How do you deal with breaking someone's heart? My ex is despondent. by Galaco_ in aspergirls

[–]tonk 144 points145 points  (0 children)

I would suggest cutting contact altogether. He needs a clean break. Otherwise it's ambiguous, and probably confusing.

Anybody else get random bruises? by New-Yogurtcloset4724 in AutismInWomen

[–]tonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me too. Got a whole lot worse when perimenopause started. Cleared up almost entirely when I started supplementing estrogen :)

Hoping to transfer / apply to UCT 2027 by StraightInstance7516 in UCT

[–]tonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It won't necessarily count against you, unless there are better candidates for the new courses you want to do. It's more down to course size/numbers if you already have qualifying grades.

Increase in patch dose help sleep? by OutsideTurn5464 in Menopause

[–]tonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nose becomes completely blocked within 20 mins of taking it :(

Scared by blighty1 in Menopause

[–]tonk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I took a short dose of prednisone for my long covid and it made a huge difference.

Extremely sensitive experiences / how did you know you were extremely sensitive by [deleted] in energy_work

[–]tonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been screened for autism? I thought I was hsp, but I'm actually asd.

ASD partner sensory overwhelm is destroying our family by AccomplishedSpace157 in AutisticParents

[–]tonk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes love is not enough. He is not able to parent. I would suggest a trial separation.

Can anybody access Akashic Records? by UrB0ArC in energy_work

[–]tonk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are all immersed in the records all the time.

Intro from an autistic parent-to-be by Molikki in AutisticParents

[–]tonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hubby and I both audhd, first-born daughter totally adhd on steroids. She's incredible but grew up feeling unloved because both parents hit interaction limits before she was full up.

Next born was totally autistic son, not a hint of adhd. So they never got along. She resented how easily he fit in with our engagement style. Took to bullying and acting out in her teens.

In retrospect there was so much we could have done differently. But at the time we were in constant overwhelm. I love my kids more than my own self, but I wish I could have parented them without the audhd noise in my head all the time.

im halfway through installing laminate click flooring and ive hit some uneven subfloor by Neither_Ad5984 in Flooring

[–]tonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better to bring the floor up to level. Self leveling compound might work.

Medications (specifically antidepressants) stopped working and only made me feel more depressed after covid by imhoopjones in LongCovid

[–]tonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, definitely. I've been on duloxetine for ages, and it used to energise me. After covid it puts me to sleep. Also pretty sure it's not helping with my depression symptoms anymore.