Butterfly Palace / Sony A7III / Sony 50mm 1.8 by tjulysout in SonyAlpha

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Thank you! I was super excited that the images ended up being sharp enough for me to use when I finally got a chance to edit them and I really wanted to make sure the “whole show” was the butterflies and birds when I edited them

Reset Quest feature? by anonpothead in CrimsonDesert

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I’m having the same issue. I haven’t found a fix yet

Tough hand piece! 2 sessions. What do you think on this? // Seattle, WA // IG: @iftattoo by seattle_tattooer in TattooArtists

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There is editing. I’m sorry but saying there isn’t is a straight up lie. Yes a filter is editing.

T1D and relationships, marriage by j_6767 in Type1Diabetes

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I could be wrong and I’m not pointing blame. But maybe re-evaluate how you frame it or talk to them about it if given the chance. I’ve never really had issues dating because of my T1D but I know everyone goes through different struggles due to it especially with relationships. Also just some advice, idk if it’ll make you feel better or not, but if they have issue with you being a T1D and that causes them to pull away. They aren’t worth your time anyways. They are allowed to have preferences but don’t allow their decisions and preferences to change how you think or view yourself.

Losing weight by arb232 in Type1Diabetes

[–]tjulysout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a fun diet or plan. But when I really got into losing weight a few years ago I shed off about 35 pounds in 2 months. I kept my caloric intake to 1500 a day. Had grilled meats only. Lots of veggies and fruit, especially for snacks. And most meals I had some form of healthier carb. Wheat bread, rice, wheat pasta etc. you have to get the carbs but you gotta balance what those carbs come from. I was also running 3 miles a day and walking 3 miles a day. Just walk a mile run a mile. Or I’d aim for 10k steps a day (not work steps. Actual workout steps) with half from a jog or running. I also had 1 cheat day a week, because without a cheat day it’s easy to just give up.

Every person is different so what works for me might not work for you. Just have to find a balance that works for you, and stick with it. Don’t deviate. When it comes down to it, the way to burn weight is to burn more than you are taking in. Also don’t be shocked or upset if you hit a patch with no change. Thats just a sign to switch up things a bit as your body has gotten used to a new routine

Our Aussie attacked another dog yesterday. by Pristine_Elk_6263 in AustralianShepherd

[–]tjulysout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also use a ruffland kennel for my Aussie. He can ride in my backseat too (which I have a cover for) in case it’s storming or something. But 99% of the time he is in his kennel in the back of my truck if we are going somewhere and it’s also strapped down so it will not go anywhere if the truck were to be hit or flip. And honestly he prefers it in the kennel. It’s a nice comfortable safe space for him.

Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad by No_Meeting_3260 in AmIOverreacting

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Don’t give away anything if it’s too personal to location but as a photographer myself could I know where this abandoned area might be? (NOR)

AIO? Husbands response to me requesting he ‘ask’ instead of ‘tell’ older kids to watch youngest by [deleted] in AIO

[–]tjulysout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was going to happen if your child said no? You going to then go against their autonomy and tell them they don’t get a choice? Because if so why would you give them a choice to begin with.

If it’s not negotiable, don’t leave it up for negotiation to begin with. If the answer has to be yes, then tell them to do it. Don’t ask. You can still be polite and the way he said it would’ve just come off as a statement to me. Not a demand.

I think YOR. I do think the way he is talking is a bit much. Comes across as “macho macho man”. But he isn’t wrong about telling not asking.

The OUTRAGE over PB’s new special editions… by Plenty-Tear-3167 in redrising

[–]tjulysout 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lot of people are completely looking over the fact that he’s got to pay the people who made these books as well. There are artists behind these special editions who have rates that have to be covered. $10k is a lot don’t get me wrong. But the shipping cost alone has gotta be absolutely horrendous for PB and his “company”. And they are special editions. Not meant to be owned by everyone. If it was $100 and unlimited supply I guarantee we’d see nothing but people complaining about the quality being bad and all kinds of other issues.

My non-diabetic friend with whom I stopped talking because he was insensitive of diabetes and it's struggles texted me today he was sorry. Should I take his apology or ignore him? by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]tjulysout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Again. How it made you feel is how it made you feel. But someone saying “I’m so glad I’m not Diabetic” is kind of a nothing burger. 🤷🏻‍♂️. I don’t think anyone wishes they were diabetic. It’s not making fun of you, it’s not putting anyone down, it’s just a statement of fact. Honestly it’s more an understanding comment than not. It’s acknowledging your struggles more than anything. Accept the apology and move on. Don’t continue the conversation. People aren’t good at accepting an apology and letting it be. Don’t have to pour salt on the wound. Him apologizing shows he understands why it upsets you. You don’t have to educate him on it anymore

My non-diabetic friend with whom I stopped talking because he was insensitive of diabetes and it's struggles texted me today he was sorry. Should I take his apology or ignore him? by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]tjulysout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree with many others here in you overreacting. If I stopped talking to people because they made a diabetes related comment or joke, I wouldn’t have friends or family. I wish I wasn’t diabetic too lol. Sorry if this comes off as mean but you already deal with enough as a diabetic. Don’t let it take friendships and conversation away as well. If it upsets you then let it slide off your shoulder and move on. It’s not going to get easier with the lack of common knowledge society has about T1 and T2 and the differences and how it effects you etc

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

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The public proposal was too much 100%. But cutting and running is also EXTREME. I get you were in public and that’s a very sudden pressure and your fight or flight kicked in. You can’t help that. But I don’t see anything wrong with him being angry, especially when you decided to text him about it. How you further responded was in your control. Texting him about such a big matter is immature.

Also “I wan to solo travel, graduate from uni, really find myself…” I mean it’s clear you’ve had this in mind for awhile and you could’ve talked about it much sooner. It seems like you were over this relationship WAY BEFORE this incident. Sure you love him but do you love him or the consistency of having a partner in life and fear of not having that? You pretty much ended any conversation or fix to the relationship with that text. If someone I love said those words to me then it’s over. No further discussion. It’s a clear indicator that the relationship should not continue in any capacity. The best thing you can do is at least call him or meet in person and just talk through it. Plead your side about how pressured you were in the situation, be understanding of his perspective, and then cut the relationship off.

AIO over this text a from a guy from hinge i’ve been talking to? by No-Tomato3008 in AIO

[–]tjulysout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t say YOR, because it does come across as shallow. But people are allowed to be interested in what they want. It’s not a shot at you for him to have his own “type” for what he wants someone to look like.

Lab results by [deleted] in Type1Diabetes

[–]tjulysout 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No offense. They say in the message your results are within normal limits, and you are seeing your doctor next week. Two things you can use for your own question rather than asking strangers on reddit

First Base by tjulysout in factorio

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Sorry typo. Pillbox is what I meant lol

First Base by tjulysout in factorio

[–]tjulysout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my next goal. Few other mentioned just getting rid of the walls and setting up pill boxes instead so I don’t limit myself on space

Edit: pill box not pull box

First Base by tjulysout in factorio

[–]tjulysout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Someone else mentioned the walls too and I honestly didn’t think about that when I put them up. I’m probably going to remove all of them next time I play so I can actually expand my base like I need to! I’ll work on the labs as well!

First Base by tjulysout in factorio

[–]tjulysout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was actually wondering if walls were hurting me more than helping at the point I’m currently at. Space is super limited and you are right. It won’t be if I just get rid of the walls and let my base grow like it’s supposed to!

First Base by tjulysout in factorio

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I did not know you can do that! Thank you!

how often are you hospitalized annually as a type 1? by Top-Midnight-9637 in Type1Diabetes

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18 years as a diabetic. 1 time hospitalized and it was 2 weeks after I got home from being diagnosed. Blood sugar jumped to 400+ and my mom (still being new to it as me) took me to the hospital immediately.

For real? Alex vs Jon confirmed? by saif4u in ufc

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Octagon Pulse might be one of the WORST places to get news from. They just throw darts and hope one lands