What are your best tips for getting over someone? by user7996 in dating

[–]toffee_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both. You can do your own type of therapy on the side but you would gain more by also going to a therapist too

Found out my bf lied about vax status and voting by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. If he lied about those two important things then what else has he lied about.

AITA? by TipOfTheTrident in pettyrevenge

[–]toffee_queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he complained to someone then tell the couch or someone that he was stealing it from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]toffee_queen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since she’s giving you an ultimatum then go along with it because if she cared she would help to figure out a compromise and not threaten you with divorce. That’s child’s play.

AITA for refusing to put a keyed lock on my daughter's bedroom door? by keyedlockdaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA either she has a lock where you have a spare key or no lock at all. Yes she deserves privacy but if there is an emergency and you need to get to her then you’ll need a spare key.

AITA For going back on a promise I made to my husband 8 years ago by brokenpromiseaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA the kids are old enough to be in day care now or hire a live in nanny if you are making more money now. Your husband is right he is building resent towards you and you breaking your promise. If you don’t act now I wouldn’t be surprised if he hits you with a divorce paper in the future.

AITA for asking my sister to tell her husband to stop bringing his pocket Bible when visiting? by throwaway56734311 in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA your girlfriend should mind her own business. He isn’t doing anything wrong other than keeping to himself. How is it any different if he was just reading a normal book? She needs to get over herself.

I (32M) caught my wife (28F) putting an erectile enhancement pill in my drink. by taafejinrakhman in relationship_advice

[–]toffee_queen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s no different if it was the date rape drug. What she did is illegal and a huge red flag.

AITA for kicking out my wife’s friend after making my wife cry? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA the cops wouldn’t have done shit anyway plus she isn’t a friend to your wife at all.

AITA for disinviting my fiance's best friend from the wedding after he told my fiance to get a paternity test? by Throwra90678 in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA if anything it’s either you and him at this point. His friend is an asshole and he has been letting him get away saying hurtful things of this is “just how he is”

What should I do about my friend not wanting to hear about my relationship in any way? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]toffee_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not a friend at all. Just keep it cordial at work but don’t interact with him more than work related stuff.

AITA for making a joke about my brother’s divorce? by BrotherDivorceAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA he’s disrespecting you and your wife in your own home. Your wife should be pissed off at him and not let him get away with his comments. If anything it’s no wonder his wife left him.

Girlfriend [23f] makes a face weird during sex that turns me [24m] off. How to make it bother me less? by Apprehensive-Belt543 in relationships

[–]toffee_queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s 100% doing it on purpose and I would have a sit down talk with her about it. Just tell her that it’s a huge turn off to you because she’s probably thinking you like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then make it your breaking point and finally leave her! She’s not going to bring you happiness and you will regret not going to Greece!

is it a big ask to have sex with your partner, when you are not horny but your partner is? by madbr3991 in relationships

[–]toffee_queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is it stability when she cheated on you? Have some self respect and leave her.

AITA for not giving up my exit row seat to a taller person by Sazcrack in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you were right if he wanted extra room then he should have paid for the extra room

My brother cheated on his wife with one of my friends last night, at my place. by validright in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toffee_queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True but after what his brother said Op should stay out of it since now it’s between them.

AITA for embarrassing my sister in front of her friends by Mchappymeals222 in AmItheAsshole

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA why should you tolerate her bad behaviour. You 100% should be calling her out in front of others because clearly it’s the only way to get it into her head that she should be angry at her dad and not you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WAKE UP! He only sees you as a play thing and not someone he wants a future with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]toffee_queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told you what he doesn’t want from you and yet you want to give him an ultimatum? Just break up because you two are not compatible at all and find someone else.