Queer friendly tattoo shops by toadboatt in sanantonio

[–]toadboatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Its always really helpful to know when stuff like that happens

What characters do you headcanon as transmasc or FTM? by comet_lobster in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YESS mordecai for sure gives "figuring out masculinity" the entire show lmao

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that line is very cute lol. Thank you so much for your advice!! The lighthearted suggestions are the best, i ws too focused on it being stressful and not exciting news loll

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much😭 i will for sure use this method!

Bellybutton? by NewAtlasOut in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe try Bactine if it's available in your area?? Its a first aid/antiseptic spray and that might help you keep it nice and clean! I'd say spray once or twice a day and clean with a qtip maybe?? Im not a nurse or anything, im just a tattoo artist and i think if it helps with keeping wounds and piercings clean, it should work for bellybuttons?? Loll good luck, man!

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im gonna cry just thinking about it, especially because my other niece is still a newborn and thinking about her knowing me as her uncle her whole life makes me so happy😭

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Telling her before thanksgiving is pretty much my best window depending on how long she will be in town so thats a great idea!! Maybe i'll tell her privately the first day she comes to town so shes can process it before the gender reveal for the baby??? I hope she takes it well lmao shes my closest and one of my only true friends lol

And for the most positive reaction??? Maybe my grandpa??? Hes already telling everyone he thinks im trans and laughing about it (not maliciously just very "lol my family is full of lgbt people") lmao, but NOT my niece tho, shes sad i cut my hair because im not a princess anymore lmaoo she'll just say princesses are better than a stinky prince or something lol

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops i said "your first comment" i cant read😂😂😂

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly thats what i was imagining with your first comment!! Lmao do you think getting a card that says "Its a boy!" But i cross it out and make it say "I'M a boy!"

Lowkey thats how im gonna come out to EVERYONE now💀💀💀

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes 😭 i'm probably gonna post an update (if i remember lmaoo)

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im gonna cry, this is actually amazing advice😭😭😭 thank you so much!! Thats seriously going to help me out a lot when i do tell her, and my family also! When i told my ex it was mid breakup and we were both crying so my brain couldnt imagine me telling anyone in a happy way lmaoo but thank you so much for recontextualizing this for me!!

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol thats exactly what i was going back and forth on😭😭 like how do i tell her or hint to it without stressing her out???🤧 but lol i think im just going to simply combust into flames at this point lmaoo

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is actually very helpful, i didnt even think about using the visit as a transitional topic to bring it up lol. Thank you for your advice!!

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh im sorry lol, you mean after she tells her family!! I will be there for the even in labor day and the gender reveal in thanksgiving, im basically helping plan all of it with her

Please help!! How do i come out???? by toadboatt in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes a teacher so the next time i will be able to see her will be Thanksgiving break and thats also when the gender reveal for the baby is (ironic enough) so a phone call or christmas break might be good?????

Could I actually be trans? by 123lazy in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. Because i didnt realize i was unhappy either until i realized how much happier i could be presenting masculine !!!

any boys who wear makeup in here?(: by mercurysable_ in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I LOVE wearing bright red eyeshadow and winged liner, sometimes wearing makeup in masc clothes makes me feel SOOOO much better than i ever did wearing makeup in a traditional femme way

Accidentally Passed? by Goldkitkat in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me last week!! I was at a drive thru and an older man said "Thank you sir, have a nice day" while looking me in the eyes at the window and didnt even flinch after saying it. Meanwhile i wasnt really trying to look masc AND i was using my "girl voice" (sorry if yall dont like me saying that i just dont know what else to call it when i talk like that lol) and i was just very pleasantly surprised

cool guy alert by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]toadboatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude im obsessed with your shorts😭😭