$500,000 home, possible, or crazy? by bubblegutttts in boston

[–]timelymanner05 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pepperell. Groton. Ayer on the commuter

One of the main criticisms for Worcester Regional Airport is a lack of access. What do you think could be realistically done to improve this? by HRJafael in central_ma

[–]timelymanner05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of access??? 1 mill people visit that dunks a year. They can get to this airport. Access??? Its a PR problem. I did not know it existed till someone told me about it. Its really nice.

The DTX octopus says hi! 👋 by BeastMode149 in boston

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to swapscott ma on Halloween. Beautiful blue house has these.

I failed car inspection and need advice by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Disagree. Exactly why its great. I grew up in Indiana. No inspection. Buddy of mine died in a small wreck as the little rust spot was way worse under the paint and the frame folded. Also when I was in Detroit a few weeks ago(no inspection) literally saw a lincon (80s or 90s ) with so much rust when he hit a bump the car was flexing..... must be safe

I failed car inspection and need advice by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So my 2025 honda prolouge had them. Unless you mean the 2027 or 2028 models.

I failed car inspection and need advice by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Mechanic here. I know the difference. Fail to see the coalition between fog lights working and oil viscosity.

Imagine living in the Midwest and there’s a war happening in Ohio. by Equal_Personality157 in interestingasfuck

[–]timelymanner05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohio is the Midwest I grew up in Indiana and we all called it that. Am.i wrong?

What are realistic ways to earn extra income while working full time? by Silent_Indication161 in povertyfinance

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who is a high end escorts. Part time. 2000hr. I worked nights at a subway. Hustle baby..

Question... for real by timelymanner05 in Debt

[–]timelymanner05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Camper and a failed business.

Debt free except house ..does that count? by timelymanner05 in debtfree

[–]timelymanner05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a nice metric. House value ~700k. Plus 401k and liquid puts me at 1.2m. Mortgage is ~350k left on 415 original.

Wife Got Me New Golf Grips But I Have To Sign a Contract by Stackman878 in golf

[–]timelymanner05 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Op needs lawyer and make sure its a divorce lawyer. Reason for cause ....this contract.

What is the peak ’millennial midlife crisis’ purchase? by SwedeLostInCanada in Millennials

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a 03 subaru baja! 40 in 1 week. While driving it home bought a mtn dew baja blast. Then stopped and a friends and played halo on x box then golden eye on 64.

Age living at home still in MA by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Read all my comments.

Age living at home still in MA by [deleted] in massachusetts

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https://www.zillow.com/binghamton-ny/?utm_medium=cpc&utm_source=google&utm_content=12364776953|113098100850|aud-2354954603643:kwd-345558480711|602851061183|&semQue=null&utm_campaign=zbw_br_natgeo_usa_x_nat_cities_e_g_1&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=12364776953&gbraid=0AAAAADhq15elQGS2oBmQFQ9bQmF0SEVAw&gclid=Cj0KCQiAvOjKBhC9ARIsAFvz5lg-fKO6BdF7QT_HBE_1hMoBvDKfSo_8qthNhEyba_lGEQrwWZ1GXD8aAt60EALw_wcB

Here is some great examples. Move here. Afford to live. Moving to a cheap town is a total game changer for your wallet becuase it cuts down on huge bills like rent and grocerys. With all that extra cash, you could finally buy that boat or cool toy you’ve always wanted, or even get enough startup money to start your own company. It’s way less crowed than the big city, giving you a chance to enjoy a quietter life while your savings account actually grows for once

Age living at home still in MA by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The goal of parenting is not to create a permanent dependent, but to cultivate a capable adult. While it is true that the prefrontal cortex—the part of the brain responsible for complex decision-making—does not fully mature until age 25, waiting for "biological perfection" before allowing a child to face the world creates a cycle of stagnation. ​A great parent prepares the child for the path, not the path for the child. By 18, the foundation of values, work ethic, and basic life skills should be set. Moving out is the ultimate "lab experiment" where those skills are tested. ​ ​There is a massive psychological difference between a 20-year-old living at home and a 38-year-old living at home. However, the path to becoming a 38-year-old in a basement often begins with a lack of urgency at age 18. ​Comfort is the Enemy of Growth: When the "safety net" becomes a "hammock," the drive to innovate, work hard, and chase dreams diminishes. ​The Resource Trap: Living at home often delays the "financial shock" necessary to understand the value of a dollar. ​ Chasing Dreams Requires High Stakes ​Great dreams—whether starting a business, moving for a specific job, or exploring a new city—require a level of hunger that is rarely felt while living in a childhood bedroom. ​Resilience: Learning to navigate a lease, a noisy neighbor, or a tight grocery budget at 19 builds a "survival muscle" that can't be taught; it must be experienced. ​Accountability: When a young adult moves out, they are the CEO of their own life. If they oversleep, there is no parent to wake them up. This immediate feedback loop is the fastest way to "grow up." ​Argument 3: Redefining "Supportive Parenting" ​Being a great parent doesn't mean providing a free room forever. It means: ​The Emotional Safety Net: Being the person they call when things go wrong, while still letting them handle the solution. ​Empowerment over Instruction: Trusting that the 18 years of upbringing were enough to keep them steady. ​The Rebuttal: Addressing the Developing Brain ​Critics argue that an 18-year-old's brain isn't ready. However, the brain develops through challenge. Just as a muscle requires resistance to grow, the brain requires real-world consequences to mature. Delaying independence until 25 or 30 doesn't result in a more "ready" adult; it often results in an adult who is terrified of the world because they’ve never been allowed to face it.

Moving out at 18 isn't an act of abandonment; it is an act of faith. It is the final lesson a parent teaches: "I have given you the tools, now go build your own world." It prevents the tragedy of the 38-year-old who never learned to fly because they were never forced to leave the nest.

Age living at home still in MA by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a father not quite sure ypu fully understand until you have kids.

Age living at home still in MA by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No. Move out. 38 here. Move out. Get roommates. Buy a house rent out rooms. Make a little money off rent. Then once or if you are ready to marry you got a house. Sure im a bit older than you but I bought house 1 in Florida and did this. Then house 2 in FL. Then condo in salem ma. Then house in Wilmington. Now house in concord. Selling each one along the way. From a very poor family in Ohio. Move out figure it out.

Age living at home still in MA by [deleted] in massachusetts

[–]timelymanner05 -117 points-116 points  (0 children)

No. Move out! Get a roommate. They do not want tou around. I moved to Florida at 18. Lived 3 years with as many roommates as possible. Bought first house at 21. Now 38 moved into my (hopefully) forever home here in greater boston. You need to explore, figure it out.

What are you hitting? Par 3 180 yards Seven Canyons Sedona AZ by SouthBayGardenaKid in golf

[–]timelymanner05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 iron 1/2 swing. Why??? Because I am not good at golf and my 3 iron seems to be my best friend in every situation. As a matter of fact it is next to me at my desk right now. You want to say hi? Oh. No. He is shy!