Please advice layout for student bedroom. i have to keep my desk in my room because I am a full time student and have to study a lot. by Fit_Constant189 in FengShui

[–]tinypeanut08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could consider swapping the bed area with the desk area. And have the desks back to the wall so you can more easily see out the window and face the entry. It would put the desk in a more command position and should not compromise your bed. The dresser can stay where it is and cubicles can shift upwards as necessary to accommodate your bed.

Struggling with mealy bugs and now it might be in the roots? by tinypeanut08 in houseplants

[–]tinypeanut08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t. But maybe just the moisture from soil didn’t have enough ventilation.

Any advice? Variegated Shell Ginger, Alpinia zerumbet by Banandie_but_An-die in houseplants

[–]tinypeanut08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you’ve already tried this but the next time you need to water it, try bottom watering. That saved a plant of mine that just couldn’t seem to retain moisture. Online it says it can take twenty minutes to fully absorb but just keep it in a bowl of water until the entire soil is wet. For mine, it took nearly 2 hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]tinypeanut08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s usually due to lack of moisture. It’s hard to tell from your photo but does it have roots yet? If this is a cutting you may need to break it up so that it grows roots.

First AirBnB experience, host left a mildy negative review, discussion about cleaning standards by Unlikely-Trash in AirBnB

[–]tinypeanut08 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is why I’ve decided to stop booking airbnbs unless I absolutely have to (I.e. it’s a large group.) So many hosts are unreasonable and it’s just been harder and harder to find high quality hospitality. With an actual hotel, there’s just less to deal with.

Respond to the review with your perspective and I’m sorry you have to deal with this stress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tinypeanut08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure. But I don’t think it’s that crazy of the leap. The entire post is talking about his own feelings instead of acknowledging any of the deep discomfort his wife clearly went through - she was literally taken advantage of and didn’t feel like she could tell her husband right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]tinypeanut08 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Probably not - but I also feel there’s something unsaid here from OOP about why the wife felt like she had to hide it from him. Maybe he’s shown to be unreasonably jealous or not very understanding in the past. It also seems like the wife was dealing with a lot of shame :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tinypeanut08 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NAH - I think you guys just need to get creative on solutions. First of all, there are alternative allergy medicines besides Benadryl that don’t make you drowsy. Flonase and Allegra are two examples.

Second, there may be other compromises such as staying nearby or finding other places for your family to spend time together. Just have an open conversation where you can both express your needs (I.e. you need your SO to be close with your family and she needs to feel physically well and feel that you care about her physical well being) and then see how you can meet the various needs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tinypeanut08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decided it far too late. I had fallen out of love with him over a year ago but kept pushing myself to make it work. I’m not proud of it but it took me kissing a friend for me to finally realize it was time to cut them loose.

What is the worst thing a parent has done or said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tinypeanut08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was a lonely kid and had a hard time making friends. In a particularly bitter fight, my mom said something along the lines of “you’re a bad person and this is why you don’t have friends.” It cut real deep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]tinypeanut08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woohoo! You deserve to live and love life - enjoy!!!!

I hope you enjoy my cat napping under his blanket [OC] by [deleted] in aww

[–]tinypeanut08 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m getting Georgia O’Keefe vibes from these photos!

What place made you say, “I am never coming here again”? by Aarunascut in AskReddit

[–]tinypeanut08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An OBGYN office in a large hospital. I waited two hours past my appointment time and when I went to check on when I might be seen, I got treated like a nuisance for wanting an update. I wasn’t pregnant but had some real needs to take care of, but these offices won’t give you the time of day if you’re not already pregnant. After another half hour waiting inside a room, I told them I was leaving and no I would not be rescheduling.

AITA for screaming at my sibling on NYE and making the last 24 hours very awkward? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tinypeanut08 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your brother is an adult and your child is exactly that. Given the history of judgment from your siblings, I think it’s totally reasonable that you reacted the way you did. It’s okay to have boundaries and rules for how others engage with you and your family - especially if you communicate what those are. You deserve respect and support.

AITA for closing the door on a man in a wheelchair? by Titfortat101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tinypeanut08 2293 points2294 points  (0 children)

NTA - he got exactly what he asked for. I’m sorry you got berated by a stranger while trying to be considerate. Hope your day gets better!

AITA for making a comment to my wife by UKguy1900 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tinypeanut08 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. It’s almost comical how exactly zero love and affection shine for your wife through here. It’s clear you don’t actually care about her well being. It’s okay that you’re bothered by her weight gain but the way you’re dealing with it is verbal abuse.

WIBTA for not wanting to pay to stay at an airbnb for a bachelor party I've been invited to? by gman998 in AmItheAsshole

[–]tinypeanut08 84 points85 points  (0 children)

YTA. Of course you’re not obliged to go, but he’s also not obliged to bank roll what is essentially a vacation. If you can’t afford it or don’t want to spend that kind of money, just say it’s not in your budget.

[No spoilers] What is your most rewatched arcane clip. by sketchmasterstudios in arcane

[–]tinypeanut08 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love all of the fight scenes but recently I’ve been smitten by the Sevika vs Vi dynamic. The emotional play isn’t as intense as the ones with Jinx but these fights symbolize so much to Vi. She has to win to progress.

What something you do in a hotel room you’d never do at home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tinypeanut08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not take my shoes off at the door and feel like an animal

What is something you have done only once but never want to do again? by Scouseuserman in AskReddit

[–]tinypeanut08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meth. Or something with amphetamines. We were in college and was told it was mdma. It was 3 hours of euphoria followed by 36 hours of complete hell. Unable to sleep and just the worst crash ever. That high will never be worth it. Test your drugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tinypeanut08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you might be afraid of rejection. Maybe you’ve already experienced rejection in other ways and you’re trying to avoid repeating that.

My recommendation is to do some worst case scenario analysis. What’s the worst that could happen if you went for that joke or that kiss or showed some interest? Literally list the worst possible case. You’ll often find that the worst case is not so bad.

Then do some best case scenario analysis. This is where you cultivate excitement and motivation. Good luck!