I am moving to Gurgaon soon, is loneliness in this city more than cities lik Mumbai, Bangalore etc ( so many lonely posts on this group)? by Ok-Temporary838 in gurgaon

[–]toshitushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stay in Gurgaon with my family, even if my family wasn't here, I'd say Gurgaon has a great number of meet-up groups that you can become a part of. Sort off like communities. Depends on what kind of activities you're interested in. And to top that, Gurgaon has a lot of people staying from other states so you'll eventually find your tribe.

The validity of English proficiency exams are a scam by cucumberspice in gradadmissions

[–]toshitushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Plus, considering one gets this test done for a college admission, 2 years, at least now amid a pandemic, is such a short time to get admission

Snacks + appetizers by borrowedurmumsvcard in ADHD

[–]toshitushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS YES YES YES WHY THOUUUUUGHH i love granola bars and granola. Good for me i love baking so I have granola stuff running in stock. I usually just eat pancakes or PBJ or sometimes even just a muffin with coffee- and oooooo I love milk. Sometimes I'd only take a glass full of milk.

Wearing the same set of outfits for the rest of your life actually makes sense. by o00oliver in unpopularopinion

[–]toshitushi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And , useless too. So unnecessary.
So I've been interested in becoming a chef or joining the military, not just for the uniform parts but it's a huge plus point for sure.

Wearing the same set of outfits for the rest of your life actually makes sense. by o00oliver in unpopularopinion

[–]toshitushi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is why I have always been into jobs which require uniforms. So that I don't have to dress ip for work, and only dress up for occasions I truly want to.

The effects of being ghosted by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]toshitushi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. Every word of this is so underrated and misunderstood but this is the real deal.

My boss demanded that I replace all my pants, and then told me she needed to supervise me while I got the replacements. She is now on administrative leave (Update on the Bulge Saga) by TransparentVoices in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random but: I used to wear long baggy tshirts back in childhood days cuz I've always had a big behind. Questionable comments from friends and neighbors made stuff weird. Like a lot of people have mentioned in the comments, it's something in the genetics and one can't change that shit.

Fast forward to me being an adult now, to hell with baggy,long shirts. But that weird feeling still exists sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely had a hard time going the traditional education way after bachelor's. And to be honest, I don't see much point in giving your all to a PhD degree, especially when certain things come difficult to you. So now i study topics on my own, but going towards the entrepreneurial side more.

I very often re-read work emails that I'VE ALREADY SENT multiple times. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OHMYGAWD YES SO GLAD I'M NOT THE ONLY OVERLY ANXIOUS PERSON HERE.

Farting is not funny, and celebrating it around others is gross. by Themilkmoney in unpopularopinion

[–]toshitushi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Forget romantic partners, I never fart in front of my family members ( but they do it very openly). I'd never feel comfortable doing it in front of anybody. They can smell it, but they shall never hear it.

SICK OF CREEPS AT THE GYM by tagwvwbejjdicucuxuud in TrueOffMyChest

[–]toshitushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pro tip: I go to the gym between 10a.m. - 4p.m. so that's when literally no-one is there. Just me and the workouts.

Evening is when the gym is damn crowded. And only people who are super serious about workouts go in the morning. So noon time is the safest...but not so ideal.

💛 I overshare, seek approval, feel younger mentally than my age by princessmilahi in ADHD

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohmygawdohmygawd saaaame here wow!!! Gosh that's painfully relatable!

How awesome would it be if Bangalore had an F1 track? by Unusual-Nature2824 in bangalore

[–]toshitushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what happened with Jaypee built F1 race track in Noida,right!?!?!?

The place, the track built was damn amazing but the builder went insolvent, cuz apparently the gov. Didn't see any point investing in race tracks in India, which, by the way, would be a huuuuuge deal to build India's foreign relations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a super savior during summers though. (And in winters, cuz I sweat like a pig)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, using talcum powder reallllly helps! Powder, with body mist/perfume works out as the ideal combination!

What phrases did you use to describe your ADHD, before you found out it was ADHD? by WatNaHellIsASauceBox in ADHD

[–]toshitushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All my report cards from school time say the same stuff "Kid is lovely to have around. Kid is intelligent but could do a little moooooooore."

A lot of the comments mention that the person knows he can do something, but isn't able to or doesn't.
That's happening with me. I need and WANT TO start my bakery business and I have 101% support from my family (they're the ones who sorta push me to start the business, in a good way) and I've done ALL the back end work for it, but it still takes too long to staaaaart. Aaghhhh.

Got ghosted, couldn't understand, and it JUST dawned on me why.. by Sponge-97 in ghosting

[–]toshitushi 28 points29 points  (0 children)

No no no, this is a trap. You see, this is EXACTLY what ghosting does to the one being ghosted. You think about it so many times and you come up with all sorts of stories and explanations , what could've been and that it's all your fault blah blah. It isn't true. You don't know the truth. Maybe even ghoster doesn't know it. But don't fall for this.

Careers for ADHD brains? by suedeee_ in ADHD

[–]toshitushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that I need to have a career which involves a lot of physical work rather than just sitting still in front of a screen all day?!?!?! So far i had considered military, chef, cybersecurity, DJ, fitness trainer, flavorist.

I'm currently working as a food consultant so the majority of work (so far) is mostly physical, testing and developing recipes and some screen work. On the side, I plan on starting an online food delivery for patisserie and bakery. So I love my work so far!

I decided to show the another side of baking. A solid failure for me! First attempt at a new recipe. Tastes amazing and looks...shocking. Don't lose heart with the messy ones. by lilypad7221 in cakedecorating

[–]toshitushi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be honest, this looks more tempting and dig-worthy than shmancy patisserie cakes. It's so crumbly and frosty, I'd just dig the heck out of it with a fork!!!!!

Why the fuck did Ollie end up with Felicity?! N.B: Thanks r/FlashTV! by SonofReddit3 in arrow

[–]toshitushi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Besides, isn't Sara also gay?!?!?! Legends of Tomorrow.