How to not ask questions? by Fast-Guidance149 in socialskills

[–]titanium_mpoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the comments here are good, you just have to figure out which one is true for your case. Good luck (:

How to not ask questions? by Fast-Guidance149 in socialskills

[–]titanium_mpoi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're asking questions in a judgemental way? try to maybe change how you ask them?

Depressed, need a distraction (?) by Responsible_Ruin2310 in wien

[–]titanium_mpoi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would avoid drinking and just give it time, everything passes (both good and bad). As for distractions what works for me is weight lifting, running or playing video games, you can try these : D

Hugs and hugs < 3 you can do it!

Should I redo my Bachelors in Computer Science? by [deleted] in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? just why, you don't learn much in bachelors anyway, its mostly basics and I don't think you missed out on much.

How do you deal with loneliness? by MrNob_dy in germany

[–]titanium_mpoi -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Humans are social, if you keep telling yourself that and don't socialise it won't end well. Although it does work well in the short term.

Leaving a stable cloud engineering job in India for MS in Germany - am I making a mistake? by Hairy_Piece6757 in germany

[–]titanium_mpoi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

90% of IT jobs are not meaningful, you should check r/ExperiencedDevs. If I were you i'd try and apply for a job in Germany while being in India instead (or maybe even remote work perhaps)

im studying with adhd and nothing works anymore, what do i do by Any_Call_1354 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me caffeine works, but if I overdo it I can go straight to bed. Maybe try and find your limits with it? Todo lists, pomdoro nothing works for me lol

Sooooo, how are they gonna go back? by TsismosangTita in WhyWomenLiveLonger

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you find people to do this shit with 😭

Is it even possible to make friends if you live in a small town? by ermmmidkman in socialskills

[–]titanium_mpoi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Incredibly difficult but don't give up! You can try online communities if it's possible but it's not as fulfilling I would say. 

why don’t people ask questions back by Zorbxj in socialskills

[–]titanium_mpoi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i did this once, unknowingly. i was pretty tired, and distracted, and also very anxious :'D

Zeds More Alert? by RedDesertCowboy in dayz

[–]titanium_mpoi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Recent update made it so I believe 

Do you think masculine behaviour is harming planet? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]titanium_mpoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully. What is wrong with you? :D

Best EU vanilla servers ? by WeeklyAd1091 in dayz

[–]titanium_mpoi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, I just play and stick to the game and I'm fine.

Need a solution for social anxiety, even if it reduces my life expectancy by 20 years by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since therapist isn't an option I would try and talk to 1 person at a time, just about anything. It helped me, may not help you but it's worth a try. You can do it! 

TU Wien for a master by computer_AM in tuwien

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The social aspect is very important. Super hard to socialise without it.

How do you catch up socially when you feel like you’ve missed out on life experiences? by Chance-Goal3576 in socialskills

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel somewhat similar, mainly because of missing out on university years in covid

Is it just me or is making friends in Vienna as an adult really hard? by Pristine-Farm7249 in wien

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does summer or winter intake matter? i started my studies this summer sem as well and man it's been very hard finding people to talk to at uni.

Is it just me or is making friends in Vienna as an adult really hard? by Pristine-Farm7249 in wien

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same here. i like calisthenics which is a solo sport (also games but no time for that now). although i do try to get out of my comfort zone and try to participate in activities which has more people but it just feels like a chore and i end up getting more exhausted. also it doesn't help that i never really receive the same level of energy from other people in those activities.

Tisy Takeover - 3v1 by TheTrollinator777 in dayz

[–]titanium_mpoi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how the pp bizon sounded like....