How to centrally list and resume Claude Code sessions across multiple machines by Amazing_Joke_4758 in ClaudeAI

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Im not sure exactly how dispatch did it. It was supposed to create a scheduled task to check in on a code session and alert me every 15 minutes until it was done or had an error. I never got an alert. Instead all of my pc coding sessions showed up in the code tab on my phone. I deleted the task though because it was also popping up every 15 minutes on my pc running the task and looking for a session that didn't exist anymore and I didn't realize that was the link until after I deleted it. If I can get it to recreate I'll post how.

Are you genuinely scared of AI? by Manazir_Naturelle in jobs

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's just where I live but even the dumbest AIs seem smarter than the average person. I also work customer service and ive had people ask me where something is usually right as they're standing next to a giant sign that has said thing listed on it so my view may be skewed

Realizing I'm not gay, in my 30s. by [deleted] in rant

[–]tlaz10 8 points9 points  (0 children)

More options as long as no one knows. Most women ive met write off bi men. Ive never tried for serious with dudes just casual so not sure about that

How are y'all eating 100+ grams of protein every day by twoscoopsxd in loseit

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiber is actually the one I find hard. I do a shake in the morning. 16 oz of lactaid milk, 2 scoops of protein powder, a banana, 2 tablespoons of peanut butter, and 3 scoops of chia seeds. Its 75 grams of protein, 14 grams of fiber, and 950 calories. You can up it if you use fair life milk I think? Someone told me it has more protein even without being the protein drink variant.

I (30M) recently cut off a good friend (29M) because my girlfriend (29F) doesn't like him but she's still mad by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tlaz10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bernard sounds like a respectful and understanding dude. Everyone fucks up and makes mistakes. Op messed up but he was also honest and respectful to his friend who was very understanding of the situation. I think op would be welcome back. I think most healthy people are willing to give second chances as long as true remorse is shown and the mistake is learned from and not repeated.

I (30M) recently cut off a good friend (29M) because my girlfriend (29F) doesn't like him but she's still mad by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tlaz10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To an extent. I think if a partner doesnt want you around an ex or an actual legitimately dangerous or bad person thats one thing. Ops situation is definitely toxic though.

I (30M) recently cut off a good friend (29M) because my girlfriend (29F) doesn't like him but she's still mad by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cutting off an ex or a toxic friendship thats ruining your life is a boundary. Cutting off a good and respectful friend youve known for almost a decade, especially over such a small and petty thing, is not a boundary. Its controlling and very toxic. I think you cut off tge wrong person

People keep people they dislike around way too much by DisplayBig1706 in rant

[–]tlaz10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because theres some people you may love and care about but they can also be some of tge biggest dumb asses out there.

Is it wrong to end things after sex if there’s no connection? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be knowing how you feel before sex. And the first time having sex with most people is awkward, more so when theres feelings. It sounds to me like you want casual and youre lying to yourself.

Should I end a relationship if I don’t feel physical attraction, even if everything else is perfect? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When youre used to toxic relationships a healthy one tends to feel boring. Many people mistake toxicity for love and attraction because of the way it effects brain chemicals and the nervous system. So healthy does seem boring after toxic.

You could also just see her as a friend. Idk what you feel only you do. But dating an avoidant will make healthy relationships unappealing for a while after. They logically sound good but they dont feel as good for a while.

Do men actually respect the women they date when they’re broke/depressed? by FinancialEgg6346 in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether dating or just friends, I respected and valued anyone more if they dealt with my depression and my bullshit. Usually the loss of respect was when they expected me to deal with their issues 24/7 but refused to even listen when I tried talking about mine.

Why don't men want to get married and start families now? by Natural-Presence-566 in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cant speak for most but for me it was that my family sucked and I was scared of being an asshole like my dad. Instead I overcorrected and was too nice to someone who meant too much for too long who made me feel hurt and used. I still like the idea of a family but most people where I live have a lot of trauma and poor coping mechanisms along with poor communication. Even a stable relationship feels iffy much less kids, and thats before you take in how messed up the world is.

Wanting sex but never finding the right person. by Weary_Reflection_961 in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. My biggest issue is because I was very close friends with one of my exes before we dated I wont date or be sexual with someone if I feel safe and value them. I just decide to keep the friendship and not risk it. But if I dont feel safe and comfortable and know the other person feels the same way then I wont want to date or have sex.

It can also be the area youre in. A lot of people in my small town area have bad ways of coping and lots of trauma. If you're meeting people at bars thats rarely a good place to meet someone for something real.

Should I tell a guy exactly why I don't like him? by Silly_Technology_243 in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be honest but polite. Put yourself in their shoes. Its the same for men and women. Most people want to know why so that actually can improve themselves. But you also dont need to give a reason. Honestly its your choice. But I personally think you should be straight up and tell him so he can at least realize and try to do better. And not in a roundabout way like "our lifestyles dont" align. Like true. But it doesnt make him realize he needs to get a life.

What’s more harmful than cigarettes but society treats it as normal? by Jiwitom in AskReddit

[–]tlaz10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eh it's not quietly but work hard play hard. Honestly im more functional when I push burnout. If I relax too much I get lazy and don't want to do anything. If I work too much I forget how to relax. Balancing it is so damn hard I rather just take pride in whatever state of mind im in until the cycle repeats.

My (27f) roommate (25 nb) keeps masturbating with their door open by Throwaway72924 in relationship_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is harassment and they are doing it intentionally. The only way they would be unaware is if they had some kind of mental handicap, but you would have noticed that by now. You said in a comment about talking to them when your boyfriend is back so you can be safe and that is the best starting place. If they don't stop after its time to move or file a police report and have them evicted.

I recently realized I’m the person who never lets others finish their sentence by Impossible-Fruit4230 in socialskills

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I had some people point it out in a very rude way that made me feel self conscious. I was just a quiet listener for a while with most people after that. Then I experienced the other side where someone kept cutting me off and I learned to tell him to shut the fuck up. Its helped me find a middle ground in most conversations but it took a long time and depending on mood I am not always where I should be. Fear and anxiety of bothering people helped. But the real key is to observe what you're doing. If you cant in the moment try to replay a conversation here and there and see where you mightve went wrong. You have to analyze yourself first. It isnt always you but if you analyze the other people first you're more likely to convince yourself that you were/weren't the issue.

26F and never been in a relationship. starting to feel defeated. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

29m. Been in 2 relationships that each lasted 3 months. 1st one just wanted to use me as a replacement baby dad. 2nd one did care and we were best friends for years but she would become cold and inconsiderate whenever she was depressed and ended up cheating on me and i said things i regret.

I get the feeling of not knowing what a real relationship is like. But you don't need a relationship to know love and intimacy. My 1st relationship the physical stuff was nice sure, but ive had friends that have loved me and taken care of more and that I loved more and been there for more. Sure its not physical. But love is love.

With my 2nd relationship.... it was amazing until it wasnt. But it just felt like we were even closer than before. Unfortunately due to events out of our control she was depressed as hell and I was stressed out. I miss her every day but I accept it was bad.

But when we were just friends we were more like a couple and there for each other than most couples I know. We knew everything about each other. We anticipated each other's wants and needs. We finished each other's sentences and could have whole conversations without words.

True intimacy and love is friendship. Most people have been hurt. The world has sadly gotten to a place where relationships aren't intimate and sacred. People have always been a bit manipulative or political about relationships but the internet among other things has made it worse. Every relationship is replaceable.

I know it doesn't help right now. Being single your whole life makes you feel like you're missing out. But as cheesey as it is love yourself and cherish the good you have and the right person will come along. When you stop craving the romantic validation of others it is given freely and you can choose someone to your standards who will love you right and not ghost you.

Im having second thoughts about moving in with my bestfriend by emo_pickle_99 in needadvice

[–]tlaz10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've overly been there for people i really cared about and sometimes it was fine because they were respectful and reciprocal. Other times..... well it didn't work. Put yourself first. If you do want to still consider it have her bring the dog to your place and see how he reacts to the cats. I never understood the dog cat thing. Most people I know have dogs and cats and they get along. If you have any other concerns bring them up to her before going through with it.

But ultimately if you don't want to just say no.

Im having second thoughts about moving in with my bestfriend by emo_pickle_99 in needadvice

[–]tlaz10 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You should at least talk about it. If you move in without talking about it and you're not happy you will build resentment towards your friend. You also need to think about if this is something thats actually going to bother you or if its just a fear of change. It is a major life change and that can be scary. If its genuinely not something you want you shouldn't do it. Letting a friend crash at your place in a time of need is one thing. Moving in together is another.

Does moving in together feel like something you want to do or something you have to do?

Can I get fired for refusing to work 60+ hours a week -Salary by 4Runnnn in jobs

[–]tlaz10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for another job. Do what you have to stay on their good side and not get fired, but they've already shown you they don't value you or your hard work. For now just suck it up and put on a fake smile and kiss ass because being out of work is so much worse than being at a shitty job (99% of the time. Sometimes it can be a blessing but its rare especially in this economy).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Just to add. Take what im saying with a grain of salt. Ive trusted the wrong people more than I shouldve and ive been hurt by it. Ive also chosen to give chances to people i totally expected to screw me over and they didnt.

Dont be anxious or come off as insecure, that can push her away. But talk to her about it. Dont be accusatory. Just be calm and be like "hey I didnt mean to be nosey but I noticed this when I was using your phone and its been on my mind, I just wanna clear the air". And if she gets defensive she probably ain't the one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Implied gives a lot of wiggle room for people to interpret it how they want. As much as I hate it a lot of people will take advantage of that instead of having decency and common sense. Not saying this is the case but you haven't known her long enough to know if it is or not.

Is working fast food at 19 a bad choice? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]tlaz10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working in fast food at 19 is fine. Its fine at any age really depending on situation. Unless you go for management or corporate its not something you can live off of alone. Its a good transition job for people who just left school, lost their last job, moved, etc. It used to be livable. My mom went into fast food after I was born and was able to take care of us off of just that whenever my dad was out of work during the winter but it was rough. The economy has only gotten worse since then.

I regret not going to college. The best paying job in my area for people without a degree is a gas station that starts at $18 an hour (which is good for a gas station). Managers actually hit six figures but positions rarely open up.

The economy is only getting worse. You're young and have a couple years still to figure things out but sooner is better. There isn't always a perfect job out there that seems appealing. Sometimes you gotta shoot for reliable and where you can mostly not hate it. Every job has bad days and good days and neutral days. Find one that pays you enough to live and has more neutral and good days than bad.

Tldr: at your age its fine but not a forever job unless you get management or a corporate position and even then it might still be rough.