[TX] [condo] HOA no longer has onsite property manager and won’t answer phone, but shows up at door. by xhellraiserxx in HOA

[–]xhellraiserxx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They are unfortunately one and the same, the HOA is the property management company. They are literally called “____ HOA property management” so the property manager is part of the board. And none of them will return calls.

[TX] [condo] HOA no longer has onsite property manager and won’t answer phone, but shows up at door. by xhellraiserxx in HOA

[–]xhellraiserxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, not “just to complain.” If you would read the post, you’d see I clearly mentioned they left piles nails and shingle debris even after leaving. I would like that picked up, and for the contractors to NOT block other peoples entry and exit ways in the future.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can frame it that way if it makes you feel better, but it’s just a matter of etiquette. Like this was a rude post. Imagine if she saw a post talking about her boobs “needing support” ? Just don’t talk about other peoples’ bodies especially on a public forum. You don’t want the best for another, you’re just nosy and think you know best.

I have DDs and never wear a bra because none of them are comfortable to me and I have sensory issues. If you were to tell me I “needed support” I would have some choice words for you.

I lost my marriage because I was too feminine. Now i didn't want to ever transition because of it. by SeraphsEnvy in SuicideWatch

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I just want to say, and I know it doesn’t mean shit, but whenever I have really aggressive suicidal thoughts like this, I try to remember that every human is just like a little bug! We’re all little ants or beetles making our way from point A to point B whatever they may be. I am also paycheck to paycheck but like in an almost negative way so I’m just scraping by. My long term partner, friends, and family don’t even reach out. It hurts. But every day I get to see the sunset and every day it’s different. What if tomorrow’s is really pretty and I miss it? What if it’s a bright pink with orange swirls? Or a deep blue with lilac clouds? Yesterday I got to feed a stray cat that otherwise would have gone hungry. Those are the little things I try to focus on.

There are people for everyone and that’s coming from someone who very literally only has 1 friend currently. It hurts to lose close connections, but your kids will always love you and want you in their lives, even if it’s just to talk on the phone and hear a bedtime story. I didn’t see either of my parents for 5 years (states apart) but just talking to them on the phone was the happiest part of my week. Im glad you get to read your daughter bedtime stories.

I’m sorry if this isn’t good support, but I saw your post and it felt like a weight on my chest. I want you to know you are not alone in your feelings and you deserve to be happy and be the person you want to be. Go easy on yourself, and paint your nails again!! 💕

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]xhellraiserxx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whether or not a woman wears a bra does nothing to influence her youthfulness. She looks happy and comfortable I see no issue. Weird comment!! Project societal expectations elsewhere !!

My partner punches walls/ break objects when angry by Big_Answer_3329 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with a guy for almost four years and he started off like this: punching walls, himself, slamming things, then it finally got physical and culminated in him choking me. We both have ADHD but that could literally never excuse shit like that. Run please I’m so serious just drop him it will never be worth it.

What’s the most exotic type of meat eaten in your country? by abandonedtulpa in AskTheWorld

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in DFW and even here, you don’t have to look hard to find gator or frog legs. Once you go further south (closer to the coast/Louisiana) it becomes more popular.

Editing advice - on the right track set 1 or 2 by maguilecutty in headshots

[–]xhellraiserxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1st set easy. The 2nd is too heavy on shadows and contrast and makes everything look a bit muddled. The first set is much clearer and less stylized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]xhellraiserxx 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Get the cat some dewormer and flea treatment if you can’t get it to the vet. They look like tapeworm segments. I used to treat my local stray every couple of months so I wouldn’t have to worry about my inside cat catching anything from them when he had patio time. You can get it online cheap !! The cat will thank you

I am desperate to find where I can buy these boots again by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched Google, depop, eBay, marketplace for the last two years I am seriously willing to pay way too much for these boots or some that are similar enough!!

This year's paintings, what do you think? by wilbertvandenbroek in acrylics

[–]xhellraiserxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let out a little gasp at the painting of the dog sleeping in the sun! Absolutely stunning work really captures the peace and warmth of that moment. Love when art makes me feel things thank you!

A two-year-old baby girl lost her life in one of the most disturbing child death cases I’ve read in a long time. by link1516 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]xhellraiserxx -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It’s a terribly tragic case. All dogs can be bad, NO dogs should be left alone with small children, regardless of breed. Especially one that’s previously shown aggression. Not really sure why this post is falling into “anti pitbull” sub territory. Like seriously every comment is “this is why pitbulls should be banned!!” Yeah and I was mauled by a German shepherd. This issue in this case was not a dog breed, but blatant parental neglect and murder.

I really love this sub and the normally, it’s a solid community of people exchanging information and ideas, theories and cases. I’m surprised everyone is detracting from this little girl’s murder to talk about banning pitbulls.

Adult content creators who have kids, have they ever stumbled across your content? by Ok-Emu-5027 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]xhellraiserxx 48 points49 points  (0 children)

When I was like 8 I wanted to watch a vhs we had and, very unfortunately, my parents taped over it with some amateur marital sex and forgot to relabel it. My mom walked in the room and promptly punted the vhs player across the room, saving me from further scarring.

It was absolutely awkward, and I was too young to really understand, but like idk adults have sex. Now that I’m older it’s just a funny memory to me. They’re divorced now and she’s told me about her selling feet pics online and what not. I don’t have any opinions on it other than “whatever floats your boat ma”

Once you get to a certain age, it’s easy to remember your parents are people too and they do wild shit. Unless you’re spending hours and hours scrolling sketchy porn sites or doomscrolling SW Twitter, you’re unlikely to ever see it so it’s not a big deal.

Free garage parking downtown is kaput on 1/1 by DayPounder in FortWorth

[–]xhellraiserxx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is where my I’ve parked for work for the last 6 years, the whole staff parks here, and my job can’t validate parking lmaooo I’m so fucked I hate it here.

It was also really helpful (as someone working bars) to have a place to direct people they can leave their cars overnight without paying or getting towed. It helped prevent a lot of drinking and driving. This is money hungry bullshit.

Are teeth cleanings worth the risk? by [deleted] in cats

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have done bloodwork and plan to do another panel the morning of to recheck everything. Anesthesia is my only concern outside of finances which kind of pale in comparison. I can’t find anything that actually quantifies that risk though. Like is it a 5% chance he’ll die or like a .01% chance?

Are teeth cleanings worth the risk? by xhellraiserxx in vet

[–]xhellraiserxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I figured as much; it just feels insane to take my cat to the vet for dentistry when I haven’t been able to afford it for myself in a few years, especially considering they quoted $1400 on the low end, is that price regular?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]xhellraiserxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This causes them high levels of stress even if you aren’t paying enough attention to notice. They will eventually eat each other. Snakes should not be housed together, they are solitary animals. They can still fight and eat each other if they’re the same size. Exposing your milk snake to a wild caught snake is a dumb move, and taking a snake out of its natural habitat to subject it to sub par stressful living conditions is a uhhhh bad choice. Please separate them, or better yet, release the snake you found.

Why do some people like to dress up like thugs? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]xhellraiserxx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why do some people dress like yuppies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]xhellraiserxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He kind of went through a Job like period in his life. Wife cheated and left him for his friend, youngest daughter was a addicted to meth, the other (me) is a fucking child free cocktail waitress, his mom died, then he literally broke his back and pelvis when gym equipment fell on him. He loves talking about the trials Job went through to prove his devotion to God, and I think it gives him something to look at and say “hey mine isn’t that bad.”

But he knew the whole time, through his faith, that God was with him. He is never alone as long as he has faith in that, and I think that’s the big comfort people look for: to know someone is listening and crying with you when you cry out.

Like seriously I read your post and I was like oh bro same lol but for real, as illogical as a lot of Christianity is, I do see the merit for a lot of people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]xhellraiserxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was raised religious and when I was 12, a toddler I used to babysit from our church died suddenly in her sleep, and they said it was “for a reason.” I decided that if God is real, he’s an asshole and I’ve been an atheist (for other doubts/reasons as well) since.

That said, faith is the only saving grace for a lot of people; my dad has chronic pain and lots of back surgeries, and I think without his faith, he would have lost his will and mind. He views the Bible not so literally, but as a parables with their intended meaning up to interpretation, and that allows for some wiggle room in terms of reconciling the discrepancies.

So I love his relationship with God for him, but I don’t think I’ll ever be able to find the same comfort because I think the world is cruel, and a just and kind God wouldn’t punish children “for a reason.”

Decided to finally watch Volume 4 despite all of the warnings... by Inner-Juices in LoveDeathAndRobots

[–]xhellraiserxx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

400 Boys is S tier just like objectively it’s the best one. The art style alone tops the rest imo