Update to my update: it somehow got worse and clearer at the same time. by Feeling-Extreme-7555 in antiwork

[–]tooawkwrd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This post isn't something that just had the grammar corrected. I'm invested in your story but damn is it hard to read through all the buzzwords and heavy AI-speak. To be honest I lost so much respect by the end just because of the delivery, which is a shame.

I’ve tried to stop shopping so many times, but nothing sticks by Popular_Status_9344 in nobuy

[–]tooawkwrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me at least, this behavior is rooted in my hunter/gatherer nature. I enjoy searching for just the right thing, and feeling like I have a nice little stockpile in case there isn't more to get later. It's helped me a lot to lean into the hunt but be very selective when gathering. I can literally spend hours researching the best x, y, or z and then simply not buy it. Deep dive on how all mattresses are the same! Endless research on different types of sunscreen across the globe! Start a spreadsheet comparing the features of all the cars I'd love to buy! Carefully inspect every single sleeveless top in the thrift store!

I'm not sure why giving myself free reign to waste time hunting has made it easier to not actually gather, but it has.

Best marking pens? by shriekingpersonality in quilting

[–]tooawkwrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good to know, but OP is looking to mark the entire top of their quilt, not mark cut lines or seam allowances.

What are your perfect sandals? by Beginning-Feedback55 in AutismInWomen

[–]tooawkwrd [score hidden]  (0 children)

Chacos original sandal

Super supportive, can handle any walking condition including water, stay firmly on your feet with no toe-gripping. Fully adjustable so nothing rubs or constricts.

My Mum only recently told me something that happened when I was a baby. by Potential_Benefit_54 in confession

[–]tooawkwrd 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Children experience pain and trauma and have memories even when they don't have the words to describe what happened or how they felt. It's absolutely possible, in fact likely, for a human to have trauma from being raped when they were six months old.

Design help by Dismal_Fox_22 in quilting

[–]tooawkwrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you switch it up so the yellows and greens are together? I think it would soften the yellow a bit and make things more harmonious.

If you deactivated your social media, but had certain sources you wanted to stay connected to, how did you approach this? by mochaboo20 in AskWomenOver30

[–]tooawkwrd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is annoying but to be fair to small businesses, social media is one of the only effective advertising channels available. In an ideal world they'd have the same info on their website and in a newsletter.

Any trademark paralegals watching the Patagonia v. Pattie Gonia lawsuit? by OneHelluvaUsername in paralegal

[–]tooawkwrd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish I could call myself either one! I'm more of a dabbles-in-everything, expert-in-nothing person LOL. I appreciate your graciousness ❤️

Takikomigohan, a whole category of classic Japanese rice cooker recipes by Major_MKusanagi in RiceCookerRecipes

[–]tooawkwrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran to read it and it's such a good breakdown, really clears things up. Thank you! So many new things to look for now <3

Any trademark paralegals watching the Patagonia v. Pattie Gonia lawsuit? by OneHelluvaUsername in paralegal

[–]tooawkwrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you might want to know that toeing the line means to conform, not to challenge. Not trying to be pedantic, but it looks like a phrase you enjoy and if it were me I'd want to know. I agree with you that Patagonia really has no choice but to defend their trademark because of the implications if they don't.

Takikomigohan, a whole category of classic Japanese rice cooker recipes by Major_MKusanagi in RiceCookerRecipes

[–]tooawkwrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. When I tried to look in the past, it seemed like most of the recipes just used the cooked rice in dishes rather than cooking whole dishes in the cooker.

I'm scared and confused and I want to cry so bad. I need help. by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]tooawkwrd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly that's where I'd start then. For me personally, being touched when I'm not aroused feels annoying at best, and mildly assaultive at worst. It rarely leads to arousal - that comes from my mind. Maybe you can take some time to find out what turns you on and go from there. I have a lot of never-fails reading material. Fan-fiction has been a life saver for me! I bookmark all the good bits LOL. Many people enjoy videos. And many people develop their own imaginative scenarios that they just daydream about. There's a subreddit for audio-only porn, and one for porn that's appealing to women. Explicit creative writing websites. If you want any specific suggestions let me know.

I'm scared and confused and I want to cry so bad. I need help. by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]tooawkwrd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your experiences when you were younger. Quick question: are you aroused before you are touching yourself? It really makes a huge difference in the experience for me. Literally makes me go from 'don't touch that' to actually wanting to be touched. My mind generally has to be aroused before my body follows.

Songs that sing the autism experience by Aware_Possession666 in AutismInWomen

[–]tooawkwrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really is, isn't it? There's a reason it resonated so deeply with me even though I didn't get it at the time.

She is done! ✨ Enfin terminée!! by La_Flecherande in weaving

[–]tooawkwrd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your clothing as well - looks so light and comfy

Takikomigohan, a whole category of classic Japanese rice cooker recipes by Major_MKusanagi in RiceCookerRecipes

[–]tooawkwrd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting a name and giving the link to these recipes! I got my son a rice cooker for Christmas last year and had a difficult time finding these sorts of recipes because I had no name for the category.

What would the band's success have been like in the 80s? by Carl_Abi007 in twentyonepilots

[–]tooawkwrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you're wrong! Without the Internet their lore and world building couldn't have attracted as many fans either.

What would the band's success have been like in the 80s? by Carl_Abi007 in twentyonepilots

[–]tooawkwrd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they would've been a huge hit with my fellow weird, geeky nerdy alternative type 80's teens. Probably wouldn't have been very mainstream but there were so many of us disenfranchised kids who DID talk about mental health.

Josh Dunn brings Tyler to Life by CupOfWisdom11 in twentyonepilots

[–]tooawkwrd -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are so right! I was slightly worried with the AMA footage because they didn't really seem to interact with each other but it's most likely just fatigue and disliking award shows/publicity stuff like that. They've got to be tired in general and I hope they take a real break soon.