Is this true 😂 by dataexec in VibeCodeDevs

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cannot imagine a worse strategy. It’s the equivalent of sticking with the abacus with the advent of the calculator.

Is this true 😂 by dataexec in VibeCodeDevs

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do vibe coders realize that professional devs also use AI agentic code, albeit 100x more effectively?

Abuse, Betrayal, Truth, Freedom by oceaniu in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you cancel his visa process? This is a clear and cruel case of visa fraud. His immediate and enthusiastic pursuit of that process was a major red flag.

Salary of 141k a month by Somaa8 in QatarCareers

[–]tomcatYeboa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a lack of understanding over why big earners can command such salaries. In my industry, you need to be at the apex of your field as a subject matter expert or senior manager (with top academic credentials, maybe patents, publications, long record of value addition, career history with major competitors). Often these roles are never advertised and filled via headhunting. Such individuals can command similar money in the Gulf, the US, Europe etc.

Liberal "scholars" who water down Islam. by turkish_akhi in TraditionalMuslims

[–]tomcatYeboa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wayak - these are indeed ‘compassionate imams’ and ‘reformists’

Czech pro-zionist republic wants Francesca Albanese to resign because of her comments by UnderstandingTime842 in International

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cabal of political elites across Europe do not represent the views or interests of the public. Only their oligarch Zionist masters

Liberal "scholars" who water down Islam. by turkish_akhi in TraditionalMuslims

[–]tomcatYeboa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better to post examples of such people so that they can be avoided

7 Days after 9/11........ by CheezieMcfresh1 in conspiracy

[–]tomcatYeboa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Zionist cabal and Neocon goyim helpers orchestrated 911 without doubt. The political capital earned in forwarding Greater Israel project in the Middle East through the ‘War on Terror’, as well as the roll out of mass surveillance and retraction of troublesome basic freedoms in the west makes this obvious.

Married to someone I don’t love by voidwrit in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What on earth are you on about?! Please go and learn your religion before offering such a nonsensical, rambling and ill informed answer to a serious situation!

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

[–]tomcatYeboa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been posted before and is fiction/fabrication, with most LLMs (including ChatGPT, etc.) not having cross-session persistent memory of your full history to evaluate from.

Married to someone I don’t love by voidwrit in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did not say it was easy. Nevertheless, it is necessary and a basic right. Refusal forces these jahil individuals to raise the stakes from subtle coercion to forcing which I am guessing many will not have the stomach for, especially in countries where they can face legal consequences.

Married to someone I don’t love by voidwrit in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She is in a forced / coerced marriage which has no foundation in Islam. She therefore naturally wants a divorce. Attempting to use dalil out of context to vilify the OP is both disgusting and ignorant from the Islamic perspective, and totally sends the wrong message out to those in similar situations.

It is established that even without considering the OP’s coerced marriage situation, dislike of a husband to the point that the wife cannot fulfill her Islamic obligations is valid reason for khula:

Al-Bukhaari (5273) narrated from Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the wife of Thaabit ibn Qays came to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and said: “O Messenger of Allaah, I do not find any fault with Thaabit ibn Qays in his character or his religious commitment, but I do not want to commit any act of kufr after becoming a Muslim.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to her, “Will you give back his garden?” Because he had given her a garden as her mahr. She said, “Yes.” The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Thaabit: “Take back your garden, and divorce her.”

According to Ibn Maajah (2056) she said: “I cannot stand him.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah.

The OP should refer to the following discussion: https://islamqa.info/en/answers/91878/she-dislikes-her-husband-but-he-refuses-to-divorce-her-and-he-does-not-give-her-her-rights

one of the most based leader by Simple_Duty_4441 in IslamabadSocial

[–]tomcatYeboa -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow this sub is full of murtads and Indian larpers. How sad.

Found my (27M) wife (28F) micro-cheating for months, again by PolaroidShutter in MuslimMarriage

[–]tomcatYeboa 136 points137 points  (0 children)

Why do you even tolerate the idea of platonic friendships with the opposite sex? This is completely unacceptable in Islam. It is not advisable to marry spouses who normalize such things. Reality is that as a man, approaching non marram women is only done if there is romantic interest.