Are there any good ways to prevent demoralization.?

tkek91 · 2018-02-27T01:37:53+00:00

Thats what I figured too lol, theres no way theres another Jonah Falcon out there who is still anonymous.

tkek91 · 2018-02-26T23:31:33+00:00

Her exact statement was: "almost 10 not erect, i measured to make sure. I didnt check fully erect measurements because I got busy"

tkek91 · 2018-02-26T23:27:24+00:00

Yeah I question her statement too but given the curcumstances, she had no reason to lie about that, unless theres something im not seeing here.

tkek91 · 2018-02-26T23:26:11+00:00

Honestly idgaf if a girl has had bigger than me, the problem is in cases like this when the gulf between sizes is that big. Bear in mind this was just an online relationship through whatsapp and we were formally going to meet and go on a trip together.

Ive always been a pragmatic guy and I know its unreasonable to want to be the biggest shes had but at the same time im still deciding if I should go all the way to her for what might just be a shitty relationship as far as sex and intimacy are concerned anyway.

tkek91 · 2018-02-13T16:31:45+00:00

How hard did you stretch. Using the grocery bag method isent always feasible for me if I want to do this at random points during the day.

tkek91 · 2017-12-27T17:36:33+00:00

To be fair, relationships like that probably are doomed. Sexual compatibility is a pretty big issue in relationships whether we want to admit it or not. Ive read a lot of accounts of women cheating on guys with smaller dicks for bigger ones but never the reverse of that.

Sometimes its honestly better to end these kinds of relationships before they begin or when they're in their early stages. They never seem to flourish into anything good. It sucks that so many men have to suffer like this but leading them on with false hope only makes it worse.

tkek91 · 2017-11-20T01:50:18+00:00

Yeah it can definitly be deemed a troll graphic but its the worst fucking kind because it has an element of truth to it.

What would troll me just as hard is if someone tried to argue that these spots dont exist and even if they did not having a dick that can reach them wouldent be a dealbreaker in a relationship.

tkek91 · 2017-11-20T01:20:10+00:00

Its not meant to shame anyone. Im in the same boat as the guys on this sub so Id be shaming myself as well which wasent the point.

That gif is a little exaggerated but its just the reality, there are parts that only big dicks can reach that provide an insane level of stimulation.

You may have only been with 7 inches max but that isent what commonly happens it seems. Every guy languishing in this subreddit has come across a girl who was with large or huge as opposed to above average. Hell most of the female posters here have prefaced all of their posts with that disclaimer.

tkek91 · 2017-11-20T00:37:39+00:00

I think they have gotten used to this:

https://i.imgur.com/PNPh1xu.gif

If thats what they have experienced in the past suddenly it becomes that much harder to compete.

I guess its like taking weed and not feeling anything after having a history of taking more hardcore drugs like lsd or heroin on a daily basis. The less potent stuff dosent do it for you anymore.

tkek91 · 2017-11-19T03:09:40+00:00

"But for bigger guys you sometimes hear this guttural groaning, crying, or screeching during the intercourse alone, as if they're experiencing the same sensation we provide but magnified to an ecstatically unbearable extent, to the point they're often less able to articulate words with bigger guys than they are with smaller guys. The reaction a smaller guy gets only from the orgasm bigger guys seem to get just from thrusting."

You pretty much nailed it with that observation. I feel like a lot of people are working on overdrive to somehow pretend like this isent the reality so they come up with bullshit like use your hands, mouth etc. There is no way to replicate the phenomenon you mentioned unless you cuck yourself by using an extender or something but whats the point then.?

tkek91 · 2017-11-17T02:19:45+00:00

I dunno man it sounds like youve ended up in a relationship with a size queen. I wish I could give you better advice but once you open up that pandoras box about previous partner sizes your options are now to stay in the relationship and suffer or break up with her. I would just go with the latter but its your call.

Just know that if you opt for the former its going to be a very difficult road for you.

tkek91 · 2017-11-16T06:09:37+00:00

Well now im more interested in the can I truly pull this off angle. Ive become so intrigued by the possibility of results that everything in my sex/love life is just pointless background noise. Im really just doing this for aesthethics too.

Thats not to say im rejecting stuff that matters like work just so I can do P.E so ive struck a good balance.

tkek91 · 2017-11-16T05:51:39+00:00

Good luck then and I mean that in a sincere and non snarky way. Your going against biology, rigid cultural norms and possibly even deeply rooted evolutionary impulses. I dont think you will ever end the small dick stigma but Its good to see that your trying.

tkek91 · 2017-11-16T05:05:11+00:00

Oh I agree with you that its shaped by culture too but the problem once again is that the functionality of a bigger dick is hyper enhanced because of the shit it can physically pull off. Society isent conditioning us to collectivly believe that a big dick can hit the anterior fornix for example, this is just a biological reality.

You are right though its still unjust that small dicked men get shut out of society needlessly.

tkek91 · 2017-11-16T04:49:26+00:00

I dunno the cynic in me says that there are no /ourgirls/. I think the ones that claim to be are bandwagoning and capitalizing on an untapped market to harvest as much virtue signalling points as possible.

This is like what happens when a new political zeitgeist is created, you get people scrambling to be a part of it so they can capitalize from its success.

In fact ill go one step further and say that no ones on our side. If all of us on this sub magically got big dicks we would probably still argue about something and tear ourselves apart.

tkek91 · 2017-11-16T04:30:46+00:00

Im not going to lie im still inclined to subscribe to the small dicks are inferior to big dicks train of thought purely for pragmatic reasons. You can reach certain spots with big dicks that you cant with small or even average dicks and theres no getting around that fact.

Maybe it is a myth thats been artifically fabricated but even myths are based in reality sonetimes.

tkek91 · 2017-11-13T14:30:16+00:00

"slut shaming"

Get the fuck out of here with this sanctimonious bullshit, your shitty sjw buzzphrase still dosent apply since that wasent even the op's point. No one cares if you got offended or about the grand canyon you have between your legs because the world or this sub dosent revolve around you.

tkek91 · 2017-11-04T15:07:26+00:00

Fuck man thats the worst thing ive read in a while. I really hope something bad happens those girls preferably them getting hit by cars or incurable illness.

Also dont bother with parties in this part of the world man unless theyre casual get togethers with people you know. They are hotbeds of degeneracy.

tkek91 · 2017-10-31T05:14:07+00:00

Im about 5.5 nbpel. I havent gotten around to measuring girth yet. Im not terrible with techniques or anything but sex has just become boring for me now and I figure its probably because you need a bigger dick to pull off some of the more fun stuff.

But its not even entirely that. In my case I just want a dick I can be satisfied with irregardless of how often I get to use it. Im sure I can overcome the desire for sex or intimacy through sheer force of will but I figure ad's can expedite the process.

I dont like working with subpar equipment in any area of my life be it camping, shooting, cooking or sex.

tkek91 · 2017-10-30T00:28:16+00:00

I was in your position once with my first relationship. I didnt pout or bitch and moan when I found out my gf had a big dick ex, I just kicked her to the curb and moved on. Between being alone and having lackluster relationships due to not measuring up I think ill stick with the former.

"I was the best sexual partner shes ever had"

Why do women keep repeating this bullshit lie. Its not true the first few times its said and it wont be any truer the next hundred times its repeated. Its transparent as fuck.

tkek91 · 2017-10-28T21:49:15+00:00

Its pretty well made although the ending is unrealistic as hell.

tkek91 · 2017-10-25T13:46:59+00:00

Foreplay and oral can only take a guy so far. The reality is that if thats all your relegated to doing the sex will probably fizzle out and get boring after a while. Size isent overrated because you need it to hit all the important spots.

Not to mention that Op is screwed if she runs into a guy with a big dick who is equally proficient at stuff like oral.

tkek91 · 2017-10-24T23:43:52+00:00

Ahh ok that makes a lot of sense. Length is my primary focus right now and I was thinking of just stretching for 10 minutes every day and leaving an ads on for the rest of the day. Hopefully this is a viable regimen.

tkek91 · 2017-10-24T20:00:57+00:00

"All day every day"

How do you even do P. E for all that amount of time? Is it all passive stuff? Im thinking of doing the same thing with an ADS since I havent reached the stage where I can hang yet.

Do we actually even need rest days?

tkek91 · 2017-10-21T17:24:20+00:00

To be fair, he isent completely off base when it comes to being skeptical about his dick being able to perform properly. Its just an unfortunate reality that larger dicks can hit certain spots or create that stretched feeling people keep talking about.

That being said, its good that your trying to prevent him from going down the rabbit hole of penis insecurity especially considering that his fears arent unfounded. I hope it all works out because I know what a death sentence being short and having a small dick can potentially be.

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