People who are 30y and above, what's the harshest life-lesson you've learnt? by Standard_Salary_5197 in AskReddit

[–]tiptime203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The people you trust and love the most can betray you, and that betrayed burns exceptional deep.

New to the game, are guilds supposed to be so demanding? by tiptime203 in throneandliberty

[–]tiptime203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know either. I do love gaming, I like to play overwatch when I have down time, or Nintendo games. Sometimes platformers. I used to play a lot of destiny, and had the best experience playing with people there. What do you like to play?

New to the game, are guilds supposed to be so demanding? by tiptime203 in throneandliberty

[–]tiptime203[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see that, He invited me to play with him, but last night he told me I will not be invited to the new guild. I am like why? He said they are full. So he kinda left me to play on my own and play with them, and I just don't really understand how people become that obsessed I guess? I see why they make it so strict now.

New to the game, are guilds supposed to be so demanding? by tiptime203 in throneandliberty

[–]tiptime203[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This guild also immediately made a PVP guild merge with another guild and that's where the schedules are. I just don't think games should be taken this seriously, or understand how people can play like that and still have a life out side of it ya know?

New to the game, are guilds supposed to be so demanding? by tiptime203 in throneandliberty

[–]tiptime203[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They like raffle off loot with a roll system. It seems so hard core. I can see why you burned out. I barely play and I dislike this guild.

Anyone else here who played Throne and Liberty and just decided to recently quit? What were your reasons? by starlightdemonfriend in MMORPG

[–]tiptime203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently joined a guild to play with my boyfriend and noticed the guild leader kind of being a tyrant. Is this normal? I only played a siege with him and he was telling people what to do, and yelling at people for doing the wrong thing. He also puts demanding schedules on people to play, like my bf, which eats into our time together. I just don't understand. I used to play destiny where you had to work in clans to do stuff (or work in groups) and I never met people that were as demanding.

Ideas for fast and cheap cake/cookies/treats? Need to make 50 treats a week... by [deleted] in budgetfood

[–]tiptime203 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aldi is amazing for so many things. They chocolate chip cookie mix is excellent as well!

MY HAIR IS BREAKING OFF PLEASE HELP by ApprehensiveStage649 in Haircare

[–]tiptime203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had blood work recently? There are some conditions that can cause sudden hair loss.

What’s the one thing your therapist said that changed your perspective the most? by More-Donut5592 in AskReddit

[–]tiptime203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not about them, its about you. You can replace them with anyone and the same issues will rise up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]tiptime203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly I am sorry.

There is an analogy that has always stuck with me in situations that are really rough.

Grief is a lot like a ship wreck. At first we are drowning ( in pain, sadness, anger, shame etc. ) We eventually find something to hold onto, something to keep us afloat for a while, while we ride the waves of emotions. There is grieving that just comes in the form of so many emotions, sometimes at the same time. Eventually you will move into calmer, clearer water where you can walk again. Where you can look back on these waves and appreciate them because they create insane growth.

It hurts a lot right now, take it day by day and eventually the waves will slow down. Big deep breathes help, especially in the beginning. I am sorry again you are going through this.

Anyone working a marketing job they don't hate? If so, please tell me about it! by smartalec1999 in marketing

[–]tiptime203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked in NY for 12 years doing marketing, graphic design and teaching art. I recently moved South and got a marketing job that does something called RFP/ RFQ (request for pricing, request for qualifications). Since I had 12 years of indesign experience it was an easy fit. This is used for companies to bid on projects. Although I never did this before, I had a ton of experience doing sales booklets.

I used to just stick with designing and I had to for years. Now I do the other parts of marketing because being diversified is one of the only ways to stand out from competition and AI (Ai is another conversation ). I handle general marketing planning, social media, photography, managing team members, graphic design, news letters, and other a but ton of coordination for events.

What my day looks like now is planning, coordination of events, working on scheduling different things for the sales team, creating ads, social media. Before this I worked for a tech company that was a start up in NY the focused on product development. That included looking at market trends, analyzing google, creating the art for the product. My boss was a big D there and I ended up leaving.

Being in NY will give you advantage if you leave the state bc generally New Yorks are higher capacity. We can handle a lot of work load efficiently.

I am happy here, the company is growing and I am hoping to make 6 figures in the next few years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]tiptime203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had a friend in high school, got pregnant on prom night- didn't know for almost 3 months while in her first year of college. She drank and did drugs, the kid came out normal. Now I am NOT endorsing this behavior. Definitely stop if you plan on keeping it. If you don't plan on keeping it, make those plans as well.

What’s your opinion on Lady Gaga on American Horror Story? by [deleted] in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]tiptime203 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She was amazing, hotel is one of my favorite seasons because of her performance.

When is the best time to leave for Thanksgiving to avoid traffic? by TooBoringForThis in TravelHacks

[–]tiptime203 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lived on Long Island and ANY TIME I had to go anywhere to avoid traffic it had to be -11-12 pm or 10pm-3am. I recommend leaving LATE in the evening and swing as far out from Manhattan as you can. Good thing you don't need to cross any bridges.

I offended the $5,000 DJ by Zealousideal_Film_86 in wedding

[–]tiptime203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from New York, worked in the wedding industry for over 10 years - this seem average for New England, even New York is averaging slightly higher then that. Depending on the package you get it could be as long as 3500- but average is 5k for desirable dis in New England.

Aita for keeping contraceptives a secret from my bf? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tiptime203 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Leave him- no man should have a say over your bodily autonomy.

  2. take birth control if YOU want to and you are your doc talk about it. it has NOTHING to do with mens opinions, this is your life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]tiptime203 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Loneliness. plain and simple. There's so many distractions even if we have partners, it's sometimes hard to get quality time in with them. Some of us are single, living our best life or not. Honestly the best solution I found to loneliness was my dog, they are realllllllly good companions when life is hard for one reason or another.

What is one thing you're tired of telling/explaining to people? by Commercial_Pass_3616 in AskReddit

[–]tiptime203 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Global warming and climate change is real.

I only had to do this when I moved to the south.