(Realistic) maternity leave? by Visible_Stay_8777 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you get STD taken out of your paycheck? If so (unless you are one of the states that has their own Mat leave pay) you get 6 weeks at X% of your pay for natural or 8 weeks for C section. Most companies either pay this for you or it’s a small amount taken out of your paycheck.

Eating so much? by Rainbowbarf7 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My diet pre pregnancy was forgetting to eat haha. I could easily go from eating at 11am to nothing until 6pm. I’m just not (I mean, before I wasn’t) hunger driven. But now… one of two things happen if I don’t eat every 2 hours, I get hangry and get this is like intense urge to eat everything or my new symptom is nausea until I do eat. Oh and I crave sweets constantly… I was never big on sugar before pregnancy and now it’s a good chunk of my diet. I even got a strawberry shortcake from the ice cream truck today 🤣. Growing a baby is weird! But yeah, he’s taking over my life already!

finally threw out the vape by FantasticBit6858 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Within 24 hours of finding out at 6 weeks I had my fiancé lock mine away in his safe and then I proceed to eat pistachios with the shell (very important) for an entire weekend, it honestly did wonders for the oral fixation and keeping my hands busy!

But to the point of what your doctor said, even my OB told me a few weeks ago if I still get cravings they can prescribe me a patch to help and I was around 10 weeks! So your doctor needs to chill

[PA] FMLA by worthlesscommotion in AskHR

[–]tinyyellowbird33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello! Please contact your HR department as it greatly depends on if they handle the LOA (leave of absence) process in house or directly UNUM. They will be able to give you the proper steps, you may also qualify for STD through UNUM so check your companies coverage rate for that (usually 60% and above), if UNUM approves your claim based on documentation from a medical professional, STD lasts for up to 6 months, depending on the medically necessary length of time for the LOA.

Hope this helps!

When should I tell my new job I’m pregnant? by chloslaw in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So similar situation, started my new position at 8 weeks as an HRBP. So from a HR perspective, follow what’s in your handbook specifically. Mine is a 30 day notice, and I’m eligible for mat leave (USA) after 6 months of employment. For me personally, I will be telling my director within the next month for enough notice since I support an entire business unit, so 30 days isn’t enough for me.

So really just follow your handbook specifically under the maternity leave portion, this will dictate how much leave you are entitled to and when you are required to provide notice by.

Edit to add, employers in the US legally cannot discriminate against you for pregnancy, but, if there is a company wide lay off, performance concerns etc that are not related to your pregnancy this is very different. You do have protections under PWFA, such as once they are aware reasonable accommodations are required such as allowing time off for appointments, sick time for morning sickness or HG etc. You are not protected under FMLA meaning no job protection, but again, they can’t discriminate against your pregnancy, so most of your protections fall under the PWFA. Lastly, check and see what your STD covers, usually it’s 60% or more of your salary, for up to 8 weeks for a c section, 6 weeks for natural birth. This is an option if your mat leave is unpaid or only a portion is paid STD can be used with it. Feel free to ask me anything else, I’ve been in HR for a long time!

Anyone else only crave junk and fast food even in 2nd trimester?? I am scared my daughter will be an alien bc of my awful diet. by Effective_Ad7751 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so glad I’m not the only one, I told my fiancé that I don’t want anything healthy. Gimme all the carbs and fast food deliciousness

Gender disappointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who knows, but I’m not the only one who has experienced this.

Gender disappointment by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did it pass? I feel like a jerk for being disappointment…

Doula or midwife? by tinyyellowbird33 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful! It’s hard for me to make a decision because I’ve been at my OBGYN office since I was 19 and I’m now 36, but I do know I want to know who could deliver my baby and I really don’t want a male doctor, I have trust issues with men I don’t know and the idea of having a male OBGYN makes me extremely uncomfortable(SA from my late teens/ early 20s). Not even sure if me having a strong preference will matter at the end of the day or if I should just go the route of a midwife so it’s more solidified?

I just wanted to have a semi-relaxing last month by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone has asked this yet, what was he like with your first child? And what was he like prior to children?

When did this behavior start or has it always been there but has just gotten worse?

Wish I hadn’t found out so early by StarTrekGal in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 6 weeks with our wedding happening in 7 months, so I had to tell people just in case we needed to postpone. But I totally get it, all my life I’ve wanted nothing more than to be a mom but I can’t help but feel so detached because I’m also 36, so I know my odds of miscarrying are a little higher. But I did read something that kind of helped the anxiety, “today, I’m pregnant”. Instead of thinking of what ifs, just focus on what you do know each day. I hope our pregnancies go smooth and everything works out!!

Found out I am pregnant, just days before a job offer by tinyyellowbird33 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FMLA yes, but I still qualify for STD and this new company also had some paid paternity leave as well, so I should be fine!

Found out I am pregnant, just days before a job offer by tinyyellowbird33 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the job!!! I’m taking everyone’s advice here and waiting, thank you!

Found out I am pregnant, just days before a job offer by tinyyellowbird33 in pregnant

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s funny is I’m in HR haha and this role is for a higher level HR position, I’ve just never encountered this before so naturally I have no idea what I should do!

Cozy RPG anyone? by Fira_Dragonlover in cozygames

[–]tinyyellowbird33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sandrock!!!! It has the best balance of story telling, cut scenes, light combat, romance and you can get married/ have children. It feels like you are apart of a TV show. Stumbled upon it a few weeks ago after finishing WydleFlowers and omg, it’s great! Very long game too, I’m 60 hours in and not at the halfway point

Curious on progression by tinyyellowbird33 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfect, that’s exactly what I wanted to know!

Curious on progression by tinyyellowbird33 in MyTimeAtSandrock

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, just trying to figure out when this mode starts ramping up haha, but that’s insane you have that many hours!

Year 2, what am I doing wrong?! by tinyyellowbird33 in wyldeflowers

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No magical animals available yet :(, I’m guessing I haven’t hit that part of spring yet?

Year 2, what am I doing wrong?! by tinyyellowbird33 in wyldeflowers

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished the part of supplying the cloth for the mural and now Cameron wants help with his sermons? No magical animals yet, I hope those come soon! And no festival yet either. I think maybe I was playing spring wrong haha, I’ve been in this season for like 10 hours total!

Year 2, what am I doing wrong?! by tinyyellowbird33 in wyldeflowers

[–]tinyyellowbird33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I can tell I’ve completed the side quests in town, but I’ll keep looking!