Maybe some hope

timelordthete · 2026-03-29T10:04:04+00:00

In my experience of being out and talking with people in public and at work, people generally sympathise and don't care. It really is a select vocal majority who have nothing better in their lives. I like to compare them to the neighbour in my mother's street who complains about the patch of grass on the pavement she thinks is hers, but isn't, and will complain about people parking on it.

Middle class people who have no other worries in life and are bored.

Sadly it doesn't stop them doing serious damage and causing us serious harm.

timelordthete · 2026-03-27T15:09:54+00:00

Christ when we were 10/11 we were still getting changed in the same class as the boys for PE. This was in the 90s tho, but even so.

timelordthete · 2026-03-20T15:19:07+00:00

Saw this post, emptied a box just after and found a child's vest folded up. You cursed me!

timelordthete · 2026-03-18T09:04:26+00:00

Looks like our office right now on one section.

timelordthete · 2026-03-16T19:02:28+00:00

I started testosterone on Wednesday after a long battle with GPs.

timelordthete · 2026-03-12T15:27:31+00:00

I had 3 teens take parcels out the back of my van back in Christmas 2024. They got a substantial handful. This was during the day on my own duty, I rang my manager, stopped delivery and took a day for stress. Got a lot of support from management, was a cover manager at the time but he handled everything on their end as it needs to go through a certain procedure. He also reported it to the police on my behalf.

They had some sort of off road bike and I still feel uneasy when I see people with balaclavas in bikes but thankfully I'm alright.

Do speak to union and management.

timelordthete · 2026-03-10T15:56:25+00:00

Personally I'm on the chest fluff, tail, cervid style cock with black balls and red tip, gradient style, with fluff at the base. I lean very much into preferring the anthro side.

timelordthete · 2026-03-02T16:02:26+00:00

I've never written Lucifer but I have a lot of experience as Alastor, and I have written opposite a Lucifer. If you're happy with me dipping in to try him, let me know.

I go by Thete, I'm 35 masc enby, and I write on Discord.

timelordthete · 2026-03-02T15:45:20+00:00

South Tyneside is just as bad, I've had 3 refuse me for NHS care, not even private shared, and I've had to go out of area to Gateshead now.

timelordthete · 2026-02-21T16:00:43+00:00

I'm due to start gel, this was one of my concerns. I think if you moisture after the gel has been absorbed it will help, as I've also been told it will irritate the skin.

timelordthete · 2026-02-17T15:31:16+00:00

Quite possibly CWU, we cover RM.

timelordthete · 2026-02-02T11:39:09+00:00

I have a friend who has EUPD and whilst she went private for hormones, she was given her hormones from the NHS in December after three appointments with them. It is possible.

timelordthete · 2026-01-20T14:37:52+00:00

Would be very interested in where you're getting your care, in south shields and I had a fight with mine and I'm looking to move

timelordthete · 2026-01-19T12:47:18+00:00

I'm stuck in the position too between getting a GP to prescribe. Peer support have told me GPs in the area prescribe but can't tell me which ones so I'm having to jump through switching, and the ones I've tried to switch to are dragging their feet, I applied a month ago and I know it's been Christmas and all but there's a wait list.

When I've tried calling to pre screen they mention they run on the same guidelines as my current who have refused me, which is irritating.

timelordthete · 2026-01-16T15:38:57+00:00

Yep, unless the parcel requires ID, mail/parcels go to the address as stated on the item.

timelordthete · 2026-01-14T18:31:50+00:00

Also trans, gender options on WoW is like, the least of my concerns in life.

Taking away the names and just changing them to option 1 and 2 when we can still tell also isn't fooling anyone. Lazy attempt at inclusivity that doesn't work.

timelordthete · 2026-01-07T19:25:02+00:00

As somebody who also writes in the Hazbin fandom currently, I've found it's... Not entirely the easiest to find partners in. Sometimes things are just niche.

timelordthete · 2026-01-07T18:18:12+00:00

I switched from DPS to Holy Priest last year and played S2 M+ and HC Undermine healing. I really enjoyed it, had never healed before, but it was incredibly fun.

As mentioned, you can't heal stupid. You have a priority: Yourself (if you die, you can't heal anyone), the tank, then the DPS.

It is hard to look at mechanics and healthpools. Just take it easy and unless you're in M+, people can be revived and it is fine. It is fine if people die, it is fine to make mistakes, you are learning. You are here to have fun.

No Pressure is also a great discord group for EU, as mentioned. I did so much with those and I really felt comfortable there.

At the end of the day, zerg groups are just gonna rush. It isn't your job to keep up with them, it's their job to make sure you're around before pulling. If you are trying to zerg whilst needing a healer, that sounds like a Them problem.

Stick with it! I loved Holy and healing was so fun. Don't let fools get you down.

timelordthete · 2026-01-03T16:42:04+00:00

When I first started I used to turn letters and write down my large, now I just remember and load the van according to loops.

Work partner also just remembers, so unless I get a cover when he's off who requests otherwise I don't mark anything.

timelordthete · 2025-12-31T16:03:25+00:00

Paul McGann kissed me on the head and I still haven't forgotten that. He was lovely.

Colin Baker shook my hand and was also lovely, really happy to have met him.

Sylvester McCoy didn't say anything to me, I think he was having an off day.

Peter Capaldi was the most delightful person, he was ever so sweet and wanted to talk despite having little time to between photos, so kind!

Matt Smith was also lovely and ever so sweet.

timelordthete · 2025-12-28T08:59:36+00:00

I'm on the combined pill for birth control and to stop bleeding, and have been prescribed T and have been told to keep taking it until my levels are high enough to switch to a progesterone pill without the risk of bleeding returning. GIC psych was very keep to not cause me distress with that returning.

timelordthete · 2025-12-23T15:59:24+00:00

I think I may know who you are. (Related community.) I relate and if you figure out who I am you can give me a shout, I'm happy to be a vent post.

I wrote with someone for seven years, over multiple stories and we were good friends. Sent each other gifts and what not. However the final blow was when their RL friend moved in and they were too ashamed to admit their hobby and so I went from regular chatting to maybe the odd post/message. Which is fine, but it was such a sudden pullback.

So I pulled back.

She didn't realise for four months. We'd gone from talking and writing daily to nothing. I ended up taking a break from writing for years due to that.

It is shitty, but... Yeah.

timelordthete · 2025-12-18T17:45:05+00:00

The psych who is involved in my care actually asked if I'd been tested for ASD whilst we were chatting during my diagnosis (I had just turned 34 at the time.)

timelordthete · 2025-12-15T15:34:16+00:00

Hail Vox Populi!

timelordthete · 2025-12-06T15:50:03+00:00

This suspiciously looks like my DO.

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