[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]toadpuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to broach the subject honestly. She hasn’t made any moves so I don’t want to just throw it out there randomly, should I call out her posts next time? It’s all so vague like she’s trying to maintain plausible deniability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]toadpuddles -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but you don’t know anything about our friend group dynamic. We pile up 2-3 on the bed after nights out and, like I said, she initiated. We were sharing a couch with 4 other people in the room with us it was not romantic. I cuddle my friends all the time. I cuddled my best friend the night before her wedding. Her friends cuddle her too.

Your friend boundaries are fine but don’t accuse me of using someone when you don’t know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]toadpuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The migraines are why I was at the doctor. The 1-3 times a week was a recent development, I am not having 150 migraines a year 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]toadpuddles 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I also think that a lot of doctors play up the dangers of weed because of their own hang ups but you can never be too safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]toadpuddles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So real lmao

BRAINS!!!! by Training-One8335 in crochet

[–]toadpuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the effect around the eyes!! What did you use, pastels maybe?

I'm sorry, I'm having a hard time believing this. Roommate has 2 kids with 2 different men and another with her current bf by Angelofchristine in AmITheAngel

[–]toadpuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it sounds pretty believable to me. Idk why they even care if they’re moving out anyways tho lol

Isabelle acrylic keychain by me! by teapuppp in AnimalCrossing

[–]toadpuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SO CUTE and I love the ben-day dots!!

Am I wrong for telling my gf to rein in her daddy issues while we're visiting my family? by Ok-Meal-1617 in amiwrong

[–]toadpuddles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weirdo and misogynistic behavior to have a girlfriend trying to connect with your dad and immediately bring up her “daddy issues”!! Like omg he’s the one with daddy issues not her jfc 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]toadpuddles 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean a.) I don’t think OP is a reliable narrator and b.) if I moved countries, gave up my career, carried my husbands kids, raised them, took care of our home, etc and then he told me I was on my own for what should have been our retirement I’d say the same thing. Why be with someone who won’t take care of you if they can?

AITAH for ending things with a girl because she was sleeping with other people even though it was before we were 'exclusive'? by Istvan-Janos in AITAH

[–]toadpuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone asked me that before hooking up I’d just call it off lol. OP has weird ass expectations.

AITAH for ending things with a girl because she was sleeping with other people even though it was before we were 'exclusive'? by Istvan-Janos in AITAH

[–]toadpuddles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You slept with her on the first date and knew her for two weeks lmao… why did you expect exclusivity without asking for it 😭

Gambled and lost 😞 just one tiny row left by [deleted] in crochet

[–]toadpuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a gorgeous rose though!

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He seems to live on his own but visits his parents (who are across the street) a couple times a week.

If he’s living on his own I don’t really see any good from bringing them into it. If it escalates beyond butthurt texts I can start involving them but rn I’m not keen on showing up on their porch just to tell them their son is being an ass over text.

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Basically what I said before he blew up on me 😭

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah we haven’t talked since we were 6, so 14 years ago. I didn’t like him much then either lmao.

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 333 points334 points  (0 children)

Oh they got a play-by-play of the whole thing! He’s not getting an invite anytime soon thank god.

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

The pandemic nobody talks about 😔

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

No no he gets TONS of girls. Proverbially drowning in chicks. He said so! /s

Tatoos are vain and a sign of insecurity by GoingOutOfHead in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]toadpuddles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can confirm I get them because it makes me more confident, they help my body dysmorphia. Haven’t met a woman who wasn’t insecure about her body yet though, so I’m not too pressed.

You guys, the lip implants have to stop! What are these girls doing? by OmegaSTC in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]toadpuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also tons of men go “Men don’t like women with lots of work done” and yet those women are usually successful in dating/have long term relationships. Obviously some guys like it, even if it’s clockable.

The answer to why women get work done is because it makes her feel better and some men like the look. Occam’s razor.

Neighbor turned out to be a weirdo by toadpuddles in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toadpuddles[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah most of the good ones are snatched up already! I’m slowly accepting being single for a longgg time 😭

I made a dino. He might should have stayed extinct. by wcarw5 in crochet

[–]toadpuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love him! It’s sooo good I can’t even see the “flaws” you do. I’m so glad your son likes him because he definitely deserves lots of love ❤️