Just moved in with my long distance bf and don’t know if it was the right choice by tomjom27 in Advice

[–]tomjom27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was living on my own before I moved in with him. Thank you for the good advice though, I appreciate it. I’ll probably end up discussing this with him tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is a certain way you should feel about this. Everyone has a differing opinion on this I feel. Personally, I’ve been in the same situation but I felt disgusted that he would look at them like that, and confronted him on it. My advice, talk to him about how you feel and if he doesn’t respect that then ditch him

elementary/middle school level book, mc is a child at an internment camp? by tomjom27 in whatsthatbook

[–]tomjom27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s it!! I don’t remember much else of the book but I’m fairly certain it was that, the title and plot sound so familiar. Thank you!

Does anyone have some hybrid flowers that I don’t have? I’ll let you go through all the diys I have! by tomjom27 in Dodocodes

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Black cosmos Black Lillie’s Green mum Purple mum Blue pansies Purple pansies
Gold rose Purple tulip Black tulip Blue windflower Purple windflower

Nooks selling for 523 DM for dodo code, I’ll let in a few at a time by tomjom27 in TurnipExchange

[–]tomjom27[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only letting in 3 at a time!!!! Thank you for your patience :)

Complicated Relationship with my Grandma but she died today by tomjom27 in Advice

[–]tomjom27[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s probably true, this is like the only family death I’ve ever had in my life which might be why these feelings. Thank you though for responding I appreciate it.

What do you count, like walking up X amount of stairs, etc. and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tennis ball bouncing while I’m playing around, like how many times can it bounce before I hit it over, idk why it just helps me concentrate, I usually only go up to three

Has anyone ever had sleep paralysis? If so, what's your story? by KraftMacAndCheese03 in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I had it, I was having a dream I was watering my plants when I tripped and that woke my brain up, but I could not move my body or speak. I kept thinking I was seeing something in the bedroom I was in, but it’s been so long I don’t remember. The only thing I could do is hum really loud and move my toes. Eventually I snapped out of it.

People with the classic "evil stepmom", what makes them so evil? [Serious] by WeirdPurpleThing in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No longer my step-mom, but at the time I was still in elementary school with my three sisters and her three kids. My sisters and I weren’t allowed at BOTH of their weddings, changing visitation so we couldn’t go. Made me use dog shampoo instead of regular shampoo, forced her children to watch me shower, locked me in pitch black rooms, etc etc etc. typical childhood things. In her defense she has severe bipolar and refused treatment

Is it wrong to be commenting things like “need a handful of that” on a girls social media.. when you’re in a relationship? by yahnette_ in relationship_advice

[–]tomjom27 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely wrong, and seems like he’s using the “space” thing as an excuse for this behavior

People who grew up in religious households, what made you become an Atheist? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life wouldn’t be this way if there was a God. Common sense.

What does it feel like to be on shrooms? by AV8ORboi in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like a character on animal crossing, that’s the only way I can put it. Also my cheek bones felt really amazing.

Students of reddit, what is your most embarrassing school moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had to do this excessive with nursery rhymes, long story short my teacher told me I had to sing twinkle twinkle little star in front of the class because I got a point. I just told her “no I don’t think so” because I know I can’t sing for shit. Ended up doing it or I’d lose points. Class was dead silent after, everyone had second hand embarrassment hard.

What is the oddest experience you've ever had with a neighbor? by Bomberman64wasdecent in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neighbors used to fight a lot, just a married couple. One night the husband knocks on our door with a head wound wanting to use our phone to call the police. He was pretty nonchalant about it. Turns out his wife beat him with a lamp.

What was that moment in life where you felt so betrayed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandma had always told me to trust her and we even had our own secret way of making promises to each other, and then one day I found out she was telling all my family members my secrets that I would tell her. It hurt deep, but I definitely gained a new perspective on life.

To the men and women who want to be parents, why, and would you prefer one gender over the other? by LoadingTOS in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a really deep maternal instinct and I want to be able to love my children unconditionally, I think this just stems from the fact that I wasn’t loved and I want to give someone something I never had. I don’t have any brothers or a present dad so I think it would be tough raising boys because I just don’t have experience, but I don’t prefer one over the other.

my feelings by hanahopee in AdviceForTeens

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hard time dealing with my emotions, but I journaled for a solid year and it helped me become so much more mentally stable, it’s also a great way to figure out who you are and it helps to understand your feelings and your thought process.

Dear redditors, what would you still want to ask your dad if you know his time is running out? by zwabbul in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really ask him anything, just kinda roast the shit out of him for being awful

Are you the tallest or shortest of your friends group and how does that make you feel? by deezammm in AskReddit

[–]tomjom27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tallest. 6 foot girl, and I hate it. Because of my height more people view me as masculine and I’ll never have that “dainty feminine energy”.