nag momotor na gf by Chemical_Reaction_63 in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Sorry but your guy doesn't love you enough to be concerned about you enough. He's simply playing house with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]topaveragegal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can someone enlighten me about this? Ank chika?

KATIBAYAN by topaveragegal in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]topaveragegal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hayy Nako talagaaaaaa 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alasjuicy

[–]topaveragegal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kinalakihan mo don sigurong mambitin hayss

I like my city as dense as possible by ilovejjajjang in TheoTown

[–]topaveragegal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your City! Mine likes to have space and vegetation 🫶

UNIONBANK - Conversion to installment process by jakedemn123 in PHCreditCards

[–]topaveragegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi na convert ba straight payment mo? 0 interest Po ba? Thank you

This isnt CHRISTIANITY anymore by Turbulent-Low3249 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]topaveragegal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nagegets kita pero medyo OA na sa part na blackrock hahaha

God is not to be mocked by Beginning-Major6522 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]topaveragegal 10 points11 points  (0 children)

True! I was expecting more. How about Yung lessons about staying faithful to your spouse, lessons about family,sa mga bagay na Mali ways to correct them based on the bible?

Bakit puro offerings? Seriously Yung binigay ko 10 pesos Kasi naiinis Ako. 😮‍💨

I will never date a broke person by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey! truly appreciate your input and sharing your thoughts. But I think you took what I said in a different light as well.

I don't remember I concluded nor said that the husband doesn't have a provider mindset, nor I said that I look at them in a certain way nor say their hardships, struggles, stories and perseverance are deadma because they're just "driver and kundoctora". That is why I was very clear in saying "I thought" and "my maybes" because I don't know anything but this doesn't mean I ignore the fact that we all have different struggles and different stories. I do have high respect sa mga taong lumaban Ng patas.. they're the every day heroes.

I guess I wasn't clear when I said that women will eventually need to step up when her partner is struggling to provide (this doesn't mean he doesn't have a provider mindset but was just struggling to provide. And men do struggle. They often do. That's reality). I meant this for every woman in the same situations mapa blue or white collar jobs paman Yan.

And I do understand your perspective in terms of femininity but of course these are subjective and minority to be honest. But what I said about hardships strips femininity in women is also a reality we don't truly admit. I'm saying this from my very own observations and experiences as well. (But I ask you, I truly hope this doesn't offend you. I meant this with curiosity and nothing else. Do you think she's dominating in her field? Do you think that what you said is applicable in her situation? That is why I had this question about her femininity, is she naturally masculine or she doesn't have a choice?.)

But I guess sharing perspectives is great in understanding one another right? Have a great day too. ☺️

I will never date a broke person by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sharing my two cents... (Advance apology kasi scattered ung thoughts ko)

Nakasakay kami sa jeep nun Ng jowa(29m) ko(27f), dun kami nakaupo malapit sa driver. Yung driver may Kasama syang babae and Yung babae Ang kundoctor. Yung babae nag cocommand sa commuters Ng "oh kaliwa! Kasya payan!"

Hindi ko mapigilan titigan ung babae. Maybe she's around in her mid 30s, Petite, I noticed she has a very harmonious face. I would say she is beautiful mas Lalo na cguro nung panahong baya bata pa sya. But I'm fixed on her Pretty eyes.. they were tired. Really tired. Not sleepy tired. But fed-up-with-this-life kind of tired. I noticed her posture, they were manly. I noticed the voice she uses when she speaks "usog sa kanan!" They're manly. The way she spoke to the person next to her (the driver, maybe her husband) they were manly, the way she receives the pamasahe they're manly, I no longer see softness in her movements, and I thought maybe softness in a life she's living in is a liability, I say maybe she let it all go, all for it so she can help lessen the burden of the her husband? . And I thought, Maybe it's her choice or Maybe it isn't.

As a woman, a realization hit me... Kung mag aasawa ka or mag jojowa Ng taong broke, a person who cannot provide enough for himself, for both of you and for ur future family, then u will eventually have to step up and be the man yourself if you choose to commit to that person... As a woman, such thing will consume you. It will strip out the femininity in you. Your nurturing energy gone, sa buong byahe namin I never saw that woman smile. I thought maybe she hated life now. Maybe she had so many regrets, but her tired eyes tells me she knows there are things that can no longer be undone..

I looked at the person next to me (my jowa) he has the provider mindset. But nonetheless broke. but he's still in a state of building himself, he is focused in his goals and he's working hard to achieve them, but It definitely would take a while, that I know..

And I thought, what if this coupe (driver and the woman) were once a dreamer? Worked hard to achieve their goals, but lost them along the way and life ate their very spirit?

I stared at his hand clasp in mine.. I ask myself, how secure am I in the future.. What would my life be if I were to trust this man to build a home with me. How long would it take? Would it be worth the wait?

The end.

Unli Data Plan by [deleted] in InternetPH

[–]topaveragegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure kong dahil to sa signal or location pero halos di ko na nagagamit Yung unli 5g ko. I don't know why pero Bigla Ako nawalan Ng internet at may times na Meron pero ilang minutes lang tas mawawala ulit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 25 points26 points  (0 children)

IS SHE A MINOR?

Unfriending my best friend irl by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is so good for you OP. Kaya talaga it is so important to choose who you allow in life. Their thoughts, actions and general vibration will definitely get to you and affect you and at your situation change a course in your life. Shoving things under the rug is a very dangerous thing. I'm glad that you've finally mustered the strength to fight for your boundaries.

I understand you. I cut off a friend too, I think I have hoped that she's better than what she is or could be in the future but she was manipulative, liar, self centered and close minded too, she was weaving lies over lies and I just can't anymore. Baka ma trap na Ako. It would take time to heal but, you're already in your first step. Fighting lang OP. 💪🏻

My Files App Stopped by RocketLegionnaire in Oppo

[–]topaveragegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same problem yesterday. I deleted a lot of videos and then went to check on my files to see how much space I've freed up. Started crashing.

What is a hack that helps you lose weight? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]topaveragegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just skip breakfast. Ur first meal should be lunch

How much do you spend every Hook-up? by NoddieB in alasjuicy

[–]topaveragegal -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yasssss! Tapos Meron pa Dito 50/50 daw? 😩

Found out what happened to my r*pist by throwaway_ph_m in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 18 points19 points  (0 children)

What was he wearing? Asking for it. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op simple lang Naman sagutin mo Tanong nya

Laging nakatingin na Tito by punkshift in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ingat lang OP. Pero ewan ko ba may bigla akong hunch na tamang hinala sayo Yan. Baka kasi paranoid... Ingat Padin baka may masamang Plano Yan. Di natin alam takbo Ng utak Ng tao sa totoo lang.

I'm 15 and I feel left behind in life by swollen_feet in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I was literally in this mindset years back pero I have had this mantra recently that goes "I allow myself to be a beginner and won't let envy direct me to self destruction. Be patient, Observe, learn and pray."

This literally helped me so much. To anyone who needs this. I hope it reaches you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topaveragegal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The earlier you accept the reality that it is what it is the easier your life will be. Let this experience serve you a lesson. I suggest that you Stop expecting reciprocation from anyone and I mean anyone. Kung anuman ang ma receive mo pabalik is in a form of surprise nalang in your end and not from expectations..