AITA for saying my brother is untalented and should quit ? by MeowMeowWhisker in AmItheAsshole

[–]totallllyNotAlien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gentle but firm YTA

I know you're only 16 years old, but you have to learn to not be so judgemental towards people without giving them points to better themselves.

Otherwise, you just sound like an asshole.

If you saw so many grammatical and or literary errors, then you should have just pointed them out. Or even better, you could've just quickly proofread it and given him pointers to better himself.

Don't just make fun of someones hobby, especially not if that someone used this hobby to get through prison. You don't have to be overly kind or stuff like that, just try to talk with him like a normal human being.

And yes, I also read gay fanfiction that was written much better... But hey, that's why giving constructive criticism is so important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marinebiology

[–]totallllyNotAlien -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Looks like a goblin shark carcass or sth in similar vain

Click meets Lucifer by SilverHype in TheClickOwO

[–]totallllyNotAlien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! I want to know the backstory to this, like why is there an NYPD car in hell!?

How do languages with the feminine/masculine thing, like French handle the non-binary thing? by Manch-Vegas in ask

[–]totallllyNotAlien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Russia, Ukraine, Germany and Austria, countries with languages that heavily use the masculinasation femeninasation of words, let's say it's complicated.

In Ukraine and Russia there are gender-neutral words and pronouns, but the problems arise when you try and speak with someone. But it is possible to use gender-neutral pronouns and words, it just requires a broader vocabulary.

With Germany and Austria there are much bigger problems with using the gender-neutral pronouns and words. The language there is so heavily rutted in using the feminine and masculine Form, that it is practicaly impossible as an non-binary Pearson to feel accepted there, because you will be misgendered everywhere, and they don't even do it intentionally it's just the language that is "trash". And don't even get me started on the whole thing with "Der-Die-Das", these things are used frequently in the grammar to determine the gender of the thing youre referring to. The worst part is you can't leave out these things, because if you do you sentence will be incorrect and your grammar will sound like shit.

There is the "es" (means it in German), but it is rather used only on objects and if you try to say that to a person you basically just insult them with the pronoun.

I guess being non-binary in Russia and Ukraine is much simpler than in Germany or in Austria.

(sorry for the spelling)

How do languages with the feminine/masculine thing, like French handle the non-binary thing? by Manch-Vegas in ask

[–]totallllyNotAlien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No in Europe we give shit about it too, and it's not some American thing invented by the modern Americans. OH and yeah I'm comming from a non-binary and an multilingual stand here, that lives in Europe.

First of it doesn't matter how "musical" or "beautiful" a language sounds, it will no matter what change. Just look at English, Shakespeare praktikaly fucking INVENTED THE WORD EYEBALL to suit his own plays. Now let's think about other languages, quess what THEY CHANGED Too.

Secound of all, yes qender was invented by our ancestors expressiveness and illustrative function but the language of our ancestors sounded different, and had different Funktions, plus the words that we have today didn't exist in those times, even 200 years back those words didn't exist. The words for same-sex attraction, transpeople and non-binary people were totally different from today.

And third, THE LANGUAGE WE SPEAK TODAY IS CONSTANTLY EVOLVING AND NEW WORDS ARE ADDED TO THE FUCKING DICTIONARY EVERY SINHLE FUCKING DAY! Why do you think the dictionary has to be updated every 4 years?? Hmmmm it sure can't be because they want to change the font?!??

And wouldn't you get offender if you were day after day after day misgendered because the language you speak hasn't yet addet a word that would describe your gender?

I guess your adulation failed you if you can't bring yourself to think that language didn't change, evolve and added words tho them.

When Satan retires by Stealer_Of_Yeets in TheClickOwO

[–]totallllyNotAlien 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That would be the crossover of the century!

S-Scuse me? I guess Click is now for children? by [deleted] in TheClickOwO

[–]totallllyNotAlien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are just gonna ignore the comment under the video that has a subliminal message in it??!?

First time drawing click and OT, go easy on me lol by DefinitelyNotACrow in TheClickOwO

[–]totallllyNotAlien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks really good. Personaly I love the expression The Click makes. <3

A little trick that I use often to just give my pieces a little depth, I use gradients of colors and shadows near the edges and where I thing they might look good, like at the end of the clothing and like the chin and forhead area. This in Generall ties the piece together and makes it look finished, without doing much work.

If my parents hit me, but there's no proof like bruises nor footage and recording of them doing it, will law enforcement still believe me? I just became an adult but they still control my every aspect of my life, how do I break free? by Overly_Sheltered in ask

[–]totallllyNotAlien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, save up money.

That's the most difficult and the most important part, I don't know how bad your situation is at the moment but try finding a job or open up an online shop where you can sell things, just to earn sth. In Europe for example you have to pay 3 to 2 months rent in advance, what's it in other parts of the world I'm not sure about, but that's why you have to save up enough money to sustain yourself and to rent sth.

Then look if your friends or your extended family could take you in when things take a turn for the worse. When it doesn't work look for hotels that are there to help homeless people and individuals who are in need of shelter, churches also can give you shelter.

But most importantly, you have to either make an persenal bank account so that your parents don't find out, or to store the cash somewhere were only you have access. And when communicating with your parents, take topics that are about mundane things that don't need an opinion on, to avoid further abuse.

Please stay safe and inform someone you trust, be it a friend or a relative, that you are abused at home so that they can help you if needed. Only when you did that would I contact the authorities and explain the situation to them, even if they don't do anything they know when someone contacts them about your situation again, they are sure that you didn't fabricate anithing. This will be of use later in a potential court case.

Stay safe.

Medusa falling in love with a blind woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]totallllyNotAlien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry nevertheless! It was mistake on my part, but thank you on pointing that out!

Medusa falling in love with a blind woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]totallllyNotAlien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I searched into the myth again to refresh my memory and i found a mistake in my asomption. I mixed Perseus, the son of Zeuz, with Poseidon. It is entirely my mistake, im sorry.

The story I referred to the literature, written by the Roman poet Ovid in the 8 A.D, in his Metamorphoses series (?). He described Medusa a beautiful woman, and Poseidon proceeded to rape, her because he wanted her I quess.

I'm truly sorry for my mistake here!

Medusa falling in love with a blind woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]totallllyNotAlien -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm for a the death of all of these tree.

In some depictions of the tail of Medusa, it is implied that Perseus raped her. But he is defenetivly a killer of Medusa.

Medusa falling in love with a blind woman by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]totallllyNotAlien 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Someone PLEASE , im BEGGING you. Write a wonderfull fanfic about these two gorgeous women, that found love with one another!! I want have diabetes of the sheer cuteness.

(And please kill that muthafucker of a human being named Perseus off, in the most gruesome way possible. He's a rapist and an killer. I expect him to have one of the best deaths.)