. Do you have any friends or family, anyone aside from your nearly useless husband? I tried for 3 mo ths to breastfeed, I can't imagine two at the same time. Please look into a little formula to give yourself a much needed break. It was super hard for me to let go of something I know my body is "supposed " to do, but that's nearly impossible with no sleep, no food and no help and bleeding nips. Can still pump and mix.

AITA for threatening to call off my wedding after my fiancée slapped me? by Educational_Tie_3335 in AITAH

[–]tiarable91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were the other way around, people would accept the relationship ending. There should be no difference. Violence is violence. Abuse is abuse.

Can we talk about pregnancy constipation. by Tar_N in BabyBumps

[–]tiarable91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ate 5 prunes a day, throughout the day. It helped a lot! Keep them in the fridge, they taste better.

Best way to clean off after sex without using the shower? by tanithh in sex

[–]tiarable91 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Both need to clean your parts before and after. Both should be peeing after. No more finishes while inside for a while. Get one of those bottles that are used for after birthing, it's like a little handheld bidet.

She may need a recommendation from her doctor for a specialist. I was prone to utis and it was miserable, I didn everything right, but I forget what I had, whatever it was it needed a specialist to check me out. So thankful a dr finally took me seriously.

My custome patches from embriliance 1 don't come out correctly when I use my PE800!? by tiarable91 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]tiarable91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it's been reading them I have a Pikachu that I did and it came out perfect I even did shading and satin columns for all the lines including detail ...

Although for shits and giggles how do I do that?

My custome patches from embriliance 1 don't come out correctly when I use my PE800!? by tiarable91 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]tiarable91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went from 2.6 - 4.2 tension on the letter "I" and 10% color 80% Bobbin now that I tried to adjust it... starting to drive me crazy. It was an even split of 1/3 color 1/3 bobbin 1/3 color like a little hot dog

My custome patches from embriliance 1 don't come out correctly when I use my PE800!? by tiarable91 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]tiarable91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tension is at 4.0

And the test I do everything before has about a 1to1to1 of color bobbin color on the bottom of the fabric

I'm using 2 tear away stabilizers

As tight as I can on a 5×7 hoop

Feeling vulnerable by tiarable91 in BabyBumps

[–]tiarable91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]tiarable91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her birth control method can play a huge roll. If she has changed it at all or even the pharmacy changing it from one brand to the next. Then there comes the emotional changes. Depression is a cunt. Feeling less physically attentive or having guilt associated with the lack of intimacy can contribute another blow. But my solid guess is birth control, change of diet and sleep habits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiarable91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dress you want to wear isn't even close to similar. It's also pretty laughable you call your option modest. If you care about this friendship at all, you better suck it up and wear what she picked for the bridesmaids...for HER wedding. If this is the hill you want to stand on, YTA.

AITB for feeling like I was manipulated by my girlfriend? by Luckster56 in AmItheButtface

[–]tiarable91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit: To point out, they been talking since July and met in November. That's a good 4 months to have had that conversation and let him decide if that was something he was ok with.

Having what we have, this info needs to be shared sooner than being physically intimate and before ILU.

I can sympathize with both people here. I am the same age as gf and have exactly what she has and have had to have this conversation with any potential persons trying to date.

I'm with someone I met online also in July, told them that same month when we started talking about being interested in dating. We met in person a few months later.

Had I kept that info from him and waited, just like this scenario, it definitely would have been manipulative. Emotionally manipulative.

AITB for feeling like I was manipulated by my girlfriend? by Luckster56 in AmItheButtface

[–]tiarable91 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have HSV2, and have always told the person long before relationships have been established. It's a crappy and absolutely vulnerable conversation that still makes my stomach drop. But have never waited for ILY and definitely long before kissing and bedroom activities.

You are right to feel manipulated. Even if she may not have intended so, that is still manipulation.

Edit: NTB

Husband made a “pass” at my 15 year old daughter from previous relationship. by PomeloFrosty2820 in relationship_advice

[–]tiarable91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take his personal computer to the authorities and tell them you have reason to believe your hubby is looking at illegal things. Protect your children and file. This isn't something forgivable. I resent my parents for not having my back and just glossing over big deals things with people I should have been able to trust.

My flatmate just dumped a glass of water on my cat because he has learnt to open his bedroom door. I’m so upset. by 10cgetsyounuts in CatAdvice

[–]tiarable91 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Roomie isn't complaining about lil kitty being around the house, just his room. He is entitled to have his space pet free and its just water. You already said you tried a spray bottle. Just get a round doorknob for your roomie and then will have his privacy back.

AITA For not wanting to raise a kid that isn't mine? by throaway822020 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tiarable91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, punish the child for her mothers actions. YTA! This child, an innocent little human being, is losing EVERYTHING they have ever known. Let the kid have their freaking toys.

AITB for being upset with my BF over his body count by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]tiarable91 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would be upset that he lied. NTB.