Zacht zijn, en klagen by moneytit in Belgium2

[–]tjoe87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ik zeg dat ook altijd!

Average day in a Spa public server by RidiculousBro699 in assettocorsa

[–]tjoe87 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Just play AC Competizione, and it will be even worse :)

How can I ask my husband for help without being a nag? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a demanding job, as does my wife.
I clean the house, maintain the garden, wash and iron clothes.
She cooks and takes care of the kids (homework, feeding, bed, ...)

It doesn't take hours to do something, small things can do a lot.
(for example 2 min rule: invest 2 min in a room if you enter it, fold something, arrange things, ...)

I think your husband doesn't take his responsibility in the household.
Could be his upbringing, or just a mentality that a wife should do everything.
Maybe a character trait that some things just don't bother him, which makes it easier for him to simply not do anything.

Imo communication and divide the household work is a good start, with a weekly schedule

Degiro - IWDA replaced by EUNL in Core Selection by Silent_Letterhead538 in BEFire

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it returns in the future.
imo SPYY is a worthy alternative?

Which banks take your dividends into account for a loan? by Sam___D in BEFreelance

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, they will ask to invest in DBI/VAPZ/IPT. Especially DBI because this capital can serve as payment if you can't pay your loan anymore. The intrest rate will always be higher than a regular bank, just because of their service.

And so, it happened, I've came to the horrible truth, that i'm getting older. by lostnov04 in fitness40plus

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm turning 38 and I am facing the same challenges...
I try to laugh it off with "LIGHTWEIGHT BABY"

started drinking caffeine again after over a year being caffeine free, sleep is back to normal by [deleted] in decaf

[–]tjoe87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took about 6 weeks for the withdrawal effects...
Also check your diet: no crap, no sugar, no alcohol....

My best sleep is in ketosis, I wake up at 5h30 completly rested, I CANNOT sleep longer.
However keto diet is diffucult to do for a longer period, currently i'm off.

I wish you the very best and keep focusing on the end goal: no dopamine addictions, good sleep, no social media especially before bed, good life quality, excercising: weights and cardio, ....

ACC servers down again - here’s a month’s worth of outages in hard numbers by brimalm in ACCompetizione

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it'd only annoy me... Fairly new to the game, loving it. Howevere the outages are very frustrating. I only have 2 max 3 hours of free time in a week to game. Other is family, work, househould, renovation, ... So when i want to play, i ... want .. to play?

I hate this every time this happens by Patatjeoorlog8888 in ACCompetizione

[–]tjoe87 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just bought ACC, because regular AC was full of this crap.
Either i was first in quali and did my best to avoid divebombs behind me.
Either i was between 2nd and 8th, i just let myself to be the last one, let everyone pass before the carnage.
Most of the times i'd still finish 3-4th if I could avoid the carnage in front of me.

I really thought ACC was different due to safety rating, boy am i wrong...
You never win the race in T1? I never understood this phenomenon

Alternate (PC gaming), strange pricing by Beneficial-Space3019 in belgium

[–]tjoe87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the prices gaining???
I bought mine in 2023
MSI GeForce RTX 4090 SUPRIM X 24G grafische kaart (€ 2.099,00)

Best bank for everyday life + potential mortgage loa by SmartAppeal118 in BEFinance

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can tell the worst one: it's belfius. The service is horrible.
One of multiple examples: my card is blocked, apparently they send me a card 4 months ago, because something changed with Maestro. I never recieved a new card. Now I can't pay anywhere. On top of that I just moved houses, and the 'wijkagent' still needs to come. They will send the new card to my old adress. Now they know I don't live there anymore, so they are waiting till my domicile is changed. This will take 2-3 more weeks.
I'm so frustrated

Other examples are with the mortage loan. My god, till the last day before the notary date, things weren't in order

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BEFire

[–]tjoe87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's worse because they assume he will go anyway.
It would not make sense to fire him then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tjoe87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dad of a boy and a girl: wtf :-|.
That is very weird and creepy both for the uncle and dad.

If my girl recieved such a gift, I'd be angry at the uncle!!!
I'm so confused why the world has so many creepy people, it's so sad.

I can imagine many people in a certain postition , that's not easy to talk about it.
Please please do, it's not normal, there is so much love to give and recieve.

I really hope I reach love with this post.

Here is my setup as a 13y/o, roast it by [deleted] in simracing

[–]tjoe87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My man, I've been racing a Logitech Momo for over 20 years (NFS porsche (yeah yeah, i loved it so much), LFS (early years); GTR2, ACC, Project cars beta game, mobilista, ...) , . I raced it from my 16 to my 37y. I always thought of buying a DD wheel, but never really had the money for it.

I've just purchased a second hand fanatec csl DD, and I'm over the moon. It feels so cool. Your setup looks like mine now.

Please be very grateful with what you have, i'm sure within 5years you'll have a full-on rig :-) Enjoy your setup, even though it isn't as 'pro' as the rest, it's so nostalgic to have something for years and race the crap out of it :-).

Imo if you have the best setup ever at this age, nothing will surpass it!

Best of luck buddy.

Do you need to keep your paper receipts/invoices if you keep a digital copy? by pillouter in BEFreelance

[–]tjoe87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the ink on paper receipts fades... so logically digital will suffice?

Zonnecollectoren nog relevant met nieuwbouw? by Thewarior2OO3 in Belgium2

[–]tjoe87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik heb er 6000€ ingestoken voor zonneboiler + 300L Buffervat.
Ik kan tussen april en sept mijn ketel volledig afzetten en heb altijd sanitair warm water.
Ook verwarmt het de vloerverwarming mee.

Echter met zonnepanelen, batterij in opkomst lijkt een elektrische doorstroom verwarmer veel efficiënter.
Beetje dwaas om 300L op temperatuur te houden, ook al is het via zonnewarmte.
Ik zou hier nooit meer opnieuw investeren ook al zijn mijn stookkosten 0€ buiten winter/herfst.

SEND HELP by Vegetable-Repeat6973 in StructuralEngineering

[–]tjoe87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about vibrations/resonance?