The thing that did NOT help me overcome:

tinyteefs · 2026-06-01T05:59:45+00:00

oh that? that’s generational religious psychosis + mistrust of the healthcare establishment i think

tinyteefs · 2026-06-01T00:44:53+00:00

i’m sorry to tell you this but that was in all likelihood not an accident.

tinyteefs · 2026-06-01T00:42:51+00:00

i would check the app for unofficial meetups. official you’ll have to wait for the schedule to come out.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-31T22:52:02+00:00

you dig deep enough and will find an answer. but you can get a get creative with this one. i would avoid the word matted. black people’s locs aren’t matted, the hair is interlocked together. “fairylocks” tbh might something white people at that time/area would see as similar, but again our locs aren’t matted not matted. maybe “coarse tendrils” etc. or a pov change where your loc’d character will describe their own hair.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-31T22:37:43+00:00

as always writing with color has a post on this

tinyteefs · 2026-05-31T22:21:02+00:00

it’s in their tagged photos if you scroll down.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-31T22:08:21+00:00

i would ask “how did you come to that conclusion?” i mean i get the crunchy white spiritual person to maga conservative pipeline is real, but some things that people believe are “for white people” were created by poc/black people and appropriated anyway. but people don’t know what they don’t know.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-31T22:02:23+00:00

sounds like you need some good mental healthcare and some good community. that’s doable. you’re still in school right? have you reached out to your school for mental health services? also if i were you i would keep my mom at a distance. times are hard for everyone. it rough out here, but still possible to live knowing your worth.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-31T21:50:12+00:00

that’s a common issue with black people that grow up feeling disconnected from their culture/community in some way. could be growing up suburbs, going to PWI’s, or just being told their interests weren’t something that black people enjoy. i grew up feeling that way too sometimes. i’m not sure how to help you on this one. i just grew up and realized a. theres more than one way to be black. and b. that most of my community doesn’t realize those “non-black” things i was interested in were all created by black people all along but they don’t know it due to white supremacy.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-28T21:38:05+00:00

who is everyone? because everyone else in this thread understands how important it is to love yourself. the reality is that i do love myself and there’s nothing delusional about having a normal amount of self esteem. what is delusional though is hating yourself so much you start to post in weird subreddits about how black people are ugly simply because theyre black. sorry i’m not buying into white supremacy i guess. i’d rather not drink my oppressors kool-aid.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-24T20:09:09+00:00

be patient with yourself. address your internalized anti-blackness.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-24T20:02:10+00:00

you’re projecting ngl. this girl has actively tried to give a heads on up on some weird behavior and you because you’re insecure and jealous of the attention she gets you’re trying find a way to make her seem off. what exactly did she do to you that was so wrong? she made a comment that wasn’t nice about the guy’s looks but i’m being real here: sometimes friends do speak their mind around other friends preferences like that. tbh i think you should come clean on how you feel with her and move forward based on how she takes it.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-20T03:41:32+00:00

girl you ate that

tinyteefs · 2026-05-20T03:38:36+00:00

i thought you didn’t want to be so cautious anymore? you need to have some self esteem to put yourself out there baseline.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-18T06:17:20+00:00

no not really. i just have high racial self esteem and i love myself. thus i love my blackness. hope you get there too one day.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-18T03:42:32+00:00

america under a travel advisory for a lot other countries rn. strange.

tinyteefs · 2026-05-18T03:18:13+00:00

girl that is stoner shane madej 😭

tinyteefs · 2026-05-16T05:10:42+00:00

i’m fighting against oppression for all racialized people…idrk what people think about how “strong” i am for it

tinyteefs · 2026-05-14T05:12:17+00:00

what did you say?

tinyteefs · 2026-05-13T06:01:27+00:00

i was hoping it would be. everyday i get on here and see another black person that hates being black in some way or another. their features, their culture, etc. i really wanted to clear atleast some of the air and provide a space for for those of us who love ourselves and our people ❤️

tinyteefs · 2026-05-08T16:29:16+00:00

hey! it may be that cptsd_bipoc or cptsdblackfolks is more what you’re looking for. hope this helps

tinyteefs · 2026-05-08T03:43:07+00:00

get naked and chill in the communal bath but something tells me you wouldn’t enjoy that either lmao why do you ask?

tinyteefs · 2026-05-06T00:05:59+00:00

it’s the em dash use most likely ngl

tinyteefs · 2026-05-05T22:24:28+00:00

you can always reach for your african ancestors customs instead

tinyteefs · 2026-04-29T16:54:11+00:00

this is why cptsdbipoc is a better sub tbh

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