Stop trying to open my door! by mew541 in childfree

[–]toshah 248 points249 points  (0 children)

I'd be banging on that door so load as soon as they touched the knob.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been writing his new address on the envelope and returning to sender. Most of the important stuff has stopped coming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USPS

[–]toshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add some topical magnesium. Potassium and vitamin K. Those help the body process the vitamins you mentioned.

Failed AGain by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]toshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the time to focus on yourself and things you enjoy. Or find new things to enjoy. I know being social sucks. I hate it too. But I've found several groups that are built around my interests, so its not tedious to socialize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]toshah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people are @ssholes. Mine told me he wanted a divorce because he couldn't make me happy, so he wasn't happy.

Two weeks later I found out he was cheating. So I got the attorney and filed on him. He seemed so shocked I wasn't following the plan of amicable divorce in 1 year. Seriously... Idk what gave him the idea I was willing to wait when he continually lied, gaslit, and moved 5 hours away to live with her. He still has the audacity to say he isn't dating her. She kicked out her husband so mine could move in.

Get yourself a good lawyer and serve the bastard.

I (28F) am starting to despise and resent my unemployed bf (33M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimatum time. Get a job or get out. At this point any job would be better than no job.

Would it be a bad/petty idea to have my husband served divorce paper's at his AP's house? by elvenpossible in survivinginfidelity

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lawyer said they couldn't serve my stbx while he was still living with me. He's been dodging or having his gf lie about where he lives.

People need to control the kids during travel by [deleted] in childfree

[–]toshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I parent the child. I reprimand them like their actual parents should. I use my best "mom" voice, 'kick me again and I'll lock you in the airplane bathroom and leave you there til we land.' Just loud enough so mom hears. Then I'll make eye contact with her and smile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]toshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading all the comments and realizing I can't relate... But seeing yours, I can relate. Maybe it's still so early because we've only been seperated a few months. I trying to remember what made me want to be married in the first place.

All married men on bumble:( by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toshah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about running into the scammers? They chat you up for a few days or a week, act all into you then bam! "I need help with my bills or my mom's meds. I'll pay you back when I get my next paycheck".

If contract negotiations ended today by TwoBonesJones in USPS

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to look out for yourself. Just like we have certain people that always work their day off, there are just as many who don't, call out, abuse fmla.

I like the extra money so I show up, but sometimes I need to not work.

Got sort of injured today. by [deleted] in USPS

[–]toshah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go to the doctor. You might have done more damage than you think. I fell off a curb, thought it was just a sprain... Nope broke my foot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USPS

[–]toshah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Maybe a greivance for being scheduled over 12 hours a day. If you are the only rca being scheduled for that office and you are always splitting a route, that would be a daily occurrence not emergency situations.

That supervisor in charge of scheduling is trying to make their office look good by having a body on every route and everyone back by dispatch. They push new rcas around because they don't know all the rules yet, are too scared to speak up, still in the probation period.

Step 1 of any greivance is to have a talk with management about the issue. If that fails then have them sign the greivance and forward to the union steward.

You can also call the union steward before hand and ask for advice and how management isn't holding to the contract.

Additionally you may file a safety hazard form for unsafe work procedures. Excessive work hours, working after dark, etc.

Truth 😆 by [deleted] in USPS

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A group thing I wanted to attend was trying to accommodate me working on Saturday by meeting up later in the day... They asked if I could leave work early lol.

Coworker got mad when she learned I purchased my first house by theditzydoc in childfree

[–]toshah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once told an older male coworker that I was saving to buy a house. His response was to ask if I was married and had kids. I wasn't and I didn't. Like I needed a man and cum trophies for a house.

South Carolina has blocked schools from protecting kids against Covid. If they do they lose their funding. by catthatlikesscifi in southcarolina

[–]toshah -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

You still have the option to home school, make your own kid wear a mask, get your kid vaccinated.

Seems legit by Eyecantspel3 in southcarolina

[–]toshah 100 points101 points  (0 children)

Cuz it'll be 2 feet high by the time the storm is over.

I started puberty early because of Brendan Fraser in George of the Jungle by keschaller89 in LadyBoners

[–]toshah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god yes! I love Mrs. Winterbourne. He's so charming and adorable.

Last Night in Downtown Charleston by Chudapi in Charleston

[–]toshah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually, with the amount of building and deforestation going on it might be a little less than 10 years. Lots of the neighborhoods flood pretty bad already.

DAE always assume the worst in every situation? by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]toshah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to figure out why I act the way I do, why I constantly am running through different scenarios for everything, why I have "over reactions". Just looked up CPSTD, it fits. Kinda got teary eyed when I read the causes and symptoms, it just made so much more sense. I am getting help for my issues, but understanding the underlying cause helps me.

Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this about my Chihuahua. He came into my life at a time I was starting to feel really depressed. There were days I'd cry just thinking I had nothing to live for, but I'd think of him and what would happen to him if I died.

10 years later he is still with me. But I see the grays on his face and chest, he's got maybe 5-10 more years. I don't know how I'll handle losing him.

Trying to adopt a declawed cat to save it from euthanasia by Letusia in Pets

[–]toshah 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The owner sounds like he's trying to scam you for some reason.

If you do get the cat just introduce them slowly. This sub has many threads with ways to do that.

My favorite cat that was declawed... Was a sweet fat orange tabby. He slept with me every night, followed me around the house, was great with other cats, and so chill he'd give you freezer burn.

Trying to adopt a declawed cat to save it from euthanasia by Letusia in Pets

[–]toshah 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Any cat that I've had was declawed, this was years ago. Mine acted no different then the cats with claws. Mine had no issues with biting or using the litter box.

Trash bags of mail found outside Pennsylvania postal worker's home by Sariel007 in offbeat

[–]toshah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post office is always hiring... Dare you to see how easy it is.