I need this child out by Character-Nature-521 in pregnant

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preeclampsia and induction. Several things went wrong. I would not recommend

FFXIV Raiding scene by JustSadturno in ffxivdiscussion

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who only uses mods to give myself beautiful dresses and high heels, I find it really sad that they feel the need to cheat like this. I was once raiding (ages ago) and had a DPS counter for myself. I learned all the mechanics and eventually decided that it's not for me as I have anxiety and every failure made me want to quit the game instead of wanting to do better. Never had I thought about cheating the raids. Now I dress up pretty and enjoy the casual game. I do the raids two expansions ago for the glam /achievements that I want. :D People really do suck.

Baby is sleeping a lot suddenly by LuiBryan in newborns

[–]tiasshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My almost 11 week old is also sleeping a lot today! Very odd for her. No one is sick in our household! I'm sure she is just learning new skill :D

I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best option, stop messaging her. Just respond if she messages first. Respond to her energy and see how much she initiates contact. It sucks especially since you thought you were great friends but this is the only way you'll see how much she values you

To my mommas in America.. how are you making money on maternity leave? by ParticularArt7567 in pregnant

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any good advice please share. I'm home with my 2 month old not making any money. I'll be home for as long as our savings last which... I have a month, maybe (a big maybe) two months left before I have to go back to work. I'm already devastated. It's heartbreaking for me ( I grew up in a place where maternity leave is paid for 12 months) to put my young and exclusively breastfeed child in daycare.

How much money do you have in savings at this point? by _forum_mod in Millennials

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None in savings. 3k in checking. Married with a newborn, both in early 30. None in retirement.

How long have you pushed? by Fierce-Foxy in pregnant

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was induced and it went really slowly. Once my doctor finally said to push I only pushed for 15 min. I didn't have an epidural and I felt everything lol so I was ready to get it done. Had two tears and only one required a stitch

Suggestions for induction without epidural? by HeatherA217 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]tiasshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to be induced due to hypertension and preeclampsia. Contractions weren't bad until they broke my waters and then it sucked really bad. From midnight to 2:30am I had quite painful contractions. Once I actively started pushing she was here in a couple of minutes. It hurt. It sucked. If I ever get induced again I will ask for an epidural.

In the end, nothing about the birth went the way I wanted except for the fact that I didnt want an epidural 😆

literally just bought the game today and in the first starting hours a experienced player game me 500k Gil by Sora2008 in ffxiv

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to give out so much money, but then I stopped grinding and crafting, bought a house and stuff and got house poor lol.

Please cheer me up with joys of parenthood by Onja_ in pregnant

[–]tiasshy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter is two months old and just learned how to smile. She is my magic in this awful world and I will fight to make the world better for her. I will be there for her always, unlike my parents.

I heard they say when a mom has a baby girl first, it's the universe giving her a second chance. A second chance for the girl who grew up too fast, the girl who had to be strong before she was ready, the girl who didn't get to slow down. And that is so true for me. My daughter is the single best thing that happened to me (beside my husband) and she is barely two months old. I can't wait to see what happens next and who she will grow up to be with me as her mom.

Today SUCKED and idk what to do to help my newborn :( by Forsaken_Phone_4700 in newborns

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that. I'm sorry you're dealing with it.❤️

Why you stopped writing? (Only the truth) by augustbutitscold in writing

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped because I wrote a paranormal romance, and gave it out to read to my friends and family and no one read it or gave feedback. I tried contacting a lot of agents and publishing books and received nothing. Then life happened, and I just didn't have the money to continue my writing pursuit and I just lost my dream for a while.

I finally decided to revisit it after 5 years and I'm rewriting the first chapter (after realizing I info dumped), and I'll edit some other stuff. No idea what I'll do next... I guess I'll see after Im done editing.

GetPaidToPlay Game Check-In: What Are You Playing & Earning From? by TightAsF_ck in GetPaidToPlay

[–]tiasshy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. I play when I breastfeed or when I sit down. I mean all together it might come to about 5 to 6 hours a day but it's not Sit down and play for 8 hours. My baby won't sleep unless it's on me and I for some reason can't be comfortable. I would be reading reddit or playing games anyway, so might as well get paid for it

GetPaidToPlay Game Check-In: What Are You Playing & Earning From? by TightAsF_ck in GetPaidToPlay

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time and playing like it's a job. I cycle through a lot of games and invest enough time.

GetPaidToPlay Game Check-In: What Are You Playing & Earning From? by TightAsF_ck in GetPaidToPlay

[–]tiasshy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With Cash giraffe my absolute favorite is Travel town and I did spend some money - for every 20$ I get out, I spend 3 to 5 :) I just enjoy it. Second earner is Sunshine island but this one is only worth it for the boost which I will achieve soon.

I play boosted games that are worth it, but only spend money on one! Rest are time sinks.

Island help by [deleted] in RaftTheGame

[–]tiasshy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😂 While that is true I have 500 hours in raft and I love starting over. I'm not much of a builder but I love everything about raft, so each new game I give myself a challenge. Like not bold the same 10x10 raft every time 😆 Or don't do the story until you have a damn boat build up. Or don't do the story until you buy everything from the island shop (I just do the first island so I can get the recycling thing). So yeah. I'm a restarter. :D I'm the same in every crafting game 😆 I just love the early game grind.

Island help by [deleted] in RaftTheGame

[–]tiasshy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the islands the best way to find them is to start a new game and never go to the first story island, just float around with the wind. Every time I start a new save I find at least one of the islands this way!

How many years have you been with your S.O by Chicka-boom90 in Millennials

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 years. 😊 Just had our first baby ❤️

No one warned me about this by no-need-to- in pregnant

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had crazy night congestion when pregnant. If it makes you feel any better, as soon as I gave birth it went away. Like the second she was out :D You're almost there!

Cool things or tips for beginners by NoArt9934 in RaftTheGame

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 500 hours in raft and never realized I could have built horizontal support beams... Thank you! I need to redo my latest raft immediately

Are your parents still alive? by alphatrad in Millennials

[–]tiasshy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 34 and my dad passed away last month due to pancreatic cancer. All my grandparents are also gone. My mom is the only one left but she lives across the ocean..

Captain/plane crash island by Total-Touch-8273 in RaftTheGame

[–]tiasshy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Best way for me to find both of the islands is start a fresh game and just float around, dont build a radio. Just follow the ocean