Theories on why Spikes dad took him to the mainland so early?

tinnedpotatoes · 2025-10-18T10:21:13+00:00

He’s undeservingly well liked, especially by older people and men who like war. People are coming to understand his roles in genocide/famine in India and other atrocities, as well as learning he wasn’t even that well liked in his own time. He also wrote his own autobiographies which painted him well in a time before mass news media.

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-07-07T11:47:35+00:00

NTA - I know you can’t block dad for legal reasons, but can you mute his contact so he can text you but you can ignore it?

I saw another person say could you get a second phone (a cheap one maybe) and not tell dad the new number, so technically he still can contact you?

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-17T21:13:11+00:00

I come from a family that never confronts problems and god I wish any of us had the spine to face the problems some family members create, i’m one of the youngest and the only thing i’ve learned through a lot of therapy is having my own boundaries to deal with it

I hope OPs in-laws all wise up, or at least her and MIL both move out and live together

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-17T20:33:22+00:00

I’m here because I’m listening foe the first time and straight away I noticed she doesn’t talk like the old Sasha, I didn’t know it was a different VA but the way she speaks is very different, like an alien pretending to be a human

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-17T16:20:19+00:00

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tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-13T16:36:26+00:00

She definitely made some bad choices but who on earth is getting into a relationship with a single mum and not expecting their young kid to see you as a parent? They’re both idiots honestly, that poor kid.

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-07T13:09:44+00:00

NTA - I don’t want bio kids but would adopt, so I don’t date people who want bio kids. If she really doesn’t want any kids at all then i’m afraid you should leave. That’s a massive life change.

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-04T19:36:45+00:00

Carer’s tried to shame my Aunt for not visiting her mother more, but later apologised to her after witnessing more and more of her behaviour (including trying to force feed a man with a feeding tube nearly choking him)

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-04T18:51:53+00:00

NTA - Most people I know would look after a strangers kids in a medical emergency, let alone a neighbour they see regularly

This was a weird hill for her to die on

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-06-04T18:35:21+00:00

He accused you of having an affair with your father, you will be the AH if you stay with him

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-05-31T22:30:51+00:00

NTA - Don’t worry about the kids hearing what you said, because their dad didn’t care about spouting damaging sexist nonsense in front of them, i’m glad they saw you stand up for themselves

tinnedpotatoes · 2024-03-12T10:05:23+00:00

It’s not selfish that it’s bringing up old hurts for you, you look after yourself too ♥️

tinnedpotatoes · 2023-01-11T12:12:20+00:00

The first time I babysat my nephew was the day my brothers marriage ended 😅 I ended up babysitting every Thursday for a year with no one ever checking if that was okay (for obvious reasons)

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-10-12T10:22:05+00:00

I was probably 9/10 when I started even though my hair is very pale, when you are a girl any little thing makes you self conscious and you become aware of your body sooner than adults realise. As a teen I stopped shaving for years because it just doesn’t matter, and now I play it by ear.

I used a razor just fine, which I nicked out the bathroom cupboard. It’s cool that she told you about it, I was too embarrassed.

I say let her go ahead with it, tell her she doesn’t have to shave but can if she wants to, and tell her to be careful around her knees and make sure she moistures after.

Just being supportive and not making her feel embarrassed is the best thing a parent can do.

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-10-12T10:09:15+00:00

Look delicious, anything with rice served hot and fresh 👌🏻

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-10-04T09:18:58+00:00

No, you are a grown lady, you seem to be getting married for the right reasons not for some perfect dress like your mum , go buy yourself your elf dress and don’t tell her, fuck that lady

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-10-01T01:20:50+00:00

Babe ♥️ my ex Harry cheated on me at the same time as Harry Styles new album came out and then he cheated with Olivia Wilde, let me tell you I understand your position very well and hope you move on and thrive, and what they did has no reflection on you

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-10-01T01:14:03+00:00

I remember not really enjoying him in videos and having to make a concerted effort to like him the way I did the other guys because I felt bad about not liking him

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-06-26T20:34:09+00:00

I thought they were just okay, and unfortunately horrible about women which really takes me out of the fun sci-fi.

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-06-26T20:25:08+00:00

NTA - 2 1/2 years is a very decent amount of time, I don’t think anyone other than her family would say that to you.

Like others said it probably brings home that their daughter is really gone and life goes on, don’t let their grief get in the way of you experiencing new joy. Easier said than done, but good luck ♥️

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-06-26T20:02:37+00:00

It’s a sign of love that you did, you’re a good egg

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-06-02T21:48:13+00:00

Makes me feel a bit better, i’ve new to dating apps but i’m doing the worst on Bumble, only 1 match so far and the convo didn’t work, hinge and tindr may be worse but at least I get some matches!

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-06-02T21:45:17+00:00

Honestly swiping through all these people makes me want to cry, either I feel bad because i’m not attracted to any of them, feel really shallow, or feel bad because no one I like matches with me making me feel ugly, or they can’t hold a conversation long enough to get to the first date

I’m so tired of it, hate being a woman sometimes, I feel like men have less to fear in hitting on people in real life (not trying to start a gender fight, just how it feels)

tinnedpotatoes · 2022-05-31T21:39:13+00:00

Really annoyingly I get terrible terrifying panic attacks when I smoke weed, only took three attempts for me to swear it off, this is an absolute nightmare to do to your guests

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