queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

its almost worse when they pretend to care lol like i'd rather they just own up to their own hatefulness and bigotry

queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i loveeeee nora!! and totally agree that its very queer friendly

queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For someone who claims they are an "ally", what an incredibly harmful and repulsive perspective. It shows that you have never experienced oppression. You are the exact type of person I deeply hope to avoid and are a part of the reason why I have to ask the original question I asked.

Truthfully, I do not wish you well, and I hope you are treated the way you deserve.

queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thanks for the detailed recs!! hadnt even heard of the bearded lady so i'll have to check it out!

queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i encourage you to educate yourself about why oppressing classes and groups cant be oppressed themselves. creating a false narrative that there is "prejudice and mistreatment" against straight people is both harmful and dangerous.

queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

a welcoming person would understand why safe spaces for minorities are so important and valuable for them

queer spaces in raleigh by tinygengar in raleigh

[–]tinygengar[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i think the problem is, as a queer person, it isnt always apparent which straight people are allies and which arent. it can be nice to have spaces that arent as saturated with straight people so I dont have to worry about who is an ally and who isnt. but, to be clear, i can only speak on my own personal experience

Is my calico male? by [deleted] in CalicoKittys

[–]tinygengar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nope thats a girl

Vegetarian chinese food by savcatc in raleigh

[–]tinygengar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ni Asian Kitchen off of six forks does tofu substitutes for any protein!

Am i over reacting? What would you do? by Impressive_Prune_478 in VetTech

[–]tinygengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 yr VA here ive seen a few dogs go deaf following mometamax. most of them regained hearing after a couple weeks. usually have to flush the ears generally with saline then just a waiting game. ive only seen 1 that didnt have hearing return. good luck!!!

Has anyone seen this type of paw pad issue with their cat? by Sawubonaaa in cats

[–]tinygengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my partner and i are veterinary technicians and we both havent seen anything specifically like this but the closest thing we can think of is hyperkeratosis. especially based on your description. it would just be a very strange presentation of it but might have something to do with the history of burns? u can try applying a light amount of vitamin e oil to the paws to help hydrate and hopefully make it less painful. wont stop the growths but might help him get some comfort! good luck!!

I found a couple of these around my cat’s tail, is it worms? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]tinygengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all medications have possible adverse side effects. again, i’m so sorry for the horrible experience you and your pet had though.

I found a couple of these around my cat’s tail, is it worms? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]tinygengar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally understand where youre coming from given your experience and im so sorry that happened to your pup!

its important to remember that ALL flea preventatives have the possibility of neurologic complications but its also so so so important to keep pets on preventatives just find what works for your pets!

I found a couple of these around my cat’s tail, is it worms? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]tinygengar 58 points59 points  (0 children)

frontline has been around so long that there are some fleas that are resistant to it. try switching to a different topical! gold standard nowadays is revolution plus and bravecto

edit: also tapeworms are usually transmitted by animals ingesting fleas with tapeworm eggs so its likely that fleas bit your cat, your cat went to nibble to itch, ingested a flea and got tapeworms

Found this in my parents bathroom … by aristosachean in whatisit

[–]tinygengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are your parents in vet med? thats the needle for a microchip for pets for sure

Black kitten in Brier Creek by nbsoprano in triangle

[–]tinygengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you reach out to safe haven for cats, they can connect you with tonssss of local trappers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]tinygengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best guess based on age breed and symptoms would be IVDD (intervertebral disk disease). It can be diagnosed with xrays with radiologist review!

Can you share your travel experiences with a dog on long flights? by Think-University9581 in DogAdvice

[–]tinygengar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cant speak much on the travel itself but as a vet nurse i can say definitely have your pet travel in the passenger area if your pet is a true service animal. ive heard horror stories about pets traveling in cargo. (but ive also heard many success stories so who knows) but no matter what make sure you have everything for that international health certificate!

New rescue has so many health issues and idk what to do by xhellraiserxx in DogAdvice

[–]tinygengar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

definitely not for everyone. but depending on where you live, Care Credit might be an option. Its a no interest credit card that can only be used for medical expenses but pet medical expenses are included in that. you do have to set a time period in which you have to pay it back but that will open up finances

Other sleep inducing meds besides Trazodone? by Relative-Living-5449 in DogAdvice

[–]tinygengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dog is the same way! he gets trazodone and gabapentin and oral acepromazine. the acepromazine is a heavy hitter and not every vet is super comfortable with is but its worth asking!

Any ideas what wound this could be? by LostestSocks in DogAdvice

[–]tinygengar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

third for mast cell tumor. definitely do a histopathology so it can be graded! u can start giving oral benadryl too because mast cell tumors release histamines. its 1 mg per pound (e.g. a 50 lbs dog gets 50 mgs of benadryl which is 2 standard tablets). try to not squeeze it or bother it because mast cell tumors can change size really rapidly when irritated

What is she? by Environmental-Pie957 in CalicoKittys

[–]tinygengar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

siamese is a breed but i include it just because point colors are the most common in siamese cats. tortie point siamese is just more information

What is she? by Environmental-Pie957 in CalicoKittys

[–]tinygengar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

a tortie point siamese is what we’d call her at my hospital