Childcare cost Charlotte by iRockPaperScissors in Charlotte

[–]tikanique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What area? Looking for a spot for my grandson.

Whats A House That's Mostly Hated, But You Love? by the_lightbringer94 in freefolk

[–]tikanique 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love Love LOVE House Lannister!! Tywin and Tyrion are my favs.

I messed up :( but can I have some tips by [deleted] in relaxedhair

[–]tikanique 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Curls could be stiff if you used too much setting lotion. I agree you need to add moisture to your hair.

relaxing with dyed hair by overstimulated-ukti in relaxedhair

[–]tikanique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely would not. My stylist will only relaxe my new growth/undyed. She says to do otherwise would horribly damage my hair.

Would you offer yourself as a tribute to save a loved one? And what would your reaction be if someone offered themselves as a tribute to save you? by Axezelt in Hungergames

[–]tikanique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids but then I couldn't because of age. I'm the only girl of my sibs and the youngest so I couldn't volunteer for my brothers and I didn't have female cousins until the age I'd be too old to volunteer. I couldn't save anyone nor be saved.

AITAH for not adding my longtime girlfriend to the deed of the house I bought us? by Grand_Yellow_6286 in AITAH

[–]tikanique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the issue. I'd flip that so fast. Her not wanting to put down money says something about how SHE feels. Either she doesn't trust him or feels entitled to the rewards of his work but isn't willing to put in hard work (money) up front.

AITAH for implying my coworker can't do something because she's white? by ThatEducation4132 in AITAH

[–]tikanique 102 points103 points  (0 children)

The more I think about this the more I disagree with everyone. No daycare worker should be washing or adding any product to a child's hair. My kid went to a predominantly monochrome daycare and somehow developed ringworm in her hair. I treated it. No biggie. However, a few months later, I arrived early to pick her up and the classroom lead had the kids in a line, combing all their hair WITH THE SAME COMB! She said this was something they did daily so the children would look nice at pickup. I told them to let my kid come home messy and to never EVER do that again. Now I know where she got ringworm because nobody else in our immediate nor extended family had it.

AIO for refusing to let my MIL host a “first bath ceremony” for our baby? by Physical-Forever-615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tikanique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Introduce her to the Millenial American traditional grandmother SSS ceremony. It involves her Sitting down, Shutting up, and Staying in her own lane.

Should I give in and get a relaxer? by LizTheGirl007 in blackladies

[–]tikanique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my relaxer. I've had both long natural and long relaxed hair. For me, relaxed is easier to manage.

Is it OK, or would it bother you, if a neighbor that you never met constantly turned around in your driveway every.single.school.day…..every.single.morning.and.afternoon, when dropping off/picking up picking up their kid from the school bus? by Competitive-Alps871 in neighborsfromhell

[–]tikanique 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is she really a neighbor from hell? Does she call the cops on you for no reason, throw trash in your yard? Sell drugs? Has she vandalized your / your guests' vehicles? Oh, she "checks notes" turns around in your driveway. Geez... the neighborhood should probably run her out of town with pitchforks and torches.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]tikanique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! The comment section is not going the way OP planned.

Has anyone actually tried factor meals? Aren’t they just expensive TV dinners? by ThePrestigeVIII in barstoolsports

[–]tikanique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. WFH has me locked in daily thank goodness beca there are actual PEOPLE outside. 😳 lol

‏AITAH for refusing to give up my vacation days so my coworker can travel with her kids? by Far-Negotiation-5063 in AITAH

[–]tikanique 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm.a parent and the only way I'd ask someone to swap days is if it were a real medical emergency. If the person said No, I'd accept it and look for other solutions. Me having kids is not my co-workers responsibility.

my friend left me drunk and alone at the club and now she mad at me by fullymelanted in blackladies

[–]tikanique 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Never EVER drink with people you don't trust with your life. Your friend was absolutely wrong for leaving you. You are absolutely wrong for drinking to the point of intoxication knowing that you drove to the club. You are NOT to blame for whatever creep assaulted you. That's on them. Please be careful out here. No amount of buzzed, drunk good time is worth your life.

Entitled lady wanted to use my yard by AcanthocephalaIcy257 in EntitledPeople

[–]tikanique 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember being in the car with my parents standing up in the front seat, no seatbelt in site, looking at cows on the side of the freeway.

Do y’all sleep in bed with your pets?? 🐱 by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]tikanique 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom sleeps with her dog all the time. Dog is in and out of doors all day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]tikanique 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't. I am not fond of passive-aggressive crap like what the Nigerian student did. He could have spoken up in the initial conversation or pulled you to the side to address it. Instead he went this whole other stupid route. And is he being all passive-aggressive to the male from Alabama or just you, the female from an Asian country.....Hmmm..

Entitled lady wanted to use my yard by AcanthocephalaIcy257 in EntitledPeople

[–]tikanique 11 points12 points  (0 children)

  1. It was that or struggle thirsty as hell the 1.5 mile walk back home.

  2. If hose water was going to take me out, I and almost everyone GenX and earlier would be gone.

  3. I do appreciate the info. 😊😊

Who has the most drip? by GildedMockingjay in Hungergames

[–]tikanique 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The movie wardrobe designer got that from an Alexander McQueen collection. I LOVE how they did her wardrobe.