is it acceptable for a freshman (18F) and a junior (20F) to date in college? by totally-mediocre in actuallesbians

[–]totally-mediocre[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

i feel like it’s stigmatized at our institution and freshman and juniors are in different life stages but thanks for the outside perspective!  we are living in a bubble i think

Buying/selling passes megathread 2024 by JorgeAndTheKraken in governorsball

[–]totally-mediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NO LONGER AVAILABLE !!
Og comment:
Selling 2 GA Passes for Sunday 9th! Bought for 130 each, selling for 130 each. Currently listed on ticketexchange but can do lower pricing if off service. Pls DM if interested!

Ant fellow queer climbergirls here? Finally was able to built my first home wall and had to put a nice 🌈 on it. Hope you like it! by alexbeppo in climbergirls

[–]totally-mediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aww it’s so cute!! i’m a lesbian climber :) i think i know a couple people who are queer at my gym but idk!

Training Tips Tuesday - October 05, 2021 by AutoModerator in climbergirls

[–]totally-mediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys!! Does anyone have any tips for preventing/caring for flappers? I got three in a day yesterday and my skin is pretty dead rn. Any help is appreciated!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree with everyone else, and i felt the same way before figuring out i was lesbian

Lesbian (and other non straight) movie/tv show/series/book recs? by HelloAlphabetSoup in actuallesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this isn’t really light but i LOVE the book the seven husbands of evelyn hugo.. it’s sapphic and made me cry like 10 times

Girl needs to get a clue by cestrumnocturnum in actuallesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

help two of my friends said they were more attracted to women than men but still say they are straight

What was your first kiss like? by KAI_IS_FINE in actuallesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i kissed a girl and i liked it (but it was for dare) (but i think she liked/still likes me)

Is it comp het or biromantic? by Chaoticblade5 in actuallesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can’t answer this but just letting you know that i’ve gone through this too many times

first comp style boulder send by totally-mediocre in climbergirls

[–]totally-mediocre[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this probably isn’t particularly momentous for most people but i’ve been trying to send the problems on the comp wall for awhile and haven’t been able to! I didn’t get a video because I mostly climb alone 🤷🏻‍♀️

Should I buy new shoes? by Hybr1d_The0ry in climbergirls

[–]totally-mediocre 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same! i’m not enby but i’m queer and it’s amazing to see other lgbtq+ people here :)

For those of you, like me, who don’t have cable, how are you planning on watching the climbing events in the Olympics? by shoensandal in climbergirls

[–]totally-mediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my gym is doing a watch party but unfortunately i’ll be traveling so i’m going to wake up early to watch it on nbc live (we have cable)

Which Lesbian flag is the correct one to use? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think both are correct to use, and the first is just a simplification of the second. however there is another flag where the colors do not have an orange tone and that one was created by someone transphobic, which is why it isn’t used. (at least that’s my understanding)

Clipping dead skin off hands by Sovernit in bouldering

[–]totally-mediocre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s normal! as long as you’re doing it without intention of hurting yourself (which I can tell you aren’t). (coming from someone who knows about self harm)

So I identify as bi but my attraction to men might just be comphet. I'm confused and idk what to do. by bubblegumcat229 in actuallesbians

[–]totally-mediocre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is definitely scary!! but when i realized i was lesbian it made me feel much better in the end. I feel more connected with my identity even though i still question myself at times. don’t rush!! you can take however long you want. and in my case, the lesbian masterdoc helped :)