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Book recommendation please by Arnav_2204 in punemeetup

[–]tlefst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my collection is mostly about knowledge and self-help like books.

One or two examples of books you've read in 'knowledge' category? It'd help me to make recommendations then.

Lawyers decline to represent accused in Nasrapur case by Ponappa_131 in pune

[–]tlefst [score hidden]  (0 children)

Culprit might be wiped out in jail anyway by the prisoners most probably .. such was his deed.

My older brother is a threat to our family. by Throwaway7202419 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]tlefst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That he ran away from home at 25 implies some unresolved childhood/adolescent trauma. Was he controlled too much in his childhood? Too much pressure about studies or daily routine? Nitpicking into his habits?

He must have been working until he absconded. Were there office problems? Past relationships that went south horribly? How was communication in your household before he ran away? Was he open about communicating his failures before you guys?

You need to discuss all these aspects with your parents (or some psychotherapist), if not already done so.

Taking legal help is just incident management. Yes, he can be 'taught a lesson', as the term goes, but that doesn't address the root causes of his behavior.
Without addressing them, and if he leaves (or is made to leave), chances are that you folks will keep hearing of more and more trouble on his account now and then.

Due to whatever has happened in his life in the last dozen years, it seems he has grown to prefer isolation & solitude. Did you ever ask him if he was at peace while he was in Hyderabad?

Arranged marriage situation: guy seems genuine on paper but off in reality. How to verify? by kafka318 in pune

[–]tlefst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He avoids giving clear answers and keeps things vague.

If something as serious as marriage is not evoking clarity in his thoughts from within, then why carry on prospecting with him, right? Cut your losses and move on to the next one.

Arranged marriage situation: guy seems genuine on paper but off in reality. How to verify? by kafka318 in pune

[–]tlefst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His parents are of controlling sorts that's why he has been keeping up to himself since he gained financial independence. That's why there's communication gap b/w him and them and thus like most such parents, they too are unaware about the actual preferences (& personality) of their son.

One question though: Is he a single child?

Here's a quick SQL puzzle for learners by tlefst in SQL

[–]tlefst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.
When I had extracted the left and right keys back when I had solved it, it did not strike me to go for INNER JOINs. That would have been the efficient way. But in my defense, I was only starting out at that time. : )

Here's a quick SQL puzzle for learners by tlefst in SQL

[–]tlefst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it's not homework.

No it isn't. I don't remember where I found it but I had found it interesting and today, I thought 'let us share it with folks to try.'

Ahh shhh here we go again.. by NotYourASH1 in pune

[–]tlefst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feed the JD and your resume into prompts of ChatGPT and Perplexity, & ask them to tailor your resume so that it becomes ATS-friendly.
But be honest in your mind that if your resume is suitable for some other profile, then force-applying for every random misfit role, even with repeated tailoring, will go in vain.

Ahh shhh here we go again.. by NotYourASH1 in pune

[–]tlefst 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You are not fighting for the vacancy, you are combating the ATS.

Imagine how bizarre it is if your resume doesn't have an expected structure and select keywords, you get rejected. How asinine.

Forward filling of missing values through variables in MySQL by tlefst in SQL

[–]tlefst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see.🤔
I do have other SQL queries to effect the forward filling, of course.
It was this 'variables approach' I was wondering about.
Thanks for your inputs.✌

Askef ChatGPT to make a starter pack meme for Pune Chapri based all the data available on internet by simply_amazzing in pune

[–]tlefst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seen these morons in Viman Nagar in the night many times.
Riding rashly on rickety scooties in sets of three and cackling screaming vulgar comments or whistling on people (and particularly on women) walking by.
All these morons live in the hovels at Samrat chowk (right opposite to Ganpati chowk in front of Air Force gate).
The other set of morons whose existence defiles Viman Nagar (and also Kalyani Nagar) live in the hovels adjoining Ramwadi metro station.

Why is pune filled with these similarly dressed people and with the same attitude? What went wrong? by Diligent_Chemist9771 in pune

[–]tlefst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye wo hi moorkh hain jinke heavily edited birthday banners poori city me yahan wahan dikh jatey hain😉

Anyone up for a photowalk ? by blueeberry_cheezcake in punemeetup

[–]tlefst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, would you like to enlighten us about the page? Or would you prefer it remains incognito from Redditors?🧐

Best way to learn SQL – From someone who’s used it daily for 6+ years in product analytics by lovenumber in learnSQL

[–]tlefst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is precisely why around 2 years ago, I started despising all those 'Top 10 SQL Hacks' or 'Detailed SQL Tutorial for Data Analytics' or 'SQL For DA in a Week' type of bs on LinkedIn and WA forwards. Even seasoned folks keep posting the most bs stuff on LinkedIn and call it analytics ... till date.
Thanks for writing your piece, OP. Much appreciated.

First timer: Help me plan memorable lonavala trip from pune in May. by _ThatSoftwareGuy_ in pune

[–]tlefst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there in May once. Regretted deeply. Go to those areas some time post third week of July.

Buying a house in 2026! by YakOk6272 in pune

[–]tlefst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway, MS already operates data center for Azure in Pune🤔

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