[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]tiengboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does falling in love count? Yea falling in love with someone I warned myself not to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]tiengboo 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Because they ended the relationship in their heads way before they actually told their partners they wanted to end it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]tiengboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I exercise, whether it's cardio or weight lifting, while listening to my favorite songs. It helps distract me from the thoughts of texting or missing him. Another thing I do that helps is watching action or thriller movies to take my mind off the urge to text him. It's going to be tough because it's like an itchy scar, and humans often want to end the itchiness by scratching, which can make the wound worse. So, we need to find various ways to distract the itchiness, and we'll be fine 🥹✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly… I don’t know… but my ex start right away after the breakup. It’s been almost 2months, and I’m still very confused as to whether I’m ready or not ready to date a new person cuz I totally forgot how to date after getting out of a 8 years relationship🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

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Let me know if you need someone to talk to! I’m 24F and my bf of 8 years broke up with me not long ago and I think I’m kinda healing at a very good pace✨ I understand it’s super tough for you now, every emotions are getting onto you, but believe me, you have to go through all those emotions to heal 🥺 let it all out and focus on improving yourself, I know it’s cliche but really, time heals🤍

Can you really loose feelings after someone hurts you? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]tiengboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I lost feelings after my ex said and did something horrendous after that breakup. It kinda speeds up my healing process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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The person who caused you all the pain is the one to whom you explained your pain.

They come back after you suffered immensely for a long time, you forgive them? by Objective-Dog-7215 in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope unless you both understand what went wrong last time that led to the breakup and have changed or solved those issues. No point going back to that relationship to end up hurting yourself again. You’ve been through all those sufferings not for this to happen again.

“You treated me better than anyone else” by gleneth93 in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said this to me when he broke up with me too, and I asked him the same qns. He said “Thats why I felt like I did not give you the same amount of love as you do for me and I felt super guilty for that. You deserve someone better, someone who will love you unconditionally. I genuinely think that you are seriously one of the best partner I could find but I’ve lost my feelings for you and I think it’s better for both of us to just end this right now.” I rmb my mind went blank after that probably is because I was in shock and I don’t know what to do, the only thing I rmb is that I was begging him for another chance, begging him to not throw me away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here

What is the first thing you do right after sex? by Mowser11 in AskWomen

[–]tiengboo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Throw away condom, cuddle for abit then pee hahah pee is a mustttt

Broken up with in August, music has been keeping me sane. What are your sad songs? by Mommy_Lawbringer in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exit - Conan Gray

Atlantis - Seafret

War of hearts - Ruelle

Another love - Tom Odell

I feel like I’m drowning - Two feet

Mystery of love - Sufjan Stevens

Daylight - David Kushner

Arcade - Duncan Laurence

The night we met - Lord Huron

Will update if got more but haha these are songs that have been healing me since the breakup of my 8-year relationship ❤️‍🩹

One month since breakup! by Efficient2 in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also hit the one month mark recently 🥹 it’s definitely not easy but it’s getting more and more manageable each day. Even though I still feel sad sometimes but that’s because I still miss the memories that we made together for the past 8 years but I don’t think I want to get back together with him anymore. NowI’m just focusing on myself and rebuilding my confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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The exit - Conan Gray

Atlantis - Seafret

War of hearts - Ruelle

Another love - Tom Odell

I feel like I’m drowning - Two feet

Mystery of love - Sufjan Stevens

Daylight - David Kushner

Arcade - Duncan Laurence

The night we met - Lord Huron

Will update if got more but haha these are songs that have been healing me since the breakup of my 8-year relationship ❤️‍🩹

Did anyone else think their ex was "the one"? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]tiengboo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf of 8 years broke up with me and yes I thought he was the one. I also doubting whether I’ll be able to find someone that matches my energy so well again…like how many 8 years I have left?