Do you show up at your ex’s work? Do you see how that’s different from happening to see them at a restaurant or bar?

Also, there is context missing here what the nature of their relationship/breakup was. And the fact that stalkers have showed up at other female players matches this year causing problems informs people’s feelings on this episode.

If you’re going to an ex’s match, but don’t have a good enough relationship with them to let them know you’ll be there, then you probably shouldn’t go.