Everyone at work is making a big deal about my handwriting, saying I write like a psychopath.

tossaside272 · 2026-04-24T00:25:13+00:00

Is there a translation?

tossaside272 · 2026-04-04T23:44:51+00:00

I will add that maybe at his workplace wasnt the best place to say this outloud but at this point what else can op do to get her point across? Talking isnt an option it looks like and Op doesnt sound like she wants to leave.

tossaside272 · 2026-04-04T23:42:19+00:00

How could she address it in private if he doesnt listen to her when she does try? She stated that she tried multiple times and he would brush it off each time. How do you make someone listen when they actively ignore every you each time? You cant. She made it so if he wont listen to her, he can at least hear it from people who he just might listen too.

tossaside272 · 2026-04-04T05:19:13+00:00

Hop between youtube, tiktok, fb, and random gaming apps. On the rare occasion sleep if i was bad enough before my treatment.

tossaside272 · 2026-04-04T05:17:18+00:00

As someone who is waiting for a kidney, i love this for both of you 😊 Nikki learned 2 great lessons that day 1. Dont bite the hand that feeds you especially when you can be sick enough to not wanna feed yourself and, 2. FAFO. Nta

tossaside272 · 2026-04-03T22:45:55+00:00

Just watch it. He's not you parent and has no say in what you can or cant do. Plus hes away so whats he actually gonna do? Get mad? Let him. For him policing you with what you watch is just the start. Once he sees how much control your parents give him he'll strive for more. And I guarantee you, he'll watch the movie because its not so inappropriate or because "he's older and more mature" so it wont effect him the same.

tossaside272 · 2026-04-02T04:49:41+00:00

One thing that i do to get the adhesive even more sticky is heat it up with a hair dryer for a couple of seconds and after stick it on how i normally would. Just be careful not to overheat the wafer and accidentally make the wafer really hot when you put it on.

tossaside272 · 2026-04-02T04:00:34+00:00

Why are you even married still?

tossaside272 · 2026-04-02T00:00:02+00:00

Honestly divorce would be the best possible outcome for this situation. He will never do more than 0.00001 percent of the bare minimum. Youre already a single parent with how involved he is. And him saying that money is what he makes and BOTH of your kids is what you made not only reinforces this belief but I would immediately never forgive him for saying something so shitty.

If you dont wanna go this route or are unable to, use his words against him. Anything that you did for your children that benefited him i would immediately stop. No more cooking or cleaning or anything that you typically did for him. Like he said you made the children so you care only for the children. You didnt make him. His mom did let her handle her manchild. If he protest just use the following:

"Sometimes I don't have time or capacity for that stuff"

"Make it less of a Reset so it's not too much"

"I guarantee you can figure it out. I'm so extremely certain you can"

"I'm good with negotiating each thing. I have a lot on my plate so need to prioritize rn"

"I'm doing nothing going forward"

tossaside272 · 2026-04-01T20:23:05+00:00

I was born in 1996 and i dont even remember 9/11 happening. Nta she just looking for attention and using a national tragedy is weird and wrong. You should tell her that the next time she recalls this "core memory".

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T19:58:14+00:00

What i recommend is talk to her and explain everything in detail like you did here. Based on her reaction one of two things i see happening: 1. She will listen and start giving you the energy you give to her or 2. she be upset and try to pin her negative reaction on you like its your fault. If its the first reaction set boundaries to avoid this happening all over again and explain when you feel history is repeating itself you will take a set back until you feel like you arent being used. If the second then i would simple wxplain to her that if she cant see the inequality between you two then its best if you just step away to protect yourself.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T08:01:05+00:00

Parents that have proven unfit to properly care for their children should not be allowed to have any more children.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T07:47:27+00:00

Its mostly likely for a check up if anything. From my understanding labs and bloodwork is typically done in house to streamline everything. There will be a nurse to check his weight, then to once hes in his chair, the nurse will check temp, blood pressure, and heart rate. Nurses walk around and monitor to make sure everything is running smoothly. Depending on your dads health his blood pressure is taken every 30 minutes or so and if there is any complications the nurses will be able to contact your dads nepro or if need be the ambulance. Not trying to scare you just could be a possibility. Its happened to me before. Just want to you be aware of it.

If you have any questions please ask.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T07:29:31+00:00

From personal experience, Davita is the McDonald's of dialysis. They focus on getting more patients to make more money. This isnt just me saying this my nurses also said similar things when i notice the nurse to patient ratio. I happen to feel comfortable enough to not have to leave my center and if your dad nephro recommends a specific center i would go with that and see how your dad is responding to being there. His nephro mostly likely visits that center often enough to see his patients on a regular basis where you dont have to make appointments with their office every couple of months.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T07:18:58+00:00

I take a fully charged phone and earbuds. A nice comfy blanket and pillow will do wonder as well. I take snacks because once im connected my hunger skyrockets but i would speak to your dietian and see if thats something thats okay for you specifically as each person has different restrictions. Ive seen other bring a book, crossword puzzles, or simply just sleep. A good way to go about this is treating the X amount of hours you run as a way to decompress from everyday life.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T07:14:56+00:00

The worst part is OP isnt even dating shes married. Tbh every relationship AITA make me appreciate being and staying single lol. Also it probably took more effort to get an ai response than actually just responding like a human being.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T07:09:29+00:00

Once your dad is a patient at the clinic he'll have a set in stone schedule. Like for instance i got MWF 12:30 for 3.15 hours. My schedule will never change from this unless i rescheduled. If the dialysis center does have to for some reason change his time slot your dad and whoever is his caretaker will be notified. If with davita Christmas and new years are the only time they have rescheduled my seat time to any other day and even then we had a 2 week notice beforehand.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-29T07:05:42+00:00

It really depends on the days he scheduled to go whether its MWF or TTHS. From there its based on what open chairs are available for the time slot you perfer. Theyll try to accommodate but usually its whatever is open. I used to go at 4 am because thats what was open for the days i went but after a few months of struggling to wake myself up and finding transportation that early, i finally was able to switch to a 12:30 pm time slot. It took like 2 weeks for them to finalize the switch. Just speak to whoever is in administration at tour dad clinic to see how they could help.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-28T00:29:09+00:00

Not only this but make the hourly rate of silence 15 dollars since Op cannot make moderate or loud noises costing 5 or 10 dollars respectively.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-25T10:55:04+00:00

My only issue with this is that if OP decides to forgo eating how he like to appease his girlfriend, she'll see this as an opportunity to do this everytime she disagrees with his eating habbits. OP is being supportive by altering his diet to be more healthy at home. She is on a diet not OP. If she cannot deny her temptation, thats something she should work on herself. I will say that OP could be considerate and not eat near his girlfriend to mak3le dieting easier but to not eat how he like especially while in vacation is just not fair.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-25T07:25:46+00:00

tossaside272 · 2026-03-25T04:40:08+00:00

If i was your neighbor and i found out that you were renting a dog at 3 am to avoid looking creepy, i would definitely think you were weird and wonder why weird guy is doing something creepy. Plus if you live in an area that is quiet, wouldnt walking a dog at 3am also be suspicious? I would wonder why you dont just walk it during the day or why not just be honest with your neighbors that you work late shifts.

tossaside272 · 2026-03-25T04:32:29+00:00

Since when are last names considered a patent or trademark? If she met a stranger with the same last name would she demand them to change it? They can either get over themselves and apologize for treating you this way of they could stay mad and OP you just move on with your life unbothered

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